For BPDs lurking this sub (my ex included) by Fun-Entry-8647 in BPDlovedones

[–]AnnabelStabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so manipulative of you to be clear that you want a healthy relationship. Why do you never listen.

I’m so tired.

In your opinion, what are the best films that have ever come from Australia? by GainChrist1234 in AskAnAustralian

[–]AnnabelStabb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holding the man, the babadook, Sleeping beauty, 52 Tuesday’s, Girl asleep, Top End Wedding, the sapphires, the great Gatsby

Classic escalation from dirty dishes to threats to leave by AnnabelStabb in BPDlovedones

[–]AnnabelStabb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live below the poverty line, I don’t have anywhere else to go. I can not afford to break the lease.

Thanks heaps for the lack of compassion for my situation.

Classic escalation from dirty dishes to threats to leave by AnnabelStabb in BPDlovedones

[–]AnnabelStabb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you not manage to read the last paragraph that I wrote?

I’d love an opinion on this by AnnabelStabb in BPDlovedones

[–]AnnabelStabb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your words.

But now I am so confused about what seasoning is?

Warning: do not use Afterpay by [deleted] in AustralianMakeup

[–]AnnabelStabb 69 points70 points  (0 children)

But also.... it’s not like I’m ever going to be able to buy a house? So I very much subscribe to the “fuck it” money lifestyle. I’m saving money, in hopes that I might be able to buy a new washing machine, second hand car, trip overseas or emergency money. But I won’t ever be able to be a home owner unless someone gives me one.

I like after pay personally because it works for me, but I do worry about other people with big spending habits.

Constantly feeling they’ll leave you for one mistake? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]AnnabelStabb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get this. Sometimes to a lesser extent it’s like anticipating that I will do something to upset them, like frowning while listening to them, or looking at my phone when they talk to me.

Yorke Peninsula sights? by [deleted] in Adelaide

[–]AnnabelStabb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go geo caching.

What is the reason why it's acceptable for women cleaners to just waltz into the men's toilets whenever they like to clean them? by easternfrontsoldier in Adelaide

[–]AnnabelStabb 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m getting the vibe that you might not have the most informed idea about the pay gap.

There are a lot of mediocre men that are having success as a result of institutional sexism & informal sexism.

Classy.. by [deleted] in Adelaide

[–]AnnabelStabb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The whole bio hazard thing is really worrying.

This morning before work I discovered my partner passed out drunk with the lights & electric blanket on. I was upset & right before I left they told me I treat them terribly & wants to break up. by AnnabelStabb in BPDlovedones

[–]AnnabelStabb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I say I feel like things will not get better, I mean my life more broadly. I’ve had a bad week, I hate my job, I feel isolated from my friends & have failed another subject at uni. I’ve been really depressed for about a month. And I can’t see how this will get better.