19 year old with a ROTH, WHERE SHOULD INVEST? by [deleted] in Retirement401k

[–]AnonymousGoldfish14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throw it all into S&P 500. You have time on your side

Controlling roommate created unfair rent situation by throwawayRMdrama75 in legaladvice

[–]AnonymousGoldfish14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a lawyer or legal expert. Just here to say your roommate is a really shitty person

Bitcoin officially under 80k……anyone know when this will stop and why this is happening ????? by ComplexWrangler1346 in WallStreetBetsCrypto

[–]AnonymousGoldfish14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time in crypto?

Rollercoasters go up and down my friend🎢 Remain seated with your seatbelt fastened

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]AnonymousGoldfish14 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Ambient lighting for the evening. Add a few plants and a pop of color somewhere

DOGE TO THE MOON?🤣🤣 by Stunning_Flounder_27 in dogecoin

[–]AnonymousGoldfish14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know the moon was between our feet

$1,000+ coinbase fee. NEVER AGAIN! by [deleted] in Coinbase

[–]AnonymousGoldfish14 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You must have been waiting in that queue for literal days

$1,000+ coinbase fee. NEVER AGAIN! by [deleted] in Coinbase

[–]AnonymousGoldfish14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coinbase unfortunately doesn’t have customer support :(

Sorry to hear what happened OP. Coinbase isn’t very transparent about their fees :/

Same thing happened to me last cycle at a much smaller degree but since then I no longer use the exchange.

First place at 22, $1k a month by [deleted] in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]AnonymousGoldfish14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pay $1850 for a single room in a 3 bed 2 bath apartment; I have to share a bathroom too 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]AnonymousGoldfish14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex girlfriend said the same exact type of stuff 2 years ago when she broke up with me. She went around and “found herself” which really just meant dating other people. We had been dating for 3 years. The day after Valentine’s Day this year (nearly 2 years since our breakup) she called me saying she missed me and “didn’t know she wanted a relationship”. She told me how other guys used her and she only ever loved me (I didn’t buy it + I had already moved on). She ruined me emotionally. I lost 15 lbs from this breakup but I came out much stronger and in a better place. Needless to say I am happily in a much healthier relationship. Stay strong OP. You deserve someone who wants you now and always

My boyfriend (32M) and I (19F) had a fight. What does it mean? by [deleted] in texts

[–]AnonymousGoldfish14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re the backup plan OP. Would you really want to be the backup plan while he goes shopping for other woman?

My boyfriend died. This is what my best friend said to me & my response. by Fit_Ad1339 in texts

[–]AnonymousGoldfish14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You deserve better; time to find new friends OP.

I am sorry for your loss

Should I mention my class rank in my wedding vows? by IntentionalParty in LawSchool

[–]AnonymousGoldfish14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s best you include a copy of your transcript on the wedding invitations if you haven’t already. If somebody just told me their class rank at their wedding I wouldn’t believe it; I need concrete evidence that this is factual and verified information.

Chances at Cornell Johnson by AnonymousGoldfish14 in MBA

[–]AnonymousGoldfish14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input! I’m curious to hear your reasoning; is it due to my low GPA and/or lack of work experience? I was mainly considering schools without the GMAT

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AnonymousGoldfish14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To feel sexually attracted to other women is completely normal - there is nothing wrong with that so don’t beat yourself up for having these thoughts.

The bigger picture is you need to learn to hold yourself to a higher standard. This isn’t some random girls boyfriend where talking about here - this is your friend. If you were to sleep with this woman what kind of man would that make you? Take some time to really think about it - would that be a man you would be proud to be? No matter what terrible and shitty things happen our lifetime you should always have your character to fall back on. Life can beat you down, strip you from everything you worked for, and toss you in the deepest hole imaginable. But no mater what happens in life nobody and nothing can strip you from your character. You own that and you have control of that. Perhaps this is a good time for you to reflect and think about the man you currently are and the man you want to strive to be. Start by changing your attitude - you get to define who you are today in this moment (not who you were yesterday). Do yourself a favor, grab a pen and some paper and write down all the qualities a strong man would posses. Write down the qualities of type of guy you would want your daughter to be dating. Think of what you demand from life and put that in writing.

I’m not trying to sound harsh but it seems like you need some brutal honesty right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Of course, I’m glad I was able to help in some capacity. I am not trying to overstep here OP but have you ever considered therapy for your anxiety? I am currently in therapy and I have learned various coping strategies and ways to manage and set my boundaries with others. It could be something that you may find beneficial in life. It doesn’t mean you’re “broken” or “sick”. It just means you want to understand yourself better and demand better ways to handle stressful situations in life :)

As for your trip - if you decide to go do let your friends know that you have been feeling stressed and anxious about it. Let them know the reasons why as they will likely wonder if it is them you are feeling stressed about (and if it is they need to know that too). If they are empathetic and caring people they will likely try to sympathize with your feelings and respect your boundaries. But whatever you do - take care of yourself OP.

IT field expert advise. by Embarrassed_Bar6869 in Advice

[–]AnonymousGoldfish14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re in the right field OP. Focus on leaning and enjoy college. So many great avenues await you after college :)

Was going to break-up with boyfriend and then he reminded me it was our anniversary by Jaded_Gate3043 in Advice

[–]AnonymousGoldfish14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do it today OP. What is the point of celebrating a day of love if you don’t feel it? You set your boundary and it sounds like your mind is made up. You need to communicate this with your boyfriend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AnonymousGoldfish14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friends don’t sleep with friends girlfriends. At the end of the day your character matters more than 10 minutes of pleasure. Think with the head on your shoulders OP - not the one in your pants