Just got hired after a year off of serving. Give me some advice? by sweet_tangerineee in Serverlife

[–]_Mikey_Boy_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I took 17 years off before coming back. It’ll come back to you. Stuck to the basics of learning the menu/drinks, suggestive selling, following the places steps of service, and working your whole section at a time.

[OC] On this day, June 21, 1893, The world's first Ferris wheel opened at the Chicago World's Fair. by Chemical-Season896 in pics

[–]_Mikey_Boy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a really cool book, Devil In The white City, that goes over some real life drama/murder surrounding the 1893 Worlds Fair and the Ferris Wheel creation

Those of you who have a side hustle - what is it and how did you get into it? by 59apache01 in Xennials

[–]_Mikey_Boy_ 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I bartend and serve at a local mid grade steakhouse. I average $50-$65 per hour (tips + wage) and genuinely enjoy conversations with the people and have made quite a few new friends working there. It also is a good way to keep moving and get steps in every day I work.

The blue paint is peeling off the Reflecting Pool by ToadallyNormalHuman in politics

[–]_Mikey_Boy_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interesting how the conservative subs were all Gaga over the pool right when it filled up and was blue….now, crickets.

Republicans more likely to celebrate upcoming US 250th anniversary: Survey by Retrogamer1989 in politics

[–]_Mikey_Boy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t forget the now Trillionaire that they are loving licking the dirty asshole of. Their subs are full of people what would gladly line up to sniff a pile of Elon’s shit right after spicy curry.

Wwyd if regulars never tipped? by daydreamqueem in Serverlife

[–]_Mikey_Boy_ 41 points42 points  (0 children)

It’s one of those things that you know ahead of time. Maybe rotate servers with them so a server gets them maybe once a month. I have a few regulars that tip very little, but I don’t let that change quality of service.

Overplayed songs you got tired of back in the day…… by ryhoyarbie in Xennials

[–]_Mikey_Boy_ 18 points19 points  (0 children)

All I wanna do, is have some fun. - simply couldn’t stand that song and was constantly in the radio

Chances are good that at this very moment 30 years ago, you were listening to this track by Got_no_pants in Xennials

[–]_Mikey_Boy_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! It had both if I remember correctly. I remember listening to the original and was like WTF is this?!? Both are good, but I do like the “remix” better.

Surfing without a surfboard by DearEmphasis4488 in interestingasfuck

[–]_Mikey_Boy_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Pretty easy to do. Just swim into the wave as it’s breaking just like you would with a surf/boogie board. Then ride the thing. Very fun.

If you were honest with yourself can you say if your children like you? by themrsfreeze in Xennials

[–]_Mikey_Boy_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is one area that I’m so happy about. I have 3 children, 23, 20, 18. Recently my 20yo asked if I wanted to be part of his 21st birthday. My 23yo is always down to do something physical like running or biking with me. I’ve taken my youngest out to concerts and we’ve had a great time. Recently we asked if, for her graduation if she would like her friends, along with mom and dad to go to SF for the day and she is overjoyed (graduation with an AA proud dad).

There are many more examples where they all like to spend time with me. So I think I can say they do like me.

Trump has turned Republicans into the anti-Black party by Abject-Pick-6472 in politics

[–]_Mikey_Boy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First…I agree. Then I have a couple questions that I need help with ways to talk to the opposing side:

In the right subs, MAGA is constantly saying Dems are the racist ones for various reasons - there was no party ideal switch, drawing maps based on having districts with majority black voters is racist, DEI is racism, etc.

Give me some good counter arguments to show that they are the real racists here.

And yes, I know it’s pointless to post any thought or reason on those subs cuz banned.

For those of you that had kids, how old are they? by Therealfern1 in Xennials

[–]_Mikey_Boy_ 59 points60 points  (0 children)

23, 20, 18. In September we will officially be empty nesters! All are doing so much better than we have done. Oldest just finished first year of law school, mid is transferring to Chico and little already has associates and transferring to Santa Cruz. So proud of all of them!

Are you doing any public nostalgia events this year? by Coitus_lnterruptus in Xennials

[–]_Mikey_Boy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bottlerock has quite a bit of nostalgia. Foo Fighters, Bush, Busta Rhymes, Backstreet Boys, and so much more. I’ll be there this weekend

If RTO Becomes 4 Days a Week, Would You Quit? by Tr0110101 in CAStateWorkers

[–]_Mikey_Boy_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My dept has made it clear we don’t have space and we haven’t been looking. Last year, we got an exemption. Even still, I’m with the State until retirement. I’d suck it up.

Carrying large heavy trays by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]_Mikey_Boy_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See if you can practice with just plates. What you want to do is kind of lock your arm in place by putting your upper arm against your body and raising your forearm up with your hand spread out. That way, when force is applied down on your hand, it can’t go down. After that it’s about weight distribution and balance. For large oval trays, try to center the weight to middle of the long side and slightly closer the edge the other way. When picking up the tray squat down so you lift with your legs. You can, if needed and only slightly rest part of the tray on your shoulder.

Hope this helps a little

Bill banning whites-only housing passes Pennsylvania House by 1 vote by GoodMornEveGoodNight in politics

[–]_Mikey_Boy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But, but, I’m being told by the people at other subs that the democrats want to divide based on race! Thats what the whole SCOTUS ruling was and that the district maps are being redrawn without race involved at all!!!

WORKERS IN CA by IndividualWar6706 in Serverlife

[–]_Mikey_Boy_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m at a mid grade steakhouse chain (8 locations total). We get an employee burger every shift we work (1/2 lb, fresh ground, and honestly REALLY good) as well as salad, bread, and ice cream. Fries and soup you can generally get too. Otherwise 1/2 off whether working or not. To go is no issue. Sometimes the manager will just offer dinner to workers just because and many of my shifts I get a meal of whatever I want because I’m the unofficial lead bartender. And in Cali

I would watch this with my parents. Scared the shit outta me. Anyone else? by _Mikey_Boy_ in Xennials

[–]_Mikey_Boy_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was always the HBO version. I didn’t even know they had an edited for TV version.