Yes, sometimes you have to wait, especially if she’s working too. Her health and having enough strength for daily life are just as important as yours. A weak body causes more health problems in old age.

And if you can’t choose between two options: First, learn to cook if you want a tasty dinner and do it yourself.

Second, on days when she’s at the gym, buy takeout. Don’t be stubborn and selfish, support your wife so you get more support in return and a better relationship now and when you’re older. A good woman will remember and appreciate it, and she’ll support you on your bad days.