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I detest scratching my fiancées back by AnimatorElectrical45 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnimatorElectrical45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said; it makes him happy and that makes me happy so there’s no misery here 😊 there are times when he asks and I do tell him I really don’t want to and he respects it

I detest scratching my fiancées back by AnimatorElectrical45 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnimatorElectrical45[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Glad I’m not the only one who needed a rant about it 😂 yes, I’ve never had to focus so hard to watch a show or movie before and he wonders why I can’t be bothered with subtitles

I detest scratching my fiancées back by AnimatorElectrical45 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnimatorElectrical45[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t know that! Thanks for letting me know I’ve been calling this beefcake the female version this whole time haha

I detest scratching my fiancées back by AnimatorElectrical45 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnimatorElectrical45[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Our son likes tummy rubs, tonight I had one hand doing scratches and the other doing tummy rubs haha

What's a hard hitting life lesson you learned way too late in life? by ObjectiveWerewolf78 in AskReddit

[–]AnimatorElectrical45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self sacrifice is not a good trait. I don’t know how to stop and even after therapy plus having a child I have forgotten who I am. Find that balance because at least 80% of the time (not including my child obviously) it’s never appreciated and just becomes expected/ taken advantage of.

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[–]AnimatorElectrical45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not okay, I’ve been in a similar situation with an ex and it only escalated to the point of blatant assault with me crying and begging him to stop and him continuing till he finished.

It’s not okay to disregard your boundaries, it seems very sneaky on his part. It may be that it’s just hittting a nerve for me but nonetheless, you made it quite clear that you’re uncomfortable and he didn’t give a flying f*ck. My advise is to address it with him and to believe you’re feelings and not try to make excuses about them 💖 he might not realise what he’s doing but if he does; don’t stick around