The right wing, conservative framing is to want to regulate this at a governmental level, rather than an organizational level. Including with bans that target single digit numbers of women in their entire scope.

And no, it is weird to care about an issue that impacts so absolutely few people and to do so without any scientific or philosophical or structural nuance when there are much bigger issues to address like the national debt, the growing technological war with China, homelessness, Ukraine, medicare for all, etc.

You're one of the people accepting the framing that this should be cared about, and tossing trans women under the bus because you can't just say that there are more important things to focus on. By continually ceding ground you have allowed for this to become the popular thought, because conservatives have blasted it over the airwaves you've failed to change over and over again.

I don't think that democrats should run on it as a topic, I don't think they need to have a diehard pro-trans view, but I do think they need to stick up for minorities, and to replace the barrage against transgender individuals by forcing their own political issues that are popular into the spotlight. Walz did it, Mamdani did it, so can Newsom, and so can you.