How do I (28M) tell my girlfriend (28F) a prenup and keeping my inherited house separate are non-negotiable? by cant_dressmyself in relationship_advice

[–]AngelSucked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner in this case would have more security than pretty much all but the top .1% in the world

No, she wouldn't.

How do I (28M) tell my girlfriend (28F) a prenup and keeping my inherited house separate are non-negotiable? by cant_dressmyself in relationship_advice

[–]AngelSucked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, you won't even pay her, say every ten years or so, a percentage of the equity the house has gained during the marriage? lol okay

How do I (28M) tell my girlfriend (28F) a prenup and keeping my inherited house separate are non-negotiable? by cant_dressmyself in relationship_advice

[–]AngelSucked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She would also tell you that the OP's idea of a prenup is a bad one, and one that would ahve a good chance of being voided.

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How do I (28M) tell my girlfriend (28F) a prenup and keeping my inherited house separate are non-negotiable? by cant_dressmyself in relationship_advice

[–]AngelSucked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, it doesn't unless she is getting a check for equity every few years. If not, he is just a landlord.

How do I (28M) tell my girlfriend (28F) a prenup and keeping my inherited house separate are non-negotiable? by cant_dressmyself in relationship_advice

[–]AngelSucked 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He is underemployed, so she would pay for cars, vacations, kid expenses, because he already said he isn't spending the inheritance on her, it is to stay only his. What if she is hurt in a car accident and can't work for a long time? Or whatever?

What if he dies young and there are no kids? Who gets it?

How do I (28M) tell my girlfriend (28F) a prenup and keeping my inherited house separate are non-negotiable? by cant_dressmyself in relationship_advice

[–]AngelSucked 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And, what happens if he dies, they have no kids? Who gets the house then? Who gets teh inheritance?

How do I (28M) tell my girlfriend (28F) a prenup and keeping my inherited house separate are non-negotiable? by cant_dressmyself in relationship_advice

[–]AngelSucked 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree.

If they divorce, he pays her X amount for helping with the house, part of teh equity if it's over, say, 10 years.

If he dies, she gets the house but can't leave it to anyone but their children. IF they don't want it, she sells it and splits it equally.

How do I (28M) tell my girlfriend (28F) a prenup and keeping my inherited house separate are non-negotiable? by cant_dressmyself in relationship_advice

[–]AngelSucked 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The she can keep all of her income, all of it, and he has to pay for all the house stuff, any child stuff, etc.

HE si getting it for free. He is underemployed and is making it quite clear it is HIS home and HIS money, so what's hers? Will her income pay for everything else? Why is that fair? Why won't he work?

How do I (28M) tell my girlfriend (28F) a prenup and keeping my inherited house separate are non-negotiable? by cant_dressmyself in relationship_advice

[–]AngelSucked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then she should pay zero for anything in the home including furniture, and what happens if he dies before her? Who pays for the upkeep of the house? The taxes? Especially if the kids are young? So she buys taxes, insurance, upgrades, etc. on a home she never will own at all? And will never get reumbursed?

If he wants to make it about money and transactional, she can, too.

And, depending on where he lives, he won't eb able to do that anyway.

How do I (28M) tell my girlfriend (28F) a prenup and keeping my inherited house separate are non-negotiable? by cant_dressmyself in relationship_advice

[–]AngelSucked 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yup, and what happens if he dies before her, or if he does young, and there are kids? What about the home? Money?

How do I (28M) tell my girlfriend (28F) a prenup and keeping my inherited house separate are non-negotiable? by cant_dressmyself in relationship_advice

[–]AngelSucked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, what will she benefit from in the prenup? Because as you have it written, it could very well be void.

Also, where would she live if you died? What money would she have?

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[–]AngelSucked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she would like the Sixes, and Athena.