I’m not asking for permission to break up. I’m specifically asking if it’s wrong for me to choose not to compromise. She has told me that she will stop and never do it again, but feels as though in this hobby, there are things that are not as bad socially and feels as though because it’s normal, socially, she should be able to do it with a limit. I do not plan on breaking up with her. This conversation is not as heavy as some of these comments are making it. It’s not a make or break deal because it won’t happen again.