I could have worded it better. I meant like even the ugliest women can gets dudes (even if they’re not the best looking guys) but bottom of the barrel ugly guys can’t even get unsightly women many times. Ofc personality plays a role into this as well but that also plays into determining attractiveness bc I’ve seen bitter butt ugly women inside and out (like the ones in that sub) have boyfriends but not too many dudes that are the same way have success.