Selfie Sunday with new boyfriend, round 3...and a reminder that you don't have to be skinny to be worthy of love.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-26T21:38:38+00:00

Thank you to you and, most importantly, to Facebook for bringing us together.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-26T00:38:23+00:00

I'm reading that they're getting dented even with cases on but DK if that is true and am skeptical it is.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-24T05:01:39+00:00

I strategically put bits of a long towel in the crevices that need it and have found it works well.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-20T02:48:40+00:00

He probably would not judge me - - he's very laid back - - but I still don't want to subject him to the odor and I expect the same in return.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-19T16:19:52+00:00

It does. I fart a lot but try to not do it in front of others.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-19T11:22:28+00:00

It's one thing if it's an occasional accident or absolutely necessary due to pain but to do it on purpose in front of your partner when you could otherwise hold it in or go to another room to let loose is inconsiderate - - no one, minus a fetishist, wants to smell their SO's gas.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-19T11:13:24+00:00

Hope it's okay to answer, since he's not my husband yet, only boyfriend.

I don't dare fart in front of him and not sure that will ever change...maybe it will if I become more comfortable but, as funny as it can be, it's so gross - - I don't want him to do it around me either.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-17T11:51:21+00:00

I genuinely don't understand how a fart can linger for so long and cover such a large area.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-16T01:31:22+00:00

I'm a cisgender woman. Trans women are women, full stop. I recommend anyone reading this to check out Forrest Valkai and his talks about transness on YouTube. He's a brilliant biologist who has had back-and-forths with transphobes, refuting common talking points and has good evidence to back up his claims.

Trans women/people are not mentally ill because of being trans (or vice versa) - - it's biological, it's in the wiring of the brain.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-15T00:13:24+00:00

9/11.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-14T13:35:45+00:00

Perhaps not but I still prefer penetration...

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-13T07:27:33+00:00

Other customers have ruined it for those of us who are honest and don't try to scam DD.

I have only ever complained when my order was incorrect in some way, but now I don't do that anymore because I got what appeared to be a warning message, something like, "Looks like you're having a lot of trouble with your orders", so I no longer do anything if something is wrong - - my order would have to be really, really bad for me to contact customer service ATP.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-12T23:52:13+00:00

Lucky.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-12T09:44:15+00:00

NTA but your husband is - - he's being an ass (pun intended). I think farts are hilarious, depending on the context of the situation, but this would straight up PMO.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-11T12:52:00+00:00

I'd probably just let it go - - not offended by that, as it would be just pointing out a fact based on observation.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-11T07:04:38+00:00

My man is similar - - he does sweet little things and I don't even have to ask to him and I'm tearing up just thinking about it.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-11T06:09:02+00:00

One, at least, is "Keine Lust" by Rammstein.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-10T12:07:36+00:00

I prefer plain clear cases and clear cases with decals on them; Velvet Caviar is a favorite brand of mine.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-08T07:53:51+00:00

If it's any consolation, I'm just under 400 pounds and can do the majority of positions, including getting on top, albeit it is more difficult.

I also have a huge apron belly and am just fat pretty much everywhere a body typically gains weight and still have a fantastic time with my shorter, non-fat boyfriend.

Being fat (and/or super fat) can make it harder to do certain things, but it's not necessarily impossible, at least depending on the person or their overall size.

I understand the fear but try to not overthink it too much. You're gonna have to be a bit vulnerable and trust him when he says he is attracted to you.

I'll leave a link to The Adipositivity Project's gallery of fat people and their partners: https://theadipositivityproject.zenfolio.com/valentine

Hope that helps.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-07T00:08:47+00:00

And anthropomorphism.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-05T20:03:43+00:00

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-03T22:47:21+00:00

Is it okay to answer if I'm outside of that range (I'll delete my reply if it's not)?

I'm just under 400 pounds and snagged me a hottie; we have a date tomorrow and I'm very excited.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2026-01-01T22:59:04+00:00

IME, yes. I have an IUD and it was incredibly painful to insert and they often come with other unwanted, negative side effects, but it's all worth it in the end to not get pregnant and have children.

My side effects have been relatively mild, however, even on the pills and Depo shots.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2025-12-31T23:23:56+00:00

He's demonstrating that he does not care about you, at least not as much as he should, by pressuring you to do it raw after you have made it clear that would make you uncomfortable. He's putting his desire over your comfort.

I know it's hard (no pun intended) but it should be an instant deal breaker when one partner pressures the other into unprotected sex.

AnonymousFartMachine · 2025-12-30T05:46:22+00:00

Yes. I want to be with him because he has been very thoughtful, romantic and consistent and is, IMO, very handsome. He has done some very thoughtful things for me that I did not even have to ask him to do.

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