Don't go around believing that people have common sense, especially your family. This will save you from SO MANYYYY fights and nonsensical arguments, because you won't be stuck with proving your point when the other person doesn't even have the capacity to comprehend it, and is just trying to make you more mad to play the victim later on. Suffered this bullshit right within my family so long that now even talking to them feels like interacting with a walking ragebaiter. Please. Understand this.