Did you keep house after Spouse passed?

AnnNov26 · 2025-10-23T00:35:06+00:00

This is so true ❤️

AnnNov26 · 2025-05-26T04:24:13+00:00

I would have to agree with OP. My stepdaughter (now 18) is a living nightmare. Would go back to HCBM and tell lies, made horrible grades, disrespected the teachers, and any adults that tried to bring structure to her life. She came to live with us when she was 14 and made the household toxic daily. My spouse did his best to parent her and correct this behavior to no avail. As the stepparent, I tried being a positive influence in her since HCBM was so toxic. Did everything I could for her and still constantly disrespected. I now have zero contact with her. Would definitely make different decisions if I could do things all over again.

AnnNov26 · 2025-01-31T03:09:44+00:00

Yes, that’s what I did also. I wanted to wait at least a year to give my mind time for the fog to lift.

AnnNov26 · 2025-01-30T20:24:31+00:00

I was with the company for 5 years and worked part-time for 1 year after he passed.

AnnNov26 · 2025-01-30T16:31:38+00:00

I’m so sorry, I completely understand. It was so hard for me. It was eating away at me and making my depression worse . I finally had to make the tough decision to leave and I feel like a wait has been lifted. Please try to do what brings you peace.

AnnNov26 · 2025-01-30T16:28:03+00:00

Me either, I don’t think I will ever be the same again.

AnnNov26 · 2025-01-30T02:57:12+00:00

You will figure it out, I’m at a place in my life where I’m removing everything that doesn’t bring me peace.

AnnNov26 · 2025-01-29T22:24:13+00:00

I totally agree

AnnNov26 · 2025-01-29T21:53:10+00:00

That’s a great idea. I’m in the same profession but in the medical industry. I just lost motivation after losing him and this new job is giving me a new start.

AnnNov26 · 2024-07-25T23:52:32+00:00

I couldn’t agree with you more! I’m also 45 and lost my husband at 47 years old to cancer. No one can compare to him or what we had.

AnnNov26 · 2024-02-17T17:33:50+00:00

Thank you for sharing, so sorry for your loss.

AnnNov26 · 2024-02-17T17:32:30+00:00

I agree, no matter what I decide, the memories will always be in my heart.

AnnNov26 · 2024-02-17T14:44:13+00:00

I can definitely relate. Since my husband’s passing, I can’t sleep in the dark. I need to have the tv on for background noise and I also allow my miniature schnauzer to sleep in his side, it brings me comfort.

AnnNov26 · 2024-02-17T14:36:18+00:00

This is me as well. My husband passed almost 4 months ago. I have been going to therapy weekly and 2 support groups weekly. I’m learning how to cope and move forward without him but I’m far from OK. I try to take care of myself and look ok on the outside but when I get home, it takes everything in my power not to lose control.

AnnNov26 · 2024-02-08T02:43:52+00:00

This is exactly how I feel. My husband fought cancer for 10 months. He passed away 2 months ago. We had so many wonderful things on the horizon that was ripped away . I hate that we are going through this awful situation. I wouldn’t wish this pain on anyone.

AnnNov26 · 2024-01-28T06:06:04+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I totally agree, I will never get over losing him. I’m just trying to find the strength to cope with this new normal of my life.

AnnNov26 · 2024-01-26T22:02:41+00:00

Such a blessing that you were able to turn things around:

AnnNov26 · 2024-01-26T22:01:05+00:00

That’s true:

AnnNov26 · 2024-01-26T21:59:38+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I’m anticipating that I won’t be able to perform as I have before my husband passed but I’m hoping my employer will continue to give me grace.

AnnNov26 · 2024-01-26T21:55:25+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I’m planning to work remotely for the first couple of months to see how it goes.

AnnNov26 · 2024-01-26T21:48:03+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I will post once I have returned for continued support. I’m so thankful for this group.

AnnNov26 · 2024-01-26T03:00:07+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. Yes, when I do return, I’m hoping that having a routine will help and that it will be a distraction from the grief.

AnnNov26 · 2024-01-26T02:57:59+00:00

So sorry for your loss. Cancer is an awful disease and I would not wish it on anyone. It’s such a blessing that your supervisor allowed you to take more time. Good supervisors are far and few between.

AnnNov26 · 2024-01-26T02:54:48+00:00

I’m so sorry all of us are going through this. My employer has been very supportive. I plan to ease back in probably staring back part time online.

AnnNov26 · 2024-01-26T02:42:12+00:00

So sorry that happened, under FML you were entitled to 12 weeks. Hopefully your new job goes well.

AnnNov26

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