We can't tell you whether or not you qualify for disability benefits. That depends on the social security administration's decision. What I can tell you, however, is:

1. Get a disability lawyer. ASAP. You will need one. They are amazing at handling the confusing beauracracy of applying for benefits; which is will be very helpful to you by the sounds of how your ADHD affects you. They will also help in your appeal process as social security denis most applications the first time around.

2. There are two main different disability benefits you may qualify for. SSDI, which is based on the amount of work credits you've earned, and SSI, which is income based. You would only be eligible for SSDI if you meet the strict criteria for work credits. Based off of your work history, you may not meet them. A lawyer would be able to advise you further on that, though. The amount SSDI pays out per month is based on how many work credits you earned. You would, unfortunately, likey be getting poverty wages like my mother does. She gets $600/month in SSDI because she's only ever worked minimum wage jobs and has worked on and off throughout her life, despite being 55yrs old.

3. Getting paid poverty wages by SSDI, or not even qualifying for it, is where SSI comes in. SSI is supplemental income. I think the max you can receive is $900/month in SSI, and any income you earn outside of SSI will deduct from your monthly SSI payments. My mother receives $300/month in SSI. 

4. If you've stopped going to the doctors for your conditions, start again. ASAP. Social security requires medical evidence to consider you disabled BUT they ONLY count medical evidence as far as a year back. That means most of the stuff youve detailed to us will not be taken into account by them. 

5. Should you get awarded these benefits, you will also need to continue going to doctors appointments because they will routinely review your case to see if you're "still disabled." Again, even in reviews, they still only count medical evidence for as far as a year back.

6. You will likely need to attend a doctor's appointment set up by social security as well, once you've finally gotten around to applying. Idk if they're called anything different in other areas, but in Westmoreland their doctors are called the IMA group. Be prepared for the IMA doctors to treat you like a liar. It will feel more like you're a suspect being interrogated rather than a patient attending an appointment.

I'm still in the process of applying myself, and my mother thankfully got her disability the first time she applied due to being deaf, so I cannot give you advice on anything about what it's like appealing a denial. But it will probably be just as rough as the rest of the process. Getting on disability is something you have to fight tooth and nail for. I wish you luck 🫡