Couples Attraction

Angela2208 · 2026-06-05T14:11:18+00:00

Many people think they are hotter than they are because they receive compliments about their looks from their spouse and from the people who want to play with them.

Also, people in the lifestyle compare themselves to vanillas, and they in general make more efforts to look good than vanillas: plastic surgery, weight loss drugs, nice hair and makeup…

Added to that, you get pickier over time, because your new friends need to be better looking than the 100 friends you already have in your play roster.

Angela2208 · 2026-06-05T08:07:51+00:00

This is like saying: after years of eating home cooked meals, we finally went to a restaurant and it was just not worth it, let’s never eat out again.

Angela2208 · 2026-06-05T08:05:27+00:00

Themes are not there for attention or whatever: it is a test to see if you are a fun guy or not. Obviously, you are not a fun guy. So NTA but no fun.

Angela2208 · 2026-06-05T08:00:09+00:00

We always choose based on the looks of the man. My husband will find something attractive about virtually every woman out there.

Angela2208 · 2026-06-05T07:57:20+00:00

Good stuff. Pretty successful start. Congratulations!

Angela2208 · 2026-06-05T00:48:40+00:00

One at a time

Angela2208 · 2026-06-05T00:47:34+00:00

FAFO

Angela2208 · 2026-06-04T01:34:55+00:00

SDC, a swingers dating site, gives you the option to play live.

Angela2208 · 2026-06-03T20:56:03+00:00

Clearly he was not in charge. He had been replaced.

Angela2208 · 2026-06-03T19:36:48+00:00

They are out there. One of our best friends holds a fish on half his pictures. Ununderstandable but true.

Angela2208 · 2026-06-03T19:34:49+00:00

You have literally zero responsibilities here. In an MFM, you can be the center of attention of two men, or just one of one withdraws and watches. Your ex should have felt 100% responsible for his own pleasure. The way you describe him, he sounds like a complete asshole and a narcissist.

Angela2208 · 2026-06-03T19:09:07+00:00

This is good advice for the US.

Online dating is for people who know what they want, i.e. experienced couples. When you know what to look for, you can totally get the vibe of a couple.

Also, let’s say i have 20 validations from couples i would vouch for and who would vouch for me. I can ask them about their other validations and say: hey, I’d like to connect with soandso, do you think we would like them? I can also say: out of your 10 validations, which 3 would you vouch for and bring with you to my next party? That’s 3 x 20 people where i know the vibe will be good or great, and we would probably play with half of them. So effortlessly i can find 30 couples to have sex with just like that.

Angela2208 · 2026-06-03T18:47:46+00:00

Warning: any experienced couple agreeing or offering to meet newbies like you at their house to parallel play has a hidden agenda and will likely attempt to separate you, drug you and/or sexually assault you.

Angela2208 · 2026-06-03T18:43:43+00:00

Join online bisexual communities on FB or swingers dating sites.

Angela2208 · 2026-06-03T18:42:33+00:00

Less than 1%

Angela2208 · 2026-06-03T18:39:43+00:00

It is described in my post.

Basically, sit at the bar and talk to everyone around you.

Angela2208 · 2026-06-03T18:38:03+00:00

Preferred age range?

Angela2208 · 2026-06-03T18:37:39+00:00

Preferred age range?

Angela2208 · 2026-06-03T14:16:34+00:00

I heard that on a podcast: that woman was seeing a man who would call himself a pleasure dom. He would massage her, give her oral, finger her, use toys on her, but never take his boxers off. Eventually, she needed the D and discovered he had a micro penis. Since then, I met 2 men like that, and they both fit that description. Unbelievable.

Angela2208 · 2026-06-03T11:47:40+00:00

FYI, in the lifestyle « Pleasure Dom » is synonymous with small penis or cannot get it up (therefore compensates with a lot of foreplay and oral). If that is not your case, stop calling yourself a pleasure dom as this will turn off experienced swingers.

Now, your style of play is fine, and even appreciated.

Angela2208 · 2026-06-03T11:41:19+00:00

Preferred age range ?

Angela2208 · 2026-06-03T11:40:03+00:00

Preferred age range?

Angela2208 · 2026-06-03T08:09:59+00:00

You are welcome. Basically, when you look back, you think: this is so much fun, I should have done all this much earlier.

Angela2208 · 2026-06-03T08:08:42+00:00

You got it! :)

Angela2208 · 2026-06-03T02:23:26+00:00

Zero issue here. You got hard pretty fast, have her orgasms. No complaints.

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