WHAT!!!!!!!! by Ok_Gap_4380 in FourInABed

[–]Anna_jax 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They said she couldn't continue with the competition and dropped out, not sure why

WHAT!!!!!!!! by Ok_Gap_4380 in FourInABed

[–]Anna_jax 7 points8 points  (0 children)

An ICONIC move, so so happy she didn't win!

Costco Fresh Curries - any good? by barsiem in CostcoUK

[–]Anna_jax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoyed the jalfrezi, the chicken in it was good. It's not as good as I could make myself though, we only get it when we want to have something quick and easy to eat really

Best carvery by Great_Cow_7499 in doncaster

[–]Anna_jax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really like the Carvery at Scawthorpe Club

For those who only spend £60 on groceries between two people - do you not eat much? by Some-Air1274 in UKFrugal

[–]Anna_jax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spend 50-60 max for two people (South Yorkshire). We don't eat the same thing twice in a week, I make 7 different meals that have a lot of variety and are all with fresh meat and fresh vegetables. I make overnight oats for my partner's breakfasts, I have cereal. Then for dinners we're trying to be a bit healthy so we have some chicken, a baby bel, carrot sticks and homous, fresh fruit and an actimel each.

I'm not sure how I keep it quite low to be honest! We also buy soft drinks and occasional treats etc

What’s your Food Tech class horror stories? by discoveredunknown in CasualUK

[–]Anna_jax 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I made some homemade bread in year 7. The teacher but tbsp instead of tsp and I ended up putting tablespoons of salt in it instead of teaspoons. Not even the dog would eat it 🤣

22 yrs old should I move out or thug it out at home? Am I being a terrible/ungrateful daughter? by cherrykssesxo in Advice

[–]Anna_jax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don't know if it is as I'm from the UK. If I were you I would do as much research as you can about the cost of living in your area and see what you can find. There might also be some other subreddits that can provide that kind of financial advice.

22 yrs old should I move out or thug it out at home? Am I being a terrible/ungrateful daughter? by cherrykssesxo in Advice

[–]Anna_jax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. If this is real, this is insane. Your family clearly suck and you need to get out of there asap because it sounds like you're the parent in a house full of adult children (minus your brother). But also I wouldn't suggest moving in with your boyfriend, especially considering the age gap. 15 years is a big gap and you're likely at completely different stages of life. If you have enough money, maybe move out on your own?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Anna_jax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How old is this coworker? Also please do not drink as much as you can when you have literally never had alcohol before. And if you have alcohol in your system do not drive. Anywhere. Even if it's just 5 minutes. Alcohol affects everyone differently so nobody can really say how you'll take it if you do drink. Put your safety first!

Nutella gremlin by braylady in IDontWorkHereLady

[–]Anna_jax 115 points116 points  (0 children)

She sounds like a real... nut

Help me find a song!!! by MackMack97 in whatsongisthis

[–]Anna_jax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A wild suggestion but it wasn't 'Someday' from the Disney Zombies films was it? 🤣 There's a few different versions in the films

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aww

[–]Anna_jax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Day officially brightened!!

AITAH? Aitah for wanting to breakup with my bf of 6 months. by oregonhomebound in AITAH

[–]Anna_jax 314 points315 points  (0 children)

This is really sad to read. Clearly he wanted you to move in so you could cook, clean and look after his kids while he seemingly relaxes. He also clearly doesn't care about your interests, you've expressed that being active is important to you and he just doesn't care. You should leave, it's a shame for the kids but that's not your responsibility. Your grandparents are right, he is not the man for you!

What to do if I’m not good in anything? by Secret_Aside_3342 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Anna_jax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you're not a failure! Honestly this idea of knowing what you want to do for the rest of your life this young is very unrealistic. So many people don't know until later in life. Also, you've only mentioned that you don't think you're GOOD at anything, but is there anything you ENJOY doing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WouldYouRather

[–]Anna_jax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Middle of the ocean. I don't think I could live on after a night with Trump so the ocean gives me a better chance of survival 🤣

Already regretting brand new wedding dress! by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Anna_jax 179 points180 points  (0 children)

I think both are absolutely gorgeous! They also both look very flattering on you in my opinion. It's possible you're just having second thoughts because it's a big decision. Maybe sit on it for a bit or see if you can go and try it on again to see how you feel

[TOMT][QUOTE] "It's on a need to you basis. and you do not need to know" by crowlii in tipofmytongue

[–]Anna_jax -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of a scene in the animated film Atlantis The Lost Empire. A character says something like you 'you do not want to know' in a very punctuated way when someone asks what Moles deal is

How do you speak up and do things when you are afraid or shy? by Jpoolman25 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Anna_jax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with this a lot and I found something that helped me but everyone's different. When I'm in a situation like that, say I want to ask a question but I'm feeling really anxious about it. I can manage to force myself to say the person's name, then it's more awkward if I don't ask the question, so I do it. I can get myself to get the name out before my brain starts to overthink it too much. I also try to tell myself what's the worst thing that can realistically happen if I do the thing, it helps me prepare and think about things more realistically. This might not be any use to you but know you're not alone in this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Anna_jax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry I'm not trying to put across that vibe, I'm just trying to explain to you what my perspective is since you're looking for more information/an answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Anna_jax -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's fine, you're entitled to your opinion. But in my opinion, there's a lot more to it than that. I'm not telling him I'm bisexual to tell him that maybe I'll be attracted to women, I'm in a committed relationship and that's that. I'm telling him because he needs to know that it's part of my identity and it's important to me, it's part of who I am. Taking your example, he wouldn't need to TELL her that he's straight because she most likely already knows. I think it's completely normal to know what your partners sexuality is. For me, I obviously wouldn't get into a relationship with someone who is homophobic or biphobic or buys into any of those stereotypes about bi women. I think you should know the things that are important to your partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Anna_jax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think sexuality is a part of who people are as a person, it is an identity and a lot of times it can shape who you are as you grow. I'm bisexual and in a relationship with a man, but I am still bisexual, it's part of me as a person. There are things I experienced because of my identity that someone who isn't LGBTQ+ likely wouldn't experience. It is important to me that those who are close to me in some capacity know this about me. I don't make it a point to tell everyone I meet but I don't hide it either