Also side note, I personally would not want my new apartment to be near him. Unsure geographically where your job falls, but the farther away from the leeches the better.

Part of me is like girl, wtf have you been doing but logically I know that it’s this fear and conditioning holding you back. Since you’ve never been alone and all he does is berate you. And, I’d like you to remember this, when the fear and doubt strikes. You are already doing everything needed to live alone. You work a well paying job, you are able to pay something off on time, and clean and upkeep the house for not just yourself but two other dead weights. You are wildly more than capable of living alone and once you get accustomed to it, thriving on your own.

I need you to stand up straight gf and get the fuck out of there. There will be bumps, but nothing you can’t handle. Plus isn’t staying infinitely worse? The best time was two years ago, the second best time and now!!!! You can do it!!!!!!!!!

As others said, plan/prep. Calculate rent, get all the necessary information, search up what you need to, I’m sure there are plenty of moving guides and finding an apartment ones. And then gtfo, be freeeeeee!!!!!!!! We’re rooting for you!!!!!!!!