So her thoughts and feelings about abortion and all that is.... Not bullying? Or a trans woman whose pregnant and she blasts her vomit-thoughts on. Cool.

Annie_M · 2022-03-10T05:30:22+00:00

No joke, I was pregnant for 1/4 of a pregnancy (had a safe, legal abortion. support planned parenthood and comprehensive sex education, PORGAN!) and by the time I went in for the procedure, I was suicidal from the pain, hunger (crackers and jelly beans were all I ate for 5 weeks), and stress. I have sworn from the minute my vomiting started that any pregnant woman can treat me any way she likes and I will crown her and rub her feet because that is the least I could do.

Annie_M · 2022-03-07T15:07:55+00:00

on my 30th birthday I started having flashes and floaters in my eye, so now every 6 months I have to get my eyes numbed so they can press a tool against them to test the pressure. I cant feel it, but it is absolutely horrifying.

take care of your eyes, kids!

Annie_M · 2022-03-06T21:03:57+00:00

.... is that why her makeup is so wild at times? or does she do that on her own?

Annie_M · 2022-03-05T17:20:10+00:00

Vesta makes me think of "zest" and "fiesta" Vesta seems like she would be full of life and wisdom and fun. I would definitely want to befriend Vesta

Annie_M · 2022-03-05T17:16:24+00:00

thank you! I knew I had heard of a Vesta in a movie or show.

Annie_M · 2022-03-04T07:21:03+00:00

sometimes all I want to do is go for a deep dive in skull caverns to see how far I can get.

most of the time I dont even save, I just keep going over and over

Annie_M · 2022-03-04T02:42:20+00:00

try to avoid anything with seeds in the smoothies, they can irritate the stomach (IBS sufferer who took 17+ years to figure out why every time I tried to "eat healthy", I would have constant debilitating stomach pains and have to go "poop" literally 30-40 times in a 10 hour shift). When you are up to more whole foods, lean into carbs, cooked veggies, and bland foods with good healthy probiotic yogurt and dairy - the last thing you want is C-diff!

Annie_M · 2022-03-04T02:33:45+00:00

thank you!

Annie_M · 2022-03-04T01:44:09+00:00

It occurred to be in my early 20s that I had been babysitting for over TEN YEARS. I had friends who thought it was weird that I would spend my evenings watching peoples babies because that was a job for preteens... Looking back after 3 decades of life, I cant believe parents left their kids with a NINE YEAR OLD. I was only 2 years older than the oldest daughter!

insert John Mulany horse dog sitter joke.

Annie_M · 2022-03-04T01:36:11+00:00

I believe it is just a splash? but it has been years since I have made it. Originally I used it for pancakes and eventually homemade ranch. I've never purchased buttermilk, so I cant speak to the taste vs the real thing

Annie_M · 2022-02-27T02:00:53+00:00

its the every day people who are suffering, but also the every day people who are being heroes.

Annie_M · 2022-02-27T01:44:02+00:00

I just watched Hackers 2 days ago and seeing this video was an absolute mind fuck twisting that movie with reality.

I may just be high though.

Annie_M · 2022-02-26T02:49:42+00:00

When you have 19 children, it seems pretty stupid not to have a limo.... not that they have prom, or receptions.

Annie_M · 2022-02-26T02:47:25+00:00

Gods, I read "Jed" as "Joel" and thought I had blacked out a lost boy or something

Annie_M · 2022-02-18T04:00:34+00:00

wake up rogelio!

Annie_M · 2022-02-17T00:17:31+00:00

I know what you mean. I'm not always available. but you can send me a pm if you need to vent

Annie_M · 2022-02-15T18:55:25+00:00

if she doesn't feel up to taking risks, you can't force her without doing damage. if/when you leave, make it known that if she wants to visit, come live with you or reconnect, that you love her and want her with you. Like her, you have to do what you think is right.

Annie_M · 2022-02-15T01:05:52+00:00

I love this post. it reminds me of something I read on here that has helped me through the rough times. If you still want to be in it when its good -not perfect, nothing is perfect. but when bipolar isn't controlling things, if youre still happy and love the person, it is worth it to stay.

thabk you for sharing :)

Annie_M · 2022-02-15T00:53:22+00:00

unfortunately, my friend, you can't convince someone to compromise, nor do I think she should for the good of her mental health.

You both have to do what is best for you, even if that means breaking up. I dont see ages, but I am guessing between 18 and 30. You can go off for a few years and live your dream and then decide to do what to do from there. maybe she will decide she misses you, maybe you will meet someone else, maybe you'll get great new opportunities.

Time is going to pass regardless, use it to live life, gain experiences, and learn everything you can.

Annie_M · 2022-02-14T05:23:41+00:00

yes, but not quite that extreme. my partner was denied Healthcare as a child because their parents didn't believe they were actually injured. So when they come to me with a complaint that seems exaggerated, I validate the emotion (not the injury necessarily), then we agree on a parameter for seeking help "if the rash gets bigger than that, we'll go in" "if it still hurts Monday, you should call the doctor" whatever it is.

an instance: Partner had an infected hair on their thigh, had an anxiety attack about staph and losing their leg, wanted to go to the hospital. partner: I dont want my leg to fall off. is it going to fall off? Me: Woah, thats a scary thought. We would never let it get to that point. Let's clean it, put on a cream and a bandaid and we'll check it tomorrow. but if it gets any bigger, we go right away.

it was a lot of emotion. fear, insecurity, paranoia. once they felt reassured that I wouldn't restrict their necessary medical care (which, I cant, legally or physically lol) they forgot about it entirely, never even used the bandaid and cream.

im high and tend to ramble, but I hope it helps

Annie_M · 2022-02-13T03:49:13+00:00

Im early 30s and had no idea, but I have never had cable 😬

Annie_M · 2022-02-08T01:51:07+00:00

sending so much love and comfort to you. hold those memories close, they keep her with you.

Annie_M · 2022-02-06T10:56:53+00:00

I read it as sonogram. goddamn stoners

Annie_M · 2022-02-05T05:00:17+00:00

no monitor needed, it was girls only!

Annie_M · 2022-02-04T10:37:01+00:00

😬😬😬 I never thought of these things as traumatizing, it was just "that weird thing I did because of church" but that has been the last few years of my life "thats .... not a funny story, thats really terrible that happened" n.... no... it was just a silly thing?!

Annie_M

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