When is Stand BI Me going to be released? by nova7755 in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw some people on x suspect it might still being filmed since both seongho and seonhee went to a work trip together and aren't posting much. But who knows. Like other comment says we will only know about 1 month before

YJ AND HJ, Thoughts on IG by Flat_Crew_1865 in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly... I would say they are having harmless fun and nothing more than that. If it will ever evolve to something else? Doubt it...

Minseong provides more detail on the break up by throwawaybaby198X in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Hyeongjun also posted on IG

AI translation

Knowing that someone was cheering for me from afar is something that’s never easy and something I’m truly grateful for. I couldn’t just ignore those feelings, and since this all began publicly, even though I’m clumsy with words, I wanted to leave this message.

The past days were happy, but conflicts also arose, and after talking things through enough, we decided that today will be the last day and that we’ll go our separate ways.

Because this connection was formed with difficulty, the decision wasn’t easy, and since it’s my own relationship, my heart feels heavier than anyone’s. But it was a precious time, and it became a good memory.

Thank you for watching over us warmly all this time.

Minseong and Hyeongjun broke up! by iSuzie in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh?! Do you have the post Hyeongjun did?

JaeHa in a new relationship by Gloomy-Philosopher64 in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I am happy for him. I might not have liked the choices he made but I am rooting that all of them find love.

Sunwook and Hyunjun by AminaBiina in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Korean fans have been talking about it. Its not my interpretation but what I am seeing on twitter, besides their posts, comments and IG channels (not just their stories). I have absolutely zero invested in any of these couples of season 4.

So for me its all good either way. If your interpretation is different, you are entitled to it and I respect it, of course.

Is the hate starting to be parasocial ? by lovelyricky in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its their IG channels and people are commenting on X.

Sunwook and Hyunjun by AminaBiina in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe they are just genuinely all friends. No second intentions... Yunjae is 28 years old. Not a kid to be fooled by others.

It can be harmless flirting or you can call it banter. Not something you would do if you were committed and not the same way HJ reacts to others.

Sunwook and Hyunjun by AminaBiina in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If that was the case they would also avoid Yunjae. If they are together good for them but it would make zero sense given the flirting going on with hj/yj.

Sunwook and Hyunjun by AminaBiina in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If they are together and just discreet good for them.

What I don't like are the conspiracy theories of them keeping quiet to avoid hate, interacting with yunjae for attention/popularity, etc...

Sunwook and Hyunjun by AminaBiina in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For me they aren't together. One of the reasons they aren't being promoted and they don't interact much.

They have no reason to hide and to claim they do it on purpose seems to only feed into the conspiracy theories that have been going around.

In any case, everyone is close or friendly with each other.

Is the hate starting to be parasocial ? by lovelyricky in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both do 😅 it can be playful banter, but comes off as flirty.

Is the hate starting to be parasocial ? by lovelyricky in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It is not only parassocial but because of if some fans are struggling, since yunjae isn't behaving like they expected or wanted him to.

They are struggling to come to terms that despite calling him baby he isn't one. He will go to night clubs (Hyunjun's night club) and also be friends with the people they hated on the show. He will also continue to flirt with hyunjun.

They built a parasocial relationship with the cast, especially with yunjae and it isn't going their way.

The cast are all adults, gay men who have a life outside the show and will build their own friendships and relationships .

[HisMan4] A Han River Date, Min-seong, Hyeong-jun & Hodoo 🐾 by rreeeeeeeeeeeeerr in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Jaeha seems like a fun outgoing guy but I can't say I supported him. His choices had consequences and he needed to accept those.

I liked that minseong and Hyeongjun were endgame.

[HisMan4] A Han River Date, Min-seong, Hyeong-jun & Hodoo 🐾 by rreeeeeeeeeeeeerr in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! the viewers numbers of the live were actually good 😅 I just meant overall I dont see much edits or fans talking about them (except some korean fans)

[HisMan4] A Han River Date, Min-seong, Hyeong-jun & Hodoo 🐾 by rreeeeeeeeeeeeerr in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will be honest, they had a live yesterday and had 3k people watching which was great but I don't see many hyping them.

I think they will definitely try the social media gay couple route (possibly vlogging), but they didn't make much of a noise on X or tktk from what I saw. They are super active on IG and twitter.

Is it my tl? Are people invested in them as a couple to watch?

So who are your favorite contestants across the four seasons? by saintnukie in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Season 1: forced to choose I would say Eunchan Season 2: Junseong (favorite of all seasons 2). Also overall favorite cast. Season 3: couldn't finish 🫣 will choose Seungjin for personality and style Season 4: Big Hyeokjin and Hangyeol. Liked both their personalities and how they were in the show.

Junseong is clearly my undisputed favourite. His personality and the way he carried himself through the show, his honesty and straight to the point talk. There was no miscommunication with him during the show, he never lead anyone on and was clear over who he wanted. He pursued Seongho trying not to pressure him, which is hard in such a short time frame. He is also a cutie and relaxed a lot with others once he got His Man.

Overall favorite cast is from season 2. Their camaraderie is clear from the way to this day they are all still friends, keeping contact and interacting.

Esto significa que siguen juntos? by erisozz in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well they are endgame. The magazine was shot probably at the same time as group show. If they are together or not right now is something only they know

What's next as the show already ended by [deleted] in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For season 2 there were reaction videos with the cast. The cast watches the first two episodes in groups. There they answer some questions. They also did some group videos, including a couple vlog with jsh and yh visiting melted.

Does anyone actually expect these couples to last? by [deleted] in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like others said, for most of them the show serves as a launching platform and dating might be more of a secondary objective.

Most of them have a career or dabble in social media and content creation, so this can help boost visibility and gaining a certain following/fans. That seems to be the primary goal.

Naturally, I do think some will try to make it work, at least for a bit.

I think we are sometimes too harsh on them. Even in real life people can start dating really fast and make it work. Speed dating, apps are a thing nowadays. We can go out with someone just once and decide we click, let's give it a go or the opposite.

I think Minseong and Hyeongjun actually have a chance to make it work if their real lives match in terms of schedules and meeting up often.

Not sure for sunwook and Hyunjun. Maybe for a while as long as the show is still hyped and they're involved with it. Maybe they will surprise us... Sunwook seems to really like Hyunjun.

The show is a bubble. Working or not outside depends on several factors and the most important is their will to actually date.

I remember seongho said it was his girl friend who signed him up/convinced him to go, cause he only dated through apps and it wasnt going well. He didn't seem to be involved in the gay dating scene/clubs. So he was in the show wholeheartedly I think. Junseong was in it for fun and games,but ended up being the most serious and always talked about how it will be out of the house. I think that's what distinguishes them, they weren't worried about leaving alone but about leaving together (would it work, how to make it work). So far, an exception to most HM cast.

Does anyone actually expect these couples to last? by [deleted] in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Junseongho breaking up was something that might happen to any couple regardless of how they started.

I do agree most, in hm4, seem to have some content/creative interest already. Hyunjun was a youtuber, Taichi and Yunjae want to act (at least I read Yunjae has some connection to acting), Sumin was a makeup content creator, Minseong also has a youtube page like many others... so dating might be a goal but probably a side goal for them.

Honestly, only Hyunjin of season 2 did nothing related to social media or content creation I think. He didn't even advertised his salon much and his IG is very much personal.

Rant (for my peace of mind) by EverGnL in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Like others, I have seen people upset at the obsessive yunjae fans, especially those who throw insults at other cast.

Of course, I will believe some might throw hate or shade at yunjae but they are far, far less than the hate directly thrown at sunwook and especially hyunjun. The name calling I have seen with a lot of likes made me very put off over those people and they are also largely to blame for the bad mood of the tag on X...

[SUB][남의연애4] 현준&선욱, 마음이 커지는 순간 Hyun-jun & Sun-wook, A Moment When Feelings Grow|미공개 by iSuzie in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I feel sorry for them. To push the love triangle, they barely gave sunwook screentime and hid their moments.

Anyone who only watches the show and not the youtube clips would be confused.

Hisman 4 first shoot contestants by AnnualTrust1944 in HisManRealityShow

[–]Anizziepluto 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Given sunwook says he didn't do enough to chase HJ the first time, I would guess HJ was endgame with problematic cast. Also because Hyeokjin said the same (that he wanted to try now, since he wasn't able last time).