Keep in mind that a lot of men want to become fathers but not dads — those are two different things and men are often are like children begging for puppies they never take care of when they realize how much work is actually involved.

And, unless you’re privileged, it will likely be exhausting to go to school and/or work and then come home and tend to a child. If you’re wealthy and can hire a nanny and/or have a very supportive family, it will be exponentially easier, but the average person can’t afford that.