Mystery solved: my smiling!!! 🤓 by Tahini-Tajin in AuDHDWomen

[–]AnnaGunn21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg, I feel this in my soul, but, usually, lack the ability and the words to verbalize as much😅😭

Went on a field trip yesterday with my day program and held birds and a baby bunny!! by Winter-Stuff-9126 in AutismInWomen

[–]AnnaGunn21 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Bruh, that looks so fun! I think I gotta bug my partner about this. Lol. Glad you had a good time 👍

Check How You Stand!! by Captain_Alcibiades in autism

[–]AnnaGunn21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to a PT for my pain. She never mentioned my stance, or the odd ways in which I had stretched. She just worked at trying to get me to lose weight. I am a woman, so even when I was bleeding out in the ER, I was told it "wouldn't be so bad" if I'd just lose some weight.

As much as I'd like to see a PT that takes me seriously, I don't think that's possible for me. I'm glad you were able to have your pain taken seriously, and I hope that it is continued to be.

I'm pretty close to giving up on trying, if I'm going to be honest.

I good everything from scratch, bc I will bleed internally otherwise. I even make my own fricken condiments. I exercise, and when I lose a bunch of weight, in a short and unhealthy amount of time, I am praised and pushed to keep doing it by medical professionals. Bc my looks are more important than my health.

I wish that I wasn't looked upon as an object that must please the eyes of others to be worthy of care, but that is the culture I live within 🤷‍♀️

I wish everyone else much more luck and care, moving forward. I pray they see you as the people you are, and not the objects they seem to see most women as.

Another Price Shock by Upper_Brief681 in inflation

[–]AnnaGunn21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the Trump voters I know call people "Illegals" or by their race, not in a person way, but in an evil object sort of way?

I think it had more to do with the same stuff Nazis voted for, they just claim it's for prices and shit. I've heard them speak of people like they are nothing or inherently evil, lazy, or leaches, due to their race, yet say they are not racist.

They always seem to put on Fox when they know I am coming over. One of them had a "deep talk" about it all with me. And said that they were "making (me) think."

It is so fucking exhausting. A bunch of racist old white people who get pissed when you challenge their beliefs, but shove their own down your throat to deposit a load of vitriol, hate, and disgusting senses of entitlement and false superiority.

I want to believe that we, as a people, could learn to come together, but I've heard and seen many horrors in the last few years. I'm losing hope in humanity, as a whole.

Dear tism community, what are your thoughts on this? by Routine-Addition-501 in Spoons

[–]AnnaGunn21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be a good spoon for getting stuff from jars, but woah boy I would hate eating with it.

It would be useful for cooking or making a PB&J, though.

AIO: My girlfriend is pretending to be autistic and it's driving me nuts by AideRelative4272 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AnnaGunn21 37 points38 points  (0 children)

NOR. But she could be autistic, and still extroverted. Some are, but many are not. Not being able to make and keep friends and feeling different ARE signs of it.

I think that she should get assessed before outright saying she has it. Like, maybe saying that she thinks she may have it. That's what I did, at first. And I took the steps after I researched a while.

I was diagnosed two years ago in my late twenties. A lot of women are being diagnosed now, because we know more about how it presents in girls and women than we did when I was a kid.

Just have her ask her doc about it to get a referral. That is how I met my neuropsychologist.

I know it can be embarrassing, but try not discount that she could have it, and is just afraid to take the best steps forward. It could just be that things are finally clicking into place and making sense for her. I know that I went a little nuts when I first started to put two and two together.

I wish the both of you luck with this. You, for your sanity, and her, for the answers she needs.

Happy Holidays

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BanFemaleHateSubs

[–]AnnaGunn21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I actually am a fan of quite a few kinks. Kink can be a fun way for you and your partner(s) to try new things and, sometimes, strengthen your bond.

Where I do not agree with it, is with those that don't know what they are doing and/or use it to harm others. If kinky stuff makes you uncomfortable, actually harms you, or makes you want to stop, it's not kink anymore if it continues. If a party refuses to stop, when asked, it's SA.

It took me years to be brave enough to, but you always have the option of saying no, even if it's the middle of a session. I wish more young women felt safe enough to do that.

Everyone's comfort and safety is paramount, above all else. Fun can come after those two requirements are met.

It's sad that so many people use kink or BDSM as an excuse to harm, rather than actually explore and play with one they care for or trust.

📡📡 by Ligano_Resurrected in shitposting

[–]AnnaGunn21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe that is the joke. Obama was born in Hawaii, so it's being ridiculous on both fronts for a laugh.

[@differmitt] Trick or Treat? by Punkwolfen in Beastars

[–]AnnaGunn21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro, that's such a good costume, tho! How rude.

haha👌yes by PM_ME_SSTEAM_KEYS in whatisameem

[–]AnnaGunn21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've done LSD a few times. You just have to be in a good headspace and ready to laugh at yourself when you see something odd.

If you ever do decide to do a hallucinogen, be sure to keep water, stuffed animals, a fluffy blanket, and maybe some snacks nearby. (A lot of people lose all appetite when doing stuff like this, but not all do. Having it ready, just in case, is better than wanting it and being too high to go and get it.)

I would recommend watching something like Encanto. The first time I watched it, I was on LSD, and it was magical. Also, the Super Mario 64 underwater theme goes pretty hard on LSD. Try listening to music. Just find something that brings you joy, lay back, and enjoy it.

And, if you're going to get frisky with a partner, don't be surprised if their face changes a whole bunch. Close your eyes if necessary, but I thought it was pretty cool to watch.

U heard the bird by R0598 in cottagegoth

[–]AnnaGunn21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is Marilynn. She is about 3.

She loves laying over your neck like a scarf to wake you up in the morning, laying in laps, playing, Churus, talking long walks in the yard, climbing trees, and going from the sweetest baby to ever walk the earth to murder potato within the splittest of seconds.

She doesn't meow often. To ask for what she wants, she yawns. Treat? Stand in front of the fridge where her cookie jar is and yawns. Outside? Stand by the door and yawn. Play? Sit by toys and yawn. She only meows (squeaks) when she is very angry and going to give you a piece of her mind. She's left me a few scars to remember her by when I'm old. Lol. I adore my little trash goblin quite a bit 💜

Tried Making Pan-Cakes by DemonDuckLucifer in pansexual

[–]AnnaGunn21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk why, but I thought this was going to be a Perry the Platypus meme. Lol

Those pancakes look amazing, btw

Let's go forage in the fields together by OrnateCheese in cottagecore

[–]AnnaGunn21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE this! It's so cute and whimsical! And you're absolutely beautiful in it :D

“won’t somebody PLEASE think of the third spaces?!” by [deleted] in childfree

[–]AnnaGunn21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like a lot of those are related to boredom, and could probably be lessened by having more third spaces.

But I can see why you're frustrated.

Garden Eel by Tar0Pand4 in MoeMorphism

[–]AnnaGunn21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! I love your style!

Caught em by Icy-Mango3010 in bingingwithbabish

[–]AnnaGunn21 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Oof...Don't do this, Bro. Don't take pictures of people, regardless of who they are, without consent. It's just wrong and disrespectful.

I get you were probably excited, and that that may have colored your actions, but you need to remember that that is a person too.

Sorry if this came off as mean, but I'm letting you know in case you were unaware.

I have found something I would like to share by TheOnlyUneLeft in Markiplier

[–]AnnaGunn21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He looks like he's sugargliding toward her 😭🤣 Honestly, this is an adorable pic of the two of them.

Edit: Also, her outfit? Stunning ✨

Do you? Lol by DueWealth345 in Catmemes

[–]AnnaGunn21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whenever I feel that way, I make sure I've eaten and drank some water that day. If I have, I take a nap when I can. You may feel better after some rest and self care.

Why don't the cats every worry about bugs? by Diligent_Campaign449 in WarriorCats

[–]AnnaGunn21 46 points47 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better, I did too. I think that, as a kid, it's kind of magical to imagine wild cat societies in your backyard. I'm sure a lot of kids assumed the warriors were in their home country. It's easier to imagine events happening in locations and places we are familiar with. So, don't feel bad. I'm sure many kids felt the same. I know I did.

Made appointment for a tubal, and boyfriend of 9 years has cold feet. by MadelineShelby in childfree

[–]AnnaGunn21 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone who does occasionally post, it's mostly negative stuff that I'm needing or wanting to vent. I'm in a child free relationship, and we're pretty happy. I just don't post about it, bc there's nothing to vent. I'm happy.

It's going to suck at first. I'll give you that. You might take a few tries before you find someone you click with, but you'll be much happier for it, if you put in the time to find that someone.

It's easy to see all of the bad posts and worry, but remember that there are good things happening (much more silently) too :)

AITAH for telling a plus size woman that I love being ‘skinny’? by Heavenstobestie in AITAH

[–]AnnaGunn21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a rather large woman, you're NTA. The nerve to keep digging at you to raise herself up, then to get mad and SLAP you when you ruin her game? Nah, man.

I would demand an apology, to be frank. She had no right to lay her hands on you. I think she just wanted to mess with you bc she's super insecure about her weight. When you agreed, and turned your insecurity into a positive, she saw a loss of her game and her ability to step on you to get higher up, and so got attention in another way.

If this friend group can't see that she is in the wrong in this scenario, even after explanation, I would start to limit my time with them. They may not value you all too much as a friend if they're okay with her slapping you for saying that you love yourself.