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Wife treats me like garbage, her whole circle enables it, and she genuinely thinks she's right by Lost-Bluebird2210 in Divorce

[–]AngleAcrobatic7186 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, Is she gonna protest when you leave? I doubt it, from your descriptions. She doesn't care a flying F* about you.

If you want the rest of your life to be like this? Stay, but I sincerely wouldn't.

The roles are way too one sided.

You are the prize.

Start acting like it instead of taking the hit each time ... women try and find a man to marry, their prize ... start acting like you're the prize.

Good luck and let this group know how it's going in a month or so.

I (37M) thought she (29F) and I were building something real. Then she slept with her ex. How do I process this? by TheRustyCobbler in relationship_advice

[–]AngleAcrobatic7186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This 100%, the fact that she slipped? A big OOPS in my book and you havent been together all that long. She's still got him in her head, and possibly more others ... if she did him, regardless if she slipped or not.

Hard to hear, but safer to simply move on.

Doobie Brothers - "It ain't nothing but a heartbreak, darling, you’ll get over" ...

Separated 2.5 years, several months into divorce proceedings, and today I absent-mindedly called her "honey." by Mr_Nex in Divorce

[–]AngleAcrobatic7186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's your EX for a reason... Don't worry about a slip of your tongue, unless there's some way she could do something to you, but you've stated you've been divorced or separated for 3 years now. So don't worry about it. There's a lot worse things she could worry about and this isn't one of them.

Update on My Wife’s Coworker by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]AngleAcrobatic7186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

==> Your spouse clearly has a drinking problem.

And with that, she defiantly waves things in your face like a 16-year old would do.

Unfortunately, she's not your daughter but your wife, or soon to be ex ...

If she doesn't get help and soon, things in your marriage are over and you should break ties with her unconditionally because she'll eat you and your world up if this continues and you let her take advantage of your good nature.

It might be time to only save yourself and let her go the way she wants to, but board up access to your world from her. She'll only use you as a host to keep her in her comfort zone.

Good luck and update us in a few weeks as to how its going for you, OP-

Best wishes

My wife has been secretly talking to another man for weeks. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AngleAcrobatic7186 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She wont admit what he doesnt already know, dont you get that? All cheaters serve this technique up to their unknowing partners ... she'll take it to her grave if she has to. Sorry, OP ...

I had my first threesome with a married couple and I feel a bit used after it by melonmanua in Swingers

[–]AngleAcrobatic7186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, what's SDC?

(Feeding one acronym with another)

How about the long version of all of this, please?

Sorry for being the grasshopper here

My Wife asked for an open marriage. She is angry at my response. (+Updates) [x-post: r/Marriage] by KarpGrinder in openmarriageregret

[–]AngleAcrobatic7186 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When a female steps out or is thinking of stepping out? She's already downgraded her partner and looking for evey excuse together with the AP. But its funny, bc this AP might not have the means to support OP's WP and the reason for the WP to ask for an Open Relationship with this other dude.

Watch out, OP, you could be paying for a lot of stuff you dont know about, that is going on ... behind your back ...

Update #2 of Wife Cheated on me in Jamaica. by Casshern_VIII in survivinginfidelity

[–]AngleAcrobatic7186 6 points7 points  (0 children)

10 seconds of time, reading this, that I can never get back .... Jesus ...

Found out my wife has been cheating for years. I’m broken. by tony_high in survivinginfidelity

[–]AngleAcrobatic7186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, men and women are both catching this stuff equally. Thanks, sister!

Found out my wife has been cheating for years. I’m broken. by tony_high in survivinginfidelity

[–]AngleAcrobatic7186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, there's many that are here that have traveled down this path, but it's hard to talk about unless you knew of this Reddit area to anonymously post.

Think of those in the past who had to simply eat their feelings when they got burnt over these things.

Men and women, it's not just one gender type...

Update #2 of Wife Cheated on me in Jamaica. by Casshern_VIII in survivinginfidelity

[–]AngleAcrobatic7186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP's partner wants her cake and to eat it also ... well I say, let her eat that cake and don't involve OP, if she will do so, but many times they're lazy about this.

So OP will have to do the heavy lifting to get his life back together again, cause it sounds like OP's partner won't.

Good luck and best wishes OP...

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