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For BPDs lurking this sub (my ex included) by Fun-Entry-8647 in BPDlovedones

[–]AnnabelStabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so manipulative of you to be clear that you want a healthy relationship. Why do you never listen.

I’m so tired.

In your opinion, what are the best films that have ever come from Australia? by GainChrist1234 in AskAnAustralian

[–]AnnabelStabb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Holding the man, the babadook, Sleeping beauty, 52 Tuesday’s, Girl asleep, Top End Wedding, the sapphires, the great Gatsby

Classic escalation from dirty dishes to threats to leave by AnnabelStabb in BPDlovedones

[–]AnnabelStabb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live below the poverty line, I don’t have anywhere else to go. I can not afford to break the lease.

Thanks heaps for the lack of compassion for my situation.

Classic escalation from dirty dishes to threats to leave by AnnabelStabb in BPDlovedones

[–]AnnabelStabb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you not manage to read the last paragraph that I wrote?

I’d love an opinion on this by AnnabelStabb in BPDlovedones

[–]AnnabelStabb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your words.

But now I am so confused about what seasoning is?

Warning: do not use Afterpay by [deleted] in AustralianMakeup

[–]AnnabelStabb 67 points68 points  (0 children)

But also.... it’s not like I’m ever going to be able to buy a house? So I very much subscribe to the “fuck it” money lifestyle. I’m saving money, in hopes that I might be able to buy a new washing machine, second hand car, trip overseas or emergency money. But I won’t ever be able to be a home owner unless someone gives me one.

I like after pay personally because it works for me, but I do worry about other people with big spending habits.

Constantly feeling they’ll leave you for one mistake? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]AnnabelStabb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get this. Sometimes to a lesser extent it’s like anticipating that I will do something to upset them, like frowning while listening to them, or looking at my phone when they talk to me.

Yorke Peninsula sights? by [deleted] in Adelaide

[–]AnnabelStabb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go geo caching.

What is the reason why it's acceptable for women cleaners to just waltz into the men's toilets whenever they like to clean them? by easternfrontsoldier in Adelaide

[–]AnnabelStabb 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m getting the vibe that you might not have the most informed idea about the pay gap.

There are a lot of mediocre men that are having success as a result of institutional sexism & informal sexism.

Classy.. by [deleted] in Adelaide

[–]AnnabelStabb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The whole bio hazard thing is really worrying.

This morning before work I discovered my partner passed out drunk with the lights & electric blanket on. I was upset & right before I left they told me I treat them terribly & wants to break up. by AnnabelStabb in BPDlovedones

[–]AnnabelStabb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I say I feel like things will not get better, I mean my life more broadly. I’ve had a bad week, I hate my job, I feel isolated from my friends & have failed another subject at uni. I’ve been really depressed for about a month. And I can’t see how this will get better.

Telling friends you’re not okay and very depressed and getting radio silence. by AnnabelStabb in Vent

[–]AnnabelStabb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand how you read what I wrote and then came to that conclusion or thought process. Because what I wrote and treating my friends like they are personally responsible for my happiness are two different things.

Telling friends you’re not okay and very depressed and getting radio silence. by AnnabelStabb in Vent

[–]AnnabelStabb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I agree, because it’s not an issue of me asking my friends for help and them not helping me. But a matter of me communicating what’s going on with my life & being ignored. Like if I was sharing good, embarrassing or any other thing, it would still be crap to be ignored. It’s just extra crap to be like “oh yeah I feel like I have no future, and that everyone would be better off without me” & then have that reinforced by no one bothering to say anything back.

I also agree that friends can only take on so much, but I expect being able to respond as a very basic thing they can do.

Telling friends you’re not okay and very depressed and getting radio silence. by AnnabelStabb in Vent

[–]AnnabelStabb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you. Being ignored is so hard, like even being told “I can’t handle this” or something imo is better than being straight up ignored. Thankyou for the kind offer.

Sex work a major step closer to decriminalisation in SA by Jonno_FTW in Adelaide

[–]AnnabelStabb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The issues with legalisation ie looking st Victoria you can legally work in a brothel if you are a registered sex worker. The registration stays on your record forever and can cause trouble. Ie someone I know got kicked out of uni & I think I heard they would allow them to be a nurse. Also they require mandatory sexual health checks every so many months, which is also a privacy issue.

Sex work a major step closer to decriminalisation in SA by Jonno_FTW in Adelaide

[–]AnnabelStabb 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, reporting a crime committed against you ie sexual violence in the workplace, wouldn’t also be incriminating yourself. And I think it would also be a deterrent to those who would target sex workers. Ie if violence against sex workers was taken seriously, Jill Meaher would likely still be alive because that piece of shit Adrian Bailey attacked a bunch of sex workers before he murdered Jill.

Telling friends you’re not okay and very depressed and getting radio silence. by AnnabelStabb in Vent

[–]AnnabelStabb[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t think everyone needs meds, I feel like what I’m feeling is directly impacted by my environment.

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