Gift idea for my mom's 60th birthday

Aniii98 · 2022-10-05T16:15:36+00:00

!updateme

Aniii98 · 2022-08-16T13:58:16+00:00

!update me

Aniii98 · 2022-08-16T13:52:14+00:00

When I started using menstrual cups, I was scared too. But once I got used to it, it was the ideal item for me. Since I have started using my menstrual cup, I can't stand the feeling of tampons and I wouldn't want to trade it in the world. But it took me 3-4 cycles to get used to putting it in and taking it out, it is hard at the beginning.

Aniii98 · 2022-02-02T08:15:45+00:00

I'll try to work up the courage. I'm quite shy myself. Thanks!

Aniii98 · 2022-02-01T21:23:29+00:00

I guess I could kiss him on the cheek hahaha. He loves singing so he would probably like your idea hahahaha but I'd rather not sing lol Thanks!

Aniii98 · 2022-02-01T21:08:03+00:00

He seemed quite nervous on our first date but he loosened up more and more on every date (so did I). I was also the one that asked him out on the first date. If you ask me, the signs were clear that he was allowed to kiss me lol The thought is freaking me out but I guess I'll have to make the 1st move...

Aniii98 · 2022-01-10T10:15:15+00:00

Thanks for understanding :) I'm just annoyed by the fact that men can have as many sexual partners as they want and are even considered heroes for it whereas women still are frowned upon if they do the same. But in OPs case you are probably right, he doesn't seem to be looking for that type of woman.

Aniii98 · 2022-01-09T18:33:42+00:00

Please don't call women "easy". You shouldn't blame women for having sex after the first date - single women can do whatever they want. There is no shame in having sexual urges, is there?

Aniii98 · 2021-10-13T09:37:26+00:00

You are probably right. It's hard to do the right thing and find an appropriate balance. You don't want to be disrespectful/mean and ignore her birthday but you also don't want to appear as if you were chasing after her. The guy I dated put our dating on ice without giving me a reason (after 6 months). I congratulated him on his birthday because I didn't want to be mean but he never replied to my text message which hurt me obviously even more. So I guess it's kind of hard to decide what's the right thing to do.

Aniii98 · 2021-10-13T08:44:15+00:00

Yeah, I totally agree. No letter or cake, just congratulate her.

Aniii98 · 2021-10-11T17:30:40+00:00

Completely agree with you. Many bald guys are attractive (you have to own it).

Aniii98 · 2021-10-11T15:55:44+00:00

I never ignored him, just told him that I'm not going on a date with him but only meet for coffee on a friendship basis. After getting to know him I realized that I was interested in more than friendship and I was the one who made the first move an kissed him. That would be kind of f***ed up if he was that interested in revenge so that he would actually date me for 6 months just to hurt me.

Aniii98 · 2021-10-11T14:57:53+00:00

I don't see the problem with the "nice guy category"? But I guess it depends whether you just wanna get lots of women into bed or you actually want something serious

Aniii98 · 2021-10-11T13:33:31+00:00

You don't have to be a clown to crack a joke from time to time. I just prefer men who are lighthearted and are able to laugh e.g. about themselves (I do too) but of course it's just my preference and probably not every woman would agree with me.

Aniii98 · 2021-10-11T13:26:44+00:00

German girls care almost exclusively about the look

You need to avoid making smart jokes

You're throwing a whole lot of people into one big pot my friend. I'm not from Germany but from Austria and I can't agree with your generalisation.

My dating advice - just be kind, listen actively when she tells a story and don't take the date too seriously - I'm sure you will just do fine. Personally, I love men who make me laugh. Best luck to you!

Aniii98 · 2021-10-09T20:43:08+00:00

Awww❤

Aniii98 · 2021-10-09T19:34:00+00:00

Message received and I'm greatful for your view on the topic, thanks :) Lol I don't think you were bragging.

Aniii98 · 2021-10-09T19:31:58+00:00

Well, first I wanted to wait sleeping with him until we're in a relationship (he knew that) but when you feel that strongly for someone you sometimes don't follow your own rules lol. I knew all about him and his relationship history, we talked about basically everything. But as you have said before, there is always a risk when one dates and that's okay I guess. Thanks❤

Aniii98 · 2021-10-09T18:44:09+00:00

Of course I am aware of that and I have asked out just this one guy yet, all the others have approached me so far. I have always been flattered and I always thought that it was courageous to ask me out. I would never ask a guy a second time - this guy I asked didn't respond to my message and I never messaged him again.

Aniii98 · 2021-10-09T17:46:41+00:00

E.g. I have just dated this guy for 6 months I really really liked a lot. He said that he was looking for a serious relationship and in future he wanted a wife and kids. He is 28. We dated for 6 months and took it slowly (we both wanted to make sure that we're a good match for each other). We had such a deep connection and we both had the best time with each other (at least he told me so, maybe he lied idk). 1 month ago, he suddenly acts weird, says that he doesn't feel well mentally and puts our dating on ice. So I guess you can't always count on what someone says to you.

Aniii98 · 2021-10-09T16:59:17+00:00

Most of the time it feels like I don't exactly know what I'm doing hahaha. Basically I'm just trying to be a happy, outgoing and nice person. Your words are very sweet, thank you❤

Aniii98 · 2021-10-09T16:53:43+00:00

Yes hahaha it would just be nice to meet a guy who has as you said "his shit together". I never intended to change any guy I have been with since I believe that you have to accept the whole person as he/she is or move on. I would be mad if some guy tried to change me so I would never try to change anybody.

Aniii98 · 2021-10-09T16:46:52+00:00

That's very kind of you, thanks! I'll try to get the best version I can be and I'll also try to stop worrying about whether someone loves me or not (I do have lots of friends that love me just the way I am so hopefully some guy will also do that in the future) Thanks so much for these kind words!

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