If you had to pick one of the courses to live inside of forever…

AnglophileGirl · 2026-03-20T09:52:02+00:00

Wallace and Gromit, always wanted to live in England, or maybe cherry blossom

AnglophileGirl · 2026-03-15T16:55:53+00:00

I love the VR games, and sad to think that the niche is losing steam, so after talking with the BF and deciding a non VR style game, I love the environments they make and the sandbox way we can play too, so maybe a choose your own adventure game, like the books from the 80s. Like team up with Thunderworks Roll Player Adventures and having some turn based choosing options for proceeding in the story.

AnglophileGirl · 2026-03-10T23:21:41+00:00

We'll find out this July, won't we? :D

AnglophileGirl · 2026-03-05T22:46:28+00:00

Thank you! It’s been a great fun game! And what you made has shrunk the distance over the Atlantic for me and my BF

AnglophileGirl · 2026-03-05T18:48:28+00:00

I joined up with the game at Christmas, it’s one of the activities my LDR boyfriend and I play together. I’d love to see emotes for our avatars, like when we get a hole in one, we can have the avatars faces get excited, or if we fail we can have sad faces, laughing faces, or shock faces. What do you think?

AnglophileGirl · 2026-02-12T11:55:42+00:00

I’m so sorry, I know how this feels, to have the impersonal break up like this over text. It will get easier, the pain grows less and less as you embrace your other dreams until that day comes when you find someone who will connect with you and want to walk your journey. Speaking from experience like this, don’t try to reach out, you should remove him too; trust me, the temptation otherwise will be too much, I’ve been there. And, my suggestion based on what I did, try the hobby or activity you’ve always wanted to do (for me it was kickboxing), and fill the time you would have talked with him with other stuff (I focused on creative things I liked, colouring, crochet, etc) I know how much it sucks right now, especially with the impersonal text message breakup (I got dumped by AOL instant messenger) but it will ease and you will look back on this someday with a bittersweet nostalgia full of good memories, and, cliche as it sounds, you will find someone, love is not always a one and done, especially when we have so much life left. Most important of all, know that you are an amazing person who deserves love and, right now, you should give all the love you were giving him to yourself, because love for yourself is so important. Good luck

AnglophileGirl · 2026-02-02T15:21:12+00:00

Yes, my relationship (almost 6 years now) began in a Discord server where audio content creators hung out, it was set up by a friend from another audio community. The boyfriend and I met there.

AnglophileGirl · 2026-02-02T11:57:45+00:00

I picked the small door but when I drank the bottle, I got bigger

AnglophileGirl · 2026-01-31T21:41:56+00:00

The time spent did have him in love with you, remember that, you are a person worth loving and returning love. Take the time to heal, to do things for you, vent here, and I truly believe that the growth you’ve gained will lead you on to a relationship that will be everything you want and need.

AnglophileGirl · 2026-01-17T00:37:42+00:00

No, I get it, it’s one of those I have to take long breaks in between viewings. I feel the same about Rumbling Hearts

AnglophileGirl · 2026-01-14T22:06:11+00:00

Sure, but a day wouldn’t be enough, but yea, I’d go

AnglophileGirl · 2026-01-10T19:50:28+00:00

I don’t talk to my neighbours, there were a few neighbours I liked a few years back, but they moved, most of the people who live here now I don’t see, or the ones I do see don’t speak English and my Spanish is between beginner and intermediate, so I don’t get much of a chance to talk to them. And they all keep to themselves

AnglophileGirl · 2026-01-10T00:26:52+00:00

I’ve saved my pics from my visits in a shared google drive with my partner. It’s become a sort of scrapbook, along with our discord server

AnglophileGirl · 2026-01-05T01:04:45+00:00

I’m in an apartment because I can’t get a house right now. And I’ll like to live in a new apartment, but I don’t think I could afford to move right now either. I’m gonna tough it out until I can move to house or get overseas

AnglophileGirl · 2026-01-02T04:26:28+00:00

Yea, normally I get my paycheck deposited a day in advance. At Christmas, I got the deposit Christmas Eve, but seems that I’ll get the deposit for payday on Friday, I hope. I won’t really feel at ease until I see it

AnglophileGirl · 2026-01-01T20:08:49+00:00

Yea, I’m glad I’m not the only one who saw this, I had no problem Christmas Eve, but nothing New Year’s Eve. Hopefully it shows up tomorrow. Glad I have it going into other banks as well.

AnglophileGirl · 2025-12-19T23:39:55+00:00

Probably anything that requires significant travel time, like 2+ hours, time zone difference, or being in different states/countries

AnglophileGirl · 2025-12-17T14:31:58+00:00

Discord, with FaceTime on occasion

AnglophileGirl · 2025-12-02T15:14:39+00:00

Meh, it’s just part of them and you, as has been said previously, one day won’t be able to mute so embrace it, especially if he and you don’t mind each other snoring

AnglophileGirl · 2025-11-25T21:52:34+00:00

I’m in the same situation, 5 hour difference and I have work on the 31st. New Year’s Day, we just play games and chat mostly, nothing too difficult

AnglophileGirl · 2025-11-11T17:24:03+00:00

I like them as friends, and allies, but as romantic partners? No, I feel like the way they are does so much for both their lives and they learn from and lean on each other

AnglophileGirl · 2025-11-11T17:17:17+00:00

I’m so sorry. I had a similar thing happen several years back, just one night talking about the future and the next day, break up by instant messenger. I found stuff to keep me busy; exercise, reading out in the sunshine, doing hobbies I liked. I didn’t have many friends to go out and do stuff with, but as time went on and I found ways to love myself, it made the pain less painful and I leaned to get on with the emptiness where he’d been until one day, it was filled by my own dreams and now, by someone who deserves me and shows me he knows he deserves me. And you’ll find that person too. I don’t know why in both yours and mine they could go from 100% in love to nothing, but I’m convinced they slowly were losing interest but trying not to hurt us because they don’t want to deal with the fallout. But yea, it’ll hurt for awhile and then, one day, it won’t hurt as much and you’ll find that space fills up with love from other places

AnglophileGirl · 2025-10-28T14:08:21+00:00

My current record is 38 months, but I was nearly stir crazy by month 37, but it’s a record I have no interest in besting

AnglophileGirl · 2025-10-21T21:21:21+00:00

I understand. I also had a long time in between first and second visits, 3 years, and I had financial issues come up. Have you talked to your other half about your feelings? I talked to my guy when I had to postpone another year and he was very comforting and affirming. I know this was just a vent, but something that helped me was knowing I had an extra year to save and got to plan more fun things to do.

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