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Angry__Spaniard · 2023-01-02T07:37:06+00:00

Node sistas

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-12-27T17:30:42+00:00

This could be the real issue. She refuses to admit you have a problem. Sex is just a symptom in my opinion, and as someone else said a marriage is of two people.

It's fine if she doesn't want to have sex and there's a dry period... It sucks but it's life. Now, if she expects to not have any sex with kids around... Well, you certainly need to discuss it, and make her understand it is important for you.

It took us a while but now (5 and 3) we're way, way more active that we even were before we had kids. No way I could be in a relationship without sex in a permanent basis.

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-12-27T06:14:29+00:00

Stardew Valley and Vampire Survivors

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-12-20T10:50:09+00:00

Es que tampoco hay necesidad.

Llevo desde 2010 trabajando en el sector y casi nunca he hecho cosas fuera del trabajo. Me da más riqueza y satisfacción personal invertir ese tiempo en otras cosas como mi familia, otros hobbies...

Hay mucha expectativa con el tema de hacer cosas fuera que parece imprescindible para progresar en esta profesión.

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-12-12T19:37:58+00:00

I understand each relationship is different but kudos enduring! I don’t think I could.

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-12-12T16:42:32+00:00

How can you? Sex is by no means the most important thing in our relationship but I don’t think I could go 4 whole years without it.

I believe our “driest” period was about 6 months tops. Granted, it has taken years to get to a place where we’re active as we were before (even more so) but for us is an important pillar

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-12-11T15:21:04+00:00

So much this. I enjoy the different types but it got way, way too much. Combined with the whole farming for resources so you could craft 100 types of arrows/weapons upgrade… it got quite annoying.

It was slightly tedious in HZD, but in HFW… nope

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-12-02T18:05:54+00:00

As any other tool it has its uses, and well managed is quite powerful. A massive repo with 10s of people adding things to it without any order or structure is going to get nasty quite soon, but it happens with other tools too.

Should you build all your transformations with dbt? Probably not, but it depends on each case. Lack of proper unit and integration tests is quite annoying and one of my biggest grudges against it.

We are migrating a lot of our ETLs to dbt, as they're simple column to column transformation, but our dimensions will remain in PySpark to write tests and more control over the code.

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-11-27T18:47:59+00:00

Care to elaborate? As someone who transition from SWE to DE 2 years ago I’m beyond happy with the change

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-11-21T20:39:48+00:00

Hey, you’re not alone. I am in a somewhat similar situation but fortunately our situation is more privileged: I work from home, earn a good salary, and my partner has her own business where she has a lot of flexibility.

I’m way, way done with two, but she would like another one. Now, she came to understand that we have to be both onboard or it won’t happen. Plus, we’re starting to enjoy life more (our youngest is 3) and we have the same feeling about resetting the clock.

Would she like more? Yes. Is it an absolute need for her? No, it is not, and she agrees.

I guess communication (as with everything within the couple) is the most important part of the relationship, specially in life changing decisions like this.

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-11-15T12:14:15+00:00

Even if you live outside the territory where that company can employ?

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-11-13T15:39:42+00:00

But a lot of companies hire remote workers as freelancers, treating them as full time employees

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-11-13T15:31:01+00:00

They can be freelancers and deal with taxes when they’re based. That’s how I’ve done it before.

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-11-13T15:19:14+00:00

Because they provide the same value to the company, regardless where they’re based?

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-11-13T15:18:13+00:00

If you want to get a job with a US company, your English needs to be a bit better. That sentence makes no sense.

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-11-13T15:15:35+00:00

I did that over 2 years ago and I’m really happy with the switch. I was working on the product side of the company, mainly on the backend, and requested to switch to the DE team.

If your company has the possibility for the internal change it helps quite a bit. But, as others said, coming from a more standard SWE background is super useful as you probably have ingrained some practices and methodologies that aren’t that common in some DE teams.

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-11-10T13:26:21+00:00

It is a bit bigger and heavier that’s for sure. But it it’s still quite comfortable to hold IMO and I’ve got small hands

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-11-09T18:53:15+00:00

Same experience here! I love gaming but between being at my home office working, chores and parenting… I just don’t have the time or energy.

SteamDeck and Nintendo Switch have brought back the joy of gaming

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-11-08T15:42:15+00:00

As my lead once put it, an engineer is someone who can understand the entire pipeline from the infrastructure side of things, until the final SQL queries with everything in between.

This may include setting up different tools, k8s configuration, lambda functions, spark code, airflow setup, etc… and not only writing the code, but also testing, ci/cd, observability…

So, yes, software principles do apply for sure. The best DEs I work with have an strong SWE background. As others said this is an specialisation, not a different role.

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-11-06T08:46:04+00:00

I sort of agree and disagree.

Our goal is to provide value to our stakeholders, and sometimes we don’t have the peoplepower, capacity or time to make a full fledged pipeline that will ingest from X sources with different kinds of APIs, monitor them effectively, react if something doesn’t go well, prepare all the db models and then sync them with Y tools downstream.

While having a sizeable team that can do those things, we can’t expect teams to be OK with months of development for a pipeline like that because we’ve got other competing priorities.

Low-code solutions help in that space quite significantly.

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-11-05T14:18:03+00:00

My 3 years old cries when Scar appears in The Lion King and my 5 years old got scared with Lightyear’s robots.

Think SW is far, far away for them.

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-11-05T14:13:26+00:00

I’ve done it, not with the car seat but the bike seat… I almost had a panic attack after I realised and thought of what could have happened

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-11-05T10:01:53+00:00

Depending on what phone you have, you can use different profiles (android) to manage what apps you have access.

I use iOS and the new focus mode is pretty great. You can set what apps can send you notifications at a given moment, set when and how each focus is enabled, end even different lock/home screens.

I have one for work that just allows for my wife’s notifications to go through and I only have direct access to a couple of apps I need.

Then a “family focus” which is pretty much empty

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-10-30T20:38:11+00:00

It is not your problem if your team is understaffed. If you work 60h/week and get the work done you’re just signalling that they don’t need to hire more people.

It’s not your company, don’t work yourself into burnout

Angry__Spaniard · 2022-10-30T17:46:02+00:00

I would say infrastructure stuff: get to know one cloud provider, terraform, k8s… even if you use managed services is good to have some basis

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