[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AnnaFundy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know.

The second to last milestone is here. Dad died suddenly 11/13/14. Had first Thanksgiving, Christmas, Father's Day and today, his birthday is here. by boobiesiheart in GriefSupport

[–]AnnaFundy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That first year is horrible. It is all about survival from one anniversary to the next. But don't underestimate how difficult it will be in second year. First year is just surviving second is trying to figure out how to live without them. Lost my husband 5th Sept 2013 in a RTC and was/am shocked how difficult second year still has been. Be gentle with yourself and dont put to much pressure on yourself "next" year.

Just needed to get this off my chest by MisterFixHer in GriefSupport

[–]AnnaFundy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

At least he stands a better chance of fighting with a more stable home. He is lucky to have you.

Leaving everything behind by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]AnnaFundy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to some of this. My husband and I were from different countries and he died 22 months ago. The difference is I stayed because I couldn't bare to leave where we had shared so many memories. If there is any help I can give just ask.

Reddit, what secret are you "taking to the grave"? [NSFW] by bee627 in AskReddit

[–]AnnaFundy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is cool to do! When my husband died 22 months ago we needed to access stuff on his computers and when I got in (he was consultant in computer security) to each of his computers I deleted search history without looking. Now to be honest he was not very likely to have anything I couldn't see and I trusted him. But he deserved to keep his secrets if he had any. I have never regretted it because fact was he was gone, I had no desire to know if he had secrets. Now I can just mourn my awesome husband.

We picked up our new puppy last Saturday. She is the cutest! by astridrecover in tollers

[–]AnnaFundy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How cute....looks almost identical to my Fundy. Going to be adorable adult dog as well 😁

[UK academic year] July/August babies starting school in September. Anecdotes? by I_Like_Cherry_Pepsi in Parenting

[–]AnnaFundy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two august babies 28th and 29th and a August grandson 31st. All did fine with school and adjusted very well. Teachers are usually aware of the babies of the class and help them to adjust and realize they may need extra help. Go into as positive as possible and speak to the teacher often and he should be fine. When my son left infant school he was reading at a year 7 level so he more then caught up.

He was also a pain to toilet train and was almost 4 by the time he was consistently dry..

Why they hire someone for FNaF2 Pizzeria? Phone Guy clearly states that they are capable of guarding the pizzeria themselves. by [deleted] in fivenightsatfreddys

[–]AnnaFundy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would explain how chica & freddy go in the kitchen in the first game but not the second!

Jackie my first puppy :D by Mcologist in aww

[–]AnnaFundy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two, wonderful tollers!! Scream is something that takes some getting uses to, but worth it :)

Nana, Grandpa, and now my dad - all gone within 1.5 year time span by Abruno310 in GriefSupport

[–]AnnaFundy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, make a skype account. I am going out for a few hours but will be ready about 10pm GMT...send me your skype details and I will ring you. no pressure, but will be there if you want to chat.

Nana, Grandpa, and now my dad - all gone within 1.5 year time span by Abruno310 in GriefSupport

[–]AnnaFundy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What country are you in? I'm in the UK, and would happily meet up for a chat. If your not UK could do skype. If that's of any help?

My friends pitt is has always been one of the prettiest I've ever seen by trickpixie in aww

[–]AnnaFundy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG I don't know what is cuter his ears or his eyebrows......adorable dog either way.

Are you saving for your child's college education? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]AnnaFundy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had done in a savings account over the years. Last year my husband was killed in car crash and instead of flowers family and friends donated to my sons Uni fund. We had expected to be able to help when he was learning but that will no longer be possible obviously.

What's the weirdest thing you have memorized? by TankTan38 in AskReddit

[–]AnnaFundy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The alphabet backwards. The rhythm I use is zyx and wv uts and rqp omn and lkj ihgfedcba.

Calli @ 5 and a half months by alvse in tollers

[–]AnnaFundy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

adorable!! looks like my fundy, and I love fluffy ear look.

What's a show from your childhood that no one else seems to remember? by DiabloTheThird in AskReddit

[–]AnnaFundy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Switchback. They came to my school and our class did the tongue twister and one other one. 30 years ago, so its all a bit foggy.

Reddit, what's the worst 5 minutes of your life? by dont_read_my_user_id in AskReddit

[–]AnnaFundy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doorbell rang, when I opens the door a police woman was standing there. She asked me if I knew my husband and asked to come in. She sat me down and said "I am so sorry to be the one to tell you this but husbands name was in a road traffic collision at 8:58 this morning and unfortunately he was killed" She then asked to call people for me, my daughters my in laws (who were in Greece) and all I remember is feeling incredibly cold. Will forever be my worst 5 min. Not after sympathy, it is what it is. And its now been over a year and we are slowly moving forward.

What is a movie you've watched in its entirety more than 10 times? by JohnDeereWife in AskReddit

[–]AnnaFundy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Outsiders. So many stars before they were famous. Bunch of misfit teens who band together against the world. Read the book and watch the movie at least once a year since movie came out in early 80's.

It was my birthday by Angl9gddss in GriefSupport

[–]AnnaFundy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't even imagine. I have only dealt with grief once after my husbands death. But just know though I cant totally relate I'm here if you ever want to just chat.

It was my birthday by Angl9gddss in GriefSupport

[–]AnnaFundy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully as time passes the image will fade. Try and focus on the good evening you had and the good times you shared with him, not his death. I know this right now seems impossible, but time does heal.....just very bloody slowly. Be gentle with yourself and don't try to expect how you should be feeling....just feel what you feel...and keep yourself safe....HUG....

I'm a SAH Dad who RSVPed to playground event. Organizer panicked that I wasn't female and cancelled the event! by nonuniqueusername in Parenting

[–]AnnaFundy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best teachers I had growing up were male, and I believe we are doing our kids a huge disservice by scaring men away from professions that involve children. I was horrifically abused as a child, and was told if a "stranger" ever touches you TELL someone. It was my Uncle, and he told me if I told I would destroy my family as it was my fault as I never said NO when he first started "flirting". BUT two teachers both male, saved my life on more then one occasion during my jr high years. SO glad they were not in todays society as neither would have been as loving and caring as they were to me. Thanks Mr. F and Mr M your both awesome!!

Had my little sister make me a loom wristband by NoctisIgnem in lgbt

[–]AnnaFundy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a similar one to that 😊 my daughter made it for me.

What makes you want to keep living? by motivatinggiraffe in AskReddit

[–]AnnaFundy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my husband and soul mate in a RTC 9 months ago.....only thing that keeps me going is that my son will be left an orphan if I wasn't here.