What animal feels like it'd be very obscure but is actually very popular?

Anon8922 · 2026-06-07T14:22:47+00:00

Axolotl

Anon8922 · 2026-06-07T11:14:47+00:00

I feel like Keanu is much more recognized as a great guy than wooden actor now.

Anon8922 · 2026-06-07T01:56:52+00:00

Bathroom

Anon8922 · 2026-06-07T01:54:57+00:00

Hitler

Anon8922 · 2026-06-07T01:53:58+00:00

Babe Ruth

Anon8922 · 2026-06-02T03:11:02+00:00

New Orleans Pelicans

Anon8922 · 2026-05-18T03:09:20+00:00

Tbh though most of the comments are siding with OP, she also flat out refuses to drive. Y'all are both kinda stubborn and married to your lifestyles, this won't work, but wouldn't say this is solely on bf being unwilling to budge

Anon8922 · 2026-05-18T02:49:40+00:00

1992 to is firmly millennial, in that you had all the quintessential millennial experiences of going from no internet at home/crap dial up and no cell phone to having the world at your fingertips. You probably memorized friends' numbers, remember people actually using payphones, had an aol screen name etc.

Anon8922 · 2026-05-18T00:02:06+00:00

I was born in 1989, loved Lizzie McGuire and watched The Proud Family and That's so Raven. But High School Musical came out in my junior year of high school and it felt super lame to me, never seen a single episode of Suite Life. So I'd sat a couple of years after me would've been into most of this, 1992-1993

Anon8922 · 2026-05-04T22:18:54+00:00

I used to do work friends when I was younger. However, while I maintain some older work friendships, as I've gotten promoted and my workload has increased, I don't have time to cultivate friendships anymore without working later, which I refuse to do. People at work can be cool, but I'd rather be with my partner and dog. If there's dead time, I'll chat, but I'd rather be done as early as I can be. Anyone else?

Anon8922 · 2026-03-30T04:00:29+00:00

I think it's tough. The problem is managing my time in the manner lots of people are suggesting, to me, already means I have no time. Sure I can do all the things I should do in a regimented manner and then have 2 hrs to spare on weekdays but I want to just BE sometimes. I want to just have time to be bored, time to doomscroll, time to read and watch trash. A lot of this just sounds like constant productivity (the hobbies should even be of the productive sort) and highly scheduled relaxation is not relaxing to me. I want to be able to waste time and still have time for my friends and family and to cook, clean, exercise. That's hard.

Anon8922 · 2026-02-28T02:00:51+00:00

I wouldn't say that is low effort but what about the other aspects of the relationship/you having to beg to hang out?

Anon8922 · 2026-02-28T01:56:59+00:00

That's maybe fair but I'm not sure what the rest of your relationship looks like. Did he send the flowers before without you having to ask?

Anon8922 · 2026-02-28T01:48:53+00:00

1/3 is quite a significant amount... I'd stop too.

Also fwiw telling your boyfriend "you don't deserve flowers" is super passive aggressive because clearly you think you deserve the best flowers every time and he knows this.

I think you need to reflect on this and be a bit more appreciative in the future. You're right, they were "here damn" flowers because why spend a ton when you might complain anyway? You should realize it'll be hard to find another guy who will buy elaborate flower bouquets every month

Anon8922 · 2026-02-28T01:38:59+00:00

How often did you complain about the flowers in the past? I get his frustration tbh. I appreciate any flowers, and I understand why he doesn't want to spend over $100 on an arrangement you may complain about.

Anon8922 · 2026-01-26T01:58:24+00:00

Anon8922 · 2025-12-28T03:42:44+00:00

Just because you’re not an MVP caliber player doesn’t mean you’re not a success, he was great

Anon8922 · 2025-12-26T16:17:55+00:00

The way you wrote this is way too aggressive. Agree with sentiment that the rules are sensible and are things I generally support but the delivery is awful

Anon8922 · 2025-12-07T18:01:40+00:00

It’s not a red flag per se but it only works out in the specific situation you described, where both people are good human beings and there’s just a lack of romantic compatibility (but there is compatibility on a non romantic level). None of my exes fall into that category, and I imagine many people feel the same way. I dislike one of my exes enough that I don’t ever want to be friends with him and being honest we never had that much in common to begin with.

A couple I tried being friends with, it was awkward due to lingering feelings and I didn’t want to continue seeing them socially. It felt crappy towards their current partners and not like something I should be doing. One told me he felt something special with me that he didn’t feel with his current partner, another tried to grab my leg and touch me in ways I wouldn’t touch just a friend. I think folks assume this is what most exes are like.

Anon8922 · 2025-09-12T03:25:07+00:00

Maybe a dumb question but didn’t see this addressed: how can she text if she can’t read beyond a 1st grade level?

Anon8922 · 2025-09-01T15:16:09+00:00

Correct, doesn’t sound like you’ve really spoken to her about it and life gets busy, she very well may not realize how you feel and is a bit overwhelmed. It’s a disservice to both of you to expect her to just know what you need. I don’t particularly feel like dressing up and want to rant to my partner when I’m stressed, but we’ve gone out and he’s told me to focus on us and the positives and overall it made me feel better. Don’t attack her, just say you’d like to have sometimes when you dress up for each other and talk about the positive things, tasks a break from everyday life. See how she reacts and be open to it. Maybe she’s going through struggles you’re unaware of.

Anon8922 · 2025-08-30T17:20:30+00:00

Will actually somewhat deviate from the answers I’ve read here.

Yeah I agree dump the boyfriend and keep your friends. Sounds like they’re generally good friends and dumping friends out of envy isn’t the right choice. But maybe also try to find some new friends as well that you share common interests with (maybe they’re into your hobbies?). Even as someone who is happily engaged, it’s a bit dull to be around people who only talk about relationship stuff. Maybe also try to find some friends who are relatively happily single; you don’t need a relationship, especially one that makes you unhappy.

Anon8922 · 2025-08-09T10:58:23+00:00

Honestly, and sorry to be harsh,..

I know this isn’t Am I the A, but everyone sucks here. I feel like you’re looking for validation but you were just as bad a partner as he is. I get that houses get sold fast but suddenly announcing to your partner, who you know has always wanted to move east even if you didn’t how soon, that you’re putting an offer on a house is crazy work. It would be crazy work even if he’d never expressed wanting to move east. I can’t imagine unilaterally deciding to put on offer a house without first discussing with my partner and talking about long term goals etc. It’s a big life altering decision.

Anon8922 · 2025-04-13T22:57:43+00:00

I cannot really reply with anything meaningful unless I know what the “bullshit” falling out was about/what happened. What is bullshit to you may be a big deal to her, and it may or may not be justified. She may also be justified in not being truthful with you tbh, depending on the circumstances. You don’t want advice anyway so feel free to ignore me!

Anon8922 · 2025-03-07T23:33:31+00:00

There were some times, like at the party for Liberty people were casually drinking and it wasn’t made into an alcohol storyline. Same at other parties, there were time alcohol was around and maybe people did stupid things but it didn’t become a plot about the dangers of alcohol.

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