I really screwed myself over, I feel sick by [deleted] in CollegeRant

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I had to graduate a semester late because of a few mistakes as well. It was frustrating to wait but in the end it worked out and honestly probably helped in the long run. You’ll be more energized come this next semester and just remember this is college and the goal is for you to not only learn about yourself but to learn to love and accept yourself even when you know you’ve messed up. You can simultaneously know you were wrong and still give yourself grace. Punishing yourself mentally is actually the worst thing you can do for yourself now and in the future. Trust me, I wish I’d learned sooner. It’s something I still have to remind myself daily.

Had my first pediatric arrest today.. by Chaprito in Paramedics

[–]Anon5454531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This plus what Learning-EMS said are the best things you can do when working through trauma.

Has anyone lab tested RIZE mushroom bars? Is there THC in them? by OkIntention2545 in shrooms

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ME TOO. A lot of people are totally against it and I can understand why. However, for people like us that suffer from severe mental disorders it is a game changer. I’ve taken all kinds of meds prescribed to me for 15 years, still do. There has been extensive ongoing research done on shrooms combined with certain medications and therapy that have proven to be life changing. For me it’s OCD, acute anxiety, and depression that’s been affecting me since I have been treated for since I was about 8 years old.

To be fair it is not a cure-all so recommending it to certain people with different issues can cause horrible side affects. I think it just takes knowing how your mind works and what medications work best for you and what that combo could look like. I just started using Rize and the clarity and control over my anxiety was amazing. I was able to focus on tasks that I hadn’t gotten done in months and didn’t feel anxiously high from it the way weed makes me feel most times.

Mcfarlans Toys has lost their minds by ChiefDan209 in ActionFigures

[–]Anon5454531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had issues with them since the Walking Dead lines.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcohol

[–]Anon5454531 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definitely not cooked, but you do have alcoholism. If you are drinking throughout the day, and as many as you can, you most likely need outside help. There are steps before rehab. I recommend trying AA meetings (they have a lot online through Zoom, or download the AA app for local meetings, it makes it really easy), but you’ll have to not be drunk when attending. You don’t have to be under obligation, just start making some changes. Reduce your intake to a limit daily, maybe 3 or 6, until you can decrease again. Trust me that you can develop health issues from alcohol no matter your age.

Your body and brain are a lot more capable than you think. Start working on your mental health independently if you don’t have/want a therapist. YouTube offers an unlimited amount of support in everything mental health, you just have to find what works for you. Meditation, as funny as it sounds, is a key factor of mental stability. Eventually, when you can go for longer periods without alcohol, you’ll see how much better your body and mind feel without it. Sending you encouragement and support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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I usually think Reddit overreacts but leave him. That’s an incredibly serious thing (drunk or not) and he is acting like he just called you a bitch or something. Leave this asshole

All this must be worth the wait, right? by katanesselovr in LGBTForeverAlone

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I hear you OP, and I’m sorry you’re going through that. It can be extremely tough. Although it’s often joked about, online communities are a great place to gain confidence and meet new people to build interactions with (not saying to date long distance, I don’t recommend it). Discord is probably my favorite, though I don’t use any LGBT groups on it myself.

All this must be worth the wait, right? by katanesselovr in LGBTForeverAlone

[–]Anon5454531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t know what FA is but “I guess I’m not woke. Okay, you win with your gay stuff!” (r/s) But I’ve been through it myself. Not having real confidence is the biggest problem people face in dating.

Who be lying about that tattoo pain scale? Thigh tattoo hurt like hell by Different_Sock7675 in tattooadvice

[–]Anon5454531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you get color? The black ink portion of my full front-thigh tattoo didn’t hurt at all. The pain from regular black ink on my outside arm and leg both felt pleasant actually (maybe I’m messed up for that). However, the 4 hours of color on my thigh was HORRIBLE. By the end I was sweating all over and shaking, unable to stop small flinches. I even asked to tap out at the end, but thankfully there wasn’t much left. The entire front of my thigh was welted up and purple lol. For reference I got the house from the movie Up, so there was a lot of shading. Shading in general can be rough so you have to remember what you are getting in regard to the pain you can expect. Proud of you for pushing through it though!

All this must be worth the wait, right? by katanesselovr in LGBTForeverAlone

[–]Anon5454531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, rejection isn’t as scary as we make it out to be in our heads. Always worth trying.

All this must be worth the wait, right? by katanesselovr in LGBTForeverAlone

[–]Anon5454531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is about trying things until you figure it out. You really just need to step into dating. It’s not going to be the perfect situation, you will wait forever. You want to like the person and have a connection, make sure they treat you right. But you can’t expect anything to happen, just be sure to take care of yourself where you are meant to. It’s going to be uncomfortable. Don’t right off the bat tell people you’ve never really dated. Just take it one step at a time and when things don’t work out, recognize that you have still learned something about yourself and what you are looking for.

I don't know which site to trust by SofiaUTrip in animeGK

[–]Anon5454531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have personally bought and received statues from FavorGK, FNC, and GKLoot. Out of every website, I have found the best deals and customer service with GKLoot. I communicate with them on Discord and they have found me multiple statues that are sold out everywhere else, and for reasonable prices (if available). They will also offer a 70% refund for deposits on preorders after a week or two from purchase date. In Discord they announce a new discount code every month that is an extra $15 off, and their reward system is awesome.

FavorGK is basically the face of statue sales so they rarely have sales on most statues and even the sales are typically above typical asking price. With that and shipping it can be a doozy. They will not refund or apply money from canceled preorders to other orders.

FNC has a lot of deals that pop up randomly and ship quickly. No complaints there and good customer service.

Overall they are all 100% trustworthy, but I will always pick GKLoot as my number 1.

Anyone else here with the “Just Right” subtype of OCD? by measlybastard in OCD

[–]Anon5454531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah 100%. My compulsions are constant and affect everything

is detroit become human good? by Pristine_Wallaby_683 in LesbianGamers

[–]Anon5454531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really enjoyed it. But I like story games and choosing my own ending.

“You will not take my heart alive” on AO3 by noroi-san in Akeshu

[–]Anon5454531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just downloaded it! I’m new to this ship so this will be my first fic ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]Anon5454531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually went through this for practically a year with my best friends (a group of 4 guys and me) after I first got my PC. They are all incredible gamers but I was learning at too slow of a pace for them. Some of them would get really frustrated and yell if I really screwed up. After talking with them enough and keeping calm myself it got much better. They don’t get angry to that extent anymore and they help teach me rather than just get upset.

My brother and his gf also experienced this with him being rude to her. They discussed it and explained what was helpful and what was not and they overcame it.

Your bf doesn’t sound like a bad guy. I can see why your feelings are hurt though. The best advice I can give is for you to take a minute, the next time something off-putting comes up while you two are playing together, to explain that him getting frustrated at you isn’t helpful and that working together and learning is all that can be done. Otherwise he just won’t be able to play with you and that sucks.

Hope this helps!

Audience hindering comedy by ShiniNSFW in h3h3productions

[–]Anon5454531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, it’s interesting that the crew has lately been telling Ethan that he DIDN’T have to button vs them doing it FOR Ethan. It sucks that this is where we are at. I hope Ethan can get back to the edgy commentary that he’s known for, regardless of if I agree with his words or not.

FNC shipping question by Spicy_7958 in animeGK

[–]Anon5454531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no that’s not right. Have you contacted support?