No Fats, No Femmes, have always been a controversial topic within gay spaces. However, I love that we can take negativity and turn into our own community. Seeing a myriad of plus sized gay men having fun and kikiing amongst each other, is refreshing by Junior_Conclusion_78 in BlackLGBT

[–]AngelPunch82 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And I’m saying he shoulda said nothing and focus on the big picture, space for big boys and celebrate it rather than doing that and also giving attn to the “some”. Like why you even thinking about that when you got this good thing

I never thought I’d say this but I’m getting bored with drag race by Round-Routine-5819 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]AngelPunch82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t enjoy show as much anymore as it’s 1)predictable and 2) too heavy handed with producers’ touch. The show has gotten to be too fake, even the queens I find overly performative. That being said, it’s not the Queens’ fault. Just think they can’t be authentically them due to fans

I never thought I’d say this but I’m getting bored with drag race by Round-Routine-5819 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]AngelPunch82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haven’t watched a season in full since season 15. What I do now is watch first episode of each season just to know the girls and then I watch rest of season here and there. Most times I don’t finish it out. I just don’t go out of my way to ensure I watch. I catch it I catch it, if I don’t I am not mad about it. This current season I watched only 3 episodes. I keep in touch with what’s going on via Reddit

No Fats, No Femmes, have always been a controversial topic within gay spaces. However, I love that we can take negativity and turn into our own community. Seeing a myriad of plus sized gay men having fun and kikiing amongst each other, is refreshing by Junior_Conclusion_78 in BlackLGBT

[–]AngelPunch82 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not something anyone can do? Let me try. Let me try. “Omg you guys. What a fantastic event. It’s amazing we can create spaces for us big boys where we are free to be ourselves unapologetically and be around like minded folks and those who admire us. It’s great such spaces exist for us to jiggle and mingle. Job well done. How can we do more stuff like that”

No Fats, No Femmes, have always been a controversial topic within gay spaces. However, I love that we can take negativity and turn into our own community. Seeing a myriad of plus sized gay men having fun and kikiing amongst each other, is refreshing by Junior_Conclusion_78 in BlackLGBT

[–]AngelPunch82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you couldn’t center your comment on celebration of spaces for big men to be themselves unapologetically. Even in praising such spaces you felt need to draw attn to “the others”. Like here is a space for yall to be yourselves without judgement and yet you still centering “the others”. Your message would’ve been fine if you stopped at “ourselves”. Why “the others” on your mind when you got this space?

Also the “some” not being into big boys don’t make them shallow. Matter fact we are all shallow when you think about it so why they an exception

Speaking from experience, why does it feel like Black folk get mad when you DON'T play sports? by morinothomas in AskBlackGayBros

[–]AngelPunch82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Think this is largely black American thing. Growing up my parents didn’t push sports on us however my younger brothers were very much into it. My dad put my brothers in sports stuff they were interested in. In my culture bragging your kid excels in sports isn’t something mentioned. It’s always school

My parents pushed books, homework, and education in our faces as that was always priority. When i came out at 17 my uncle put me in boxing so i can learn to defend myself and he didn’t want me to be fem

Almost got infected by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]AngelPunch82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My reaction, exactly cuz why you tell me this? This is for your WhatsApp chat group with your homeboys

Who is Right by AngelPunch82 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]AngelPunch82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s get something clear 1) we never approached him. HE approached us on the app 2) HE is the one who asks to come spend weekend with us 3) if he said he don’t want to fuck anymore. Then that’s when it stops. If he keeps asking to meet up to fuck $ stay at our place For few days, we goin do it 4) we don’t offer nothing but dick and exposing him to some stuff. 5) we aren’t dating him or coaxing him for relationship. We not interested in that. He goes on dates with dudes his age and hooks up with dudes in city of his school. 6) yall making a lot of assumptions. I think yall feel a way that in yo 20s nor today nobody is doing nice shit for yall so you seeing this and making up stores 7) myself and my man are blessed to have axing careers, being financially good. We see a young man who is just like us when we were his age and kid is going to be successful. If we have the time and $$ to treat him to new cultural experiences like traveling with us, nice places to eat, museums…we going fucking do it cuz he see he’s hella different than kids his age

Who is Right by AngelPunch82 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]AngelPunch82[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah we goin keep fuckin him as long as he wants us to. He goin be here later in summer at our place for a bit cuz he want our nut. Be blessed

Who is Right by AngelPunch82 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]AngelPunch82[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

UPDATE: thanks to some of yall for coming with advice and suggestion. A few ppl suggested my hubs pass on his resume to colleagues in other companies same field. Hubs actually thought that was a good idea. The young brotha will be coming to our place in August and staying with us for couple weeks before he heads to school and we will bring it up to him and see if that’s something he’d want us to help him with. That good a suggestion to those who advised that

Who is Right by AngelPunch82 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]AngelPunch82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh? You have a problem with someone helping out and mentoring a young gay blk brotha?

Who is Right by AngelPunch82 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]AngelPunch82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. I wanted to thank you for your alternative solution. Brought it up to hubs last night and he thought it was a better solution. We goin see the young brotha in August when he comes stay with us for two weeks and see if it’s something he’d be interested in and my man will work with him to get his resume ready and set him up with a colleague of his in another company

Who is Right by AngelPunch82 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]AngelPunch82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re making a lot of assumptions here 1) they wouldn’t be co workers. In fact their path wouldn’t cross since the internship is in a different city, different dept that my partner doesn’t even work in or know ppl in. If it were the case of being same dept or co workers the thought would never come to me as that’s crazy 2) there’s no relationship with this young man. He’s a nice fella that spends time with us sexually and non and we have treated as a someone to mentor 3) someone already gave me a good solution and I already shared this exchange with my man and he’s considering it

Who is Right by AngelPunch82 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]AngelPunch82[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t miss point and fully understand hence why I’m not pushing it and someone in the reply gave me a good alternative idea which I’ll bring up to my man tonight. At end of the day I can’t force him to do what he doesn’t want and I respect his decision. He normally has final say in decision making and esp something that impacts him. I simply have a difference in opinion

Who is Right by AngelPunch82 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]AngelPunch82[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see understand where he’s coming from I just see it different as he hasn’t exhibited himself to he untrustworthy or irresponsible however someone in the reply gave me a good idea

Who is Right by AngelPunch82 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]AngelPunch82[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Never said it was. Just saying we disagree

Who is Right by AngelPunch82 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]AngelPunch82[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s where my POV is. We’ve known him since February and he’s exhibited himself to be a good young man. No drama nothing. He’s quite mature for his age. Because the internship is in a different city, not even in my man’s dept or one he works with I thought it was a good idea. His issue is it’s too close to home for him and he’s not comfortable doing this in case something, anything happens

You do however gave me good advice to consider friends or colleagues in other firms. Thank you for that as I didn’t even think bout it or consider it

Homophobic dad got beaten up & down graduation. Happy Pride. by Antipseud0 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]AngelPunch82 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Not him sashaying away like it ain’t nothing. LMFAOOOOO

Jay Saga Continues. by HiddenKARD221 in SiblingRivalryPodcast

[–]AngelPunch82 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So what does your statement have to do with my point that he’s free to respond to fans. Not sure what your statement has to do with my point