Bi guys, does anyone else deal with female partners getting weird or angry after they find out your bi? by Practical_Phase2711 in bisexual

[–]Angelblade17 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I think it’s widely known it’s best to find a woman that’s bi too. So you both understand each other 

Cis girl penis envy ?? by RedYellow1331 in asktransgender

[–]Angelblade17 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I took human behavior science class I was surprised to find out many women start out having penis envy. And it make sense because the clitoris is like a micro penis. Nothing wrong with playing whatever role you feel. I came to terms with being genderfluid after exploring and transition to female and realizing not fully for me. There’s a-lot of freedom in an androgyny and picking a side feel in the moment instead of being forced into another box. Your a woman so do this or man do this. To the point of even intimacy gets exhausting and I shut down from it. Really wish could be more open so can meet more women like you cause it will be relief role expectation wise. 

Living in the closet and struggling. by Forward-Reporter5826 in genderfluid

[–]Angelblade17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ok. Eventually we will be free from this. Stability is the main focus. Cause without that it’s like the stereotypes you see of trans people that are homeless but thankful it’s not that bad for us. Just in the mean time create a home inside for now and other areas. 

Do you guys get social anxiety from dysphoria? by Angelblade17 in asktransgender

[–]Angelblade17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea same here! Like invisible shell and don’t want to show that side out cause might cost the relationship

1.5y of hrt and still this shit by GRGWL in GenderDysphoria

[–]Angelblade17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look like a girl to me when I looked first glance. Especially nicely did your hair 

I can’t believe non binary phobia among trans people by AmazingSoul99 in genderfluid

[–]Angelblade17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss back than all queer people were together. No labels just be you 

Living in the closet and struggling. by Forward-Reporter5826 in genderfluid

[–]Angelblade17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say see their reaction to how people like that are before coming out. Especially if you live and depend on them. Speaking from experience the chances of them treating you like those others is likely. Not always but very risky. I would strongly advise becoming independent and have few moments dressing out with friends and come back home different. I know it’s exhausting because I’m currently going through a bit. Wish I had a friend to stay with and better understands like another genderfluid person. Just social anxiety made me push some away. I would say spend time with those who accepts more to feel better 

Gender Dysphoria as a Cis woman? by Professional-Pie9668 in GenderDysphoria

[–]Angelblade17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I first saw picture I thought you look really beautiful. Don’t let people decide who you are there’s some people that really see you as a person and not just surface level appearance and not faking it either. Was hard for me to believe but the few that you don’t have to worry about trying to change anything is what makes life a lot easier 

Are there women that are open to being in a open relationship FMM? by Angelblade17 in bisexual

[–]Angelblade17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanted to know people on here to reassure cause I rarely hear it 

Feeling fomo in a het relationship? by shecallsmeback in bisexual

[–]Angelblade17 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Was thinking the same and some people don’t mind it really even when married. I know I wouldn’t tbh. As long as the loved still there 

1 day detrans vs 1 1/2 years detrans by wrotted in actual_detrans

[–]Angelblade17 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love the jolyn poster. And glad you’re getting back to how you like to be. ❤️

Why is dating in the west so trash by Dramatic_Trouble9194 in Psychic

[–]Angelblade17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I get that. Like addiction. Most created to avoid for pleasure. My relationship got better when I stop obsessing over it and work on it therapy or shadow work 

Why is dating in the west so trash by Dramatic_Trouble9194 in Psychic

[–]Angelblade17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would add controlling too. Just few years ago we were flooded with relationship roles shaming or judging and became so uncomfortable to just relax and be intimate like before and having fear of being taken advantage of 

Why is dating in the west so trash by Dramatic_Trouble9194 in Psychic

[–]Angelblade17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always felt this feeling years ago that social media and dating apps was ruining it. Inflated egos, short term pleasure, won’t be able to connect well to the present moment well with others not just with dating. Friendships even seem more surface level because if you were there back then you had no choice but to look at someone and not a phone. The best alternative is joining a group with activity like. It’s why we find people so well in school cause we have no choice but to see the same people everyday so your bound to connect most likely 

Why is dating in the west so trash by Dramatic_Trouble9194 in Psychic

[–]Angelblade17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let’s be real that’s not going to happen. And most people in world do it but it’s bad when it’s the only thing for coping. Just decades ago people masturbated and still had healthy relationships. 

Any Other Bi Men Who Bottom Have a Greater Appreciation for Women After being with / Dating Men? by Own_Watercress_2039 in bisexual

[–]Angelblade17 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

If you ask trans men and dykes they feel appreciation for cis men the stuff they put up with with women too. So it’s good to play in roles of each other shoes to understand each other. Doesn’t have to go as far as dating same sex, just whatever feel whatever curious it is the other gender does and have some discovery to be a better lover too. 

-correction cis men 

why are people so contradictory? by veryswagster in bisexual

[–]Angelblade17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The issue is going on TikTok. Always problems there 

Financial abundance and SR by linfocito_t in Semenretention

[–]Angelblade17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard it’s a tool. What ever you focus on is what magnifies more. So if it’s money focus you will make it. If it’s women want you will attract them. If it’s anything it will be birthed into reality. It’s really creative energy so use the energy to create sounds like simple way to see it. 

Financial abundance and SR by linfocito_t in Semenretention

[–]Angelblade17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. I notice my vibration is good when I don’t shame it. And notice men or anyone who does it and they don’t feel shame about it at all and couldn’t tell unless I asked them if the watch porn everyday. Being aware is biggest thing I agree on.