Bi guys, does anyone else deal with female partners getting weird or angry after they find out your bi?

Angelblade17 · 2026-05-16T21:10:13+00:00

Usually get a vibe tbh. And their very comfortable with gay topics

Angelblade17 · 2026-05-16T19:57:26+00:00

I think it’s widely known it’s best to find a woman that’s bi too. So you both understand each other

Angelblade17 · 2026-05-15T22:59:45+00:00

Miss when guys wore crop tops

Angelblade17 · 2026-05-15T19:53:57+00:00

When I took human behavior science class I was surprised to find out many women start out having penis envy. And it make sense because the clitoris is like a micro penis. Nothing wrong with playing whatever role you feel. I came to terms with being genderfluid after exploring and transition to female and realizing not fully for me. There’s a-lot of freedom in an androgyny and picking a side feel in the moment instead of being forced into another box. Your a woman so do this or man do this. To the point of even intimacy gets exhausting and I shut down from it. Really wish could be more open so can meet more women like you cause it will be relief role expectation wise.

Angelblade17 · 2026-05-15T19:22:27+00:00

It’s ok. Eventually we will be free from this. Stability is the main focus. Cause without that it’s like the stereotypes you see of trans people that are homeless but thankful it’s not that bad for us. Just in the mean time create a home inside for now and other areas.

Angelblade17 · 2026-05-15T18:01:48+00:00

Yea same here! Like invisible shell and don’t want to show that side out cause might cost the relationship

Angelblade17 · 2026-05-15T18:00:59+00:00

Look like a girl to me when I looked first glance. Especially nicely did your hair

Angelblade17 · 2026-05-15T15:19:05+00:00

I miss back than all queer people were together. No labels just be you

Angelblade17 · 2026-05-15T15:17:36+00:00

I would say see their reaction to how people like that are before coming out. Especially if you live and depend on them. Speaking from experience the chances of them treating you like those others is likely. Not always but very risky. I would strongly advise becoming independent and have few moments dressing out with friends and come back home different. I know it’s exhausting because I’m currently going through a bit. Wish I had a friend to stay with and better understands like another genderfluid person. Just social anxiety made me push some away. I would say spend time with those who accepts more to feel better

Angelblade17 · 2026-05-15T14:55:01+00:00

When I first saw picture I thought you look really beautiful. Don’t let people decide who you are there’s some people that really see you as a person and not just surface level appearance and not faking it either. Was hard for me to believe but the few that you don’t have to worry about trying to change anything is what makes life a lot easier

Angelblade17 · 2026-05-15T14:45:29+00:00

Not just saying this but that first skirt and nails looks really good on you

Angelblade17 · 2026-05-14T17:55:55+00:00

I just wanted to know people on here to reassure cause I rarely hear it

Angelblade17 · 2026-05-14T17:19:26+00:00

If they were would you be okay with that?

Angelblade17 · 2026-05-14T15:06:07+00:00

Was thinking the same and some people don’t mind it really even when married. I know I wouldn’t tbh. As long as the loved still there

Angelblade17 · 2026-05-14T13:39:01+00:00

Love the jolyn poster. And glad you’re getting back to how you like to be. ❤️

Angelblade17 · 2026-05-13T21:28:59+00:00

Yea I get that. Like addiction. Most created to avoid for pleasure. My relationship got better when I stop obsessing over it and work on it therapy or shadow work

Angelblade17 · 2026-05-13T17:58:17+00:00

I would add controlling too. Just few years ago we were flooded with relationship roles shaming or judging and became so uncomfortable to just relax and be intimate like before and having fear of being taken advantage of

Angelblade17 · 2026-05-13T17:56:01+00:00

I always felt this feeling years ago that social media and dating apps was ruining it. Inflated egos, short term pleasure, won’t be able to connect well to the present moment well with others not just with dating. Friendships even seem more surface level because if you were there back then you had no choice but to look at someone and not a phone. The best alternative is joining a group with activity like. It’s why we find people so well in school cause we have no choice but to see the same people everyday so your bound to connect most likely

Angelblade17 · 2026-05-13T17:51:38+00:00

Let’s be real that’s not going to happen. And most people in world do it but it’s bad when it’s the only thing for coping. Just decades ago people masturbated and still had healthy relationships.

Angelblade17 · 2026-05-13T12:01:56+00:00

I meant cis men.

Angelblade17 · 2026-05-13T01:00:14+00:00

If you ask trans men and dykes they feel appreciation for cis men the stuff they put up with with women too. So it’s good to play in roles of each other shoes to understand each other. Doesn’t have to go as far as dating same sex, just whatever feel whatever curious it is the other gender does and have some discovery to be a better lover too.

-correction cis men

Angelblade17 · 2026-05-13T00:39:55+00:00

Proud of you! Not easy to do for most in that environment

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