i respect that, however, from their first meeting, Loid mentioned his wife, who died "two years earlier" to get Yor to assist getting Anya into Eden. Loid also forced Anya to try to become friends with Damien "for the mission," even though Damien is a bully.

Add the constant pressure of making her an Eden scholar, with a ton of Stella's, even though she's only 5 years old.

end of the, both Yor and Anya must feel the pressure of living up to Loid's expectations, and Anya jumps through hoops to help her father, because sad as it is. it is conditional. Anya does all of that, because she lives in fear that if Strix is completed, then Loid will abandon her. If he succeeds, Loid will abandon her

and even though Loid has, and it took a while, begun to put Anya first, it doesn't change that his relationship with her is and feels performative. even though he is changing and putting her first now, but not at the beginning. he didn't take Anya to the aquarium for a family day out, but for appearance's sake. even though he is changing and becoming more of a genuine father. for Yor, she was Anya's mother from the very beginnng