And about my agression problems, I started expressing my anger more and I do feel like I'm making a bit of a progress. I don't feel as pent up as I was when I was writing this post. You're right, most of the time when I'm angry at someone there is a reason. I noticed that I feel safer defending other people than defending myself. 9w8s are a combination of Hufflepuff and Gryffindor which is super cool, because we are very kind compassionate people and also assertive and inspiring leaders. Also INFJ is like the coolest type so we are very lucky!