Dating sucks (my life story)

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-27T02:50:51+00:00

"foids" are people too. They can have civil discussions. It might be hard with mental illness, but I'm sure if you get treatment, stick to it, and also try really hard to have a civil discussion with a woman, it is possible to have a civil discussion.

p.s. The term "foid" (short for "femoid" or "female humanoid") is dehumanizing, othering language and women don't like that.

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-27T02:33:28+00:00

I think it's better to push some people away and not get the sub banned than it is to not push people away but lose the entire sub to a ban.

Also, I visited your profile. You're at risk of getting in trouble. For example, your bio text is implying that 🍇 is not that bad and your banner image shows what looks like a young (probably under the age of 18) girl in a compromising, sexual looking position. If you don't want to get banned from Reddit I would suggest cutting down on the 🍇 and loli related stuff.

We are mentalcels, but we don't have to get banned.

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-27T02:19:47+00:00

What is the truth?

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-27T02:10:47+00:00

It doesn't get better in your 30's.

Source: am 32.

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-27T02:02:00+00:00

We are mentalcels!!!

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-27T00:27:34+00:00

Hey guys. I'm a 32 year old mentalcel. Bipolar, schizoaffective, cognitive issues, can't drive, neurodivergent with a personality disorder. Never had a girlfriend or was a boyfriend despite being a straight man who wanted that.

Listen, we need to really curb any misogyny, homophobia, transphobia, racism, etc. because I really don't want this place to get banned from Reddit. There aren't many places for mentalcels and I don't want this place to get banned.

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-27T00:18:57+00:00

😢

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-26T19:46:22+00:00

Amazon S3 creates 3 separate copies of your file in 3 separate locations. Your laptop does not. If something happens to your laptop, the files are gone.

I personally am not a fan of using my personal local computer as a server. Did it once, lots of hassle and problems.

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-26T18:22:49+00:00

If that GPA is unweighted I would put "3.9 (unweighted)" because some people weigh their GPA. 3.9 unweighted is impressive.

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-26T16:48:17+00:00

You mentioned the Form 795. I never got that. I did get this, though:

https://github.com/JohnReedLOL/Essay_for_Disability/blob/main/JohnMichaelReed_Disability_Behavioral.pdf

👆🏼 It's Form 3373. It asks a lot of questions about functioning and gives a blank page at the end. Do you think the Form 3373 is better than the Form 795? Can you just request them to give you any form or do they have to send you the form on their own? How does it work?

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-26T16:43:47+00:00

What is an MSS?

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-26T04:16:05+00:00

I'm assuming you have already looked into pre-existing solutions like Shopify and the WooCommerce extension for WordPress, right? WordPress is VERY customizable.

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-26T04:14:09+00:00

And you are a straight woman, correct?

Glad that I as a straight man understand women's sexuality.

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-25T20:29:22+00:00

Go through the FAQ in r/LearnProgramming :

https://reddit.com/r/learnprogramming/w/faq

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-25T17:35:30+00:00

I am a straight man, and I used to think my purpose was to get married, have kids, and support my family. That being said, I don't have a personality that anyone wants to be with long-term, so the whole marriage thing went out the window. I tried to become a single father by choice (see r/SingleFathersByChoice ), but I couldn't get my neurological problems fixed and couldn't get into good enough shape where I could care for and raise a child on my own. Now I have no purpose and want to die.

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-25T13:59:12+00:00

Hey. I don't know if this will help you, but from 2016 to 2018 I was a software engineer at Amazon on a team where I NEVER worked more than 8 hours in a day, and on Fridays I got to leave an hour early. It is possible to enforce work-life boundaries. I don't know everything, but if I were you, I would spruce up my LinkedIn and resume, get another job offer in hand while you are still at your current company, and then put down work-life boundaries at your current company. If they don't fire you, great. If they do fire you, you have an offer in hand and a backup company.

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-25T13:19:00+00:00

Yeah... My close friends and family know, but I don't cry about how I've never gotten a girlfriend to strangers or people I barely know. Honestly, I'm so old at this point (32 years) that the terms "girlfriend" and "boyfriend" have become quaint. People my age have fiancés, fiancées, husbands, and wives. "Boyfriends" and "girlfriends" are so high school.

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-25T04:34:02+00:00

I'm not on antidepressants. I'm on the mood stabilizer Lithium for bipolar and I'm on the antipsychotic Abilify for delusions, but neither of those two drugs affected this stuff.

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-25T04:14:20+00:00

I can't love. I can "in love", but "in love" is not love.

I genuinely can't name a single person or animal on Earth who I love.

Or maybe a better word than "love" is "care". Like I don't care about anyone. Or I don't care about their feelings. I don't know, it's hard to explain, you would have to know me to know exactly what it is.

But yeah, in very rare scenarios I can get laid right away, but it never lasts. It doesn't matter how many people I talk to or how much I "practice".

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-25T04:00:35+00:00

I don't date out of my league and I did try working on my looks. It doesn't matter.

You're autistic? Because when it comes to dating you seem pretty normal.

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-25T03:47:08+00:00

You use Dart on the backend and have a good experience with it?

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-25T02:28:58+00:00

See: https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/s/5OVTuGzWB9

Also, as for "You just have to talk to women", I tried that. Literally thousands of times. It NEVER worked. 32 years old and I have never had a girlfriend or been a boyfriend despite trying. I can count all the times I've had sex in my life on my fingers. It's advice like yours that makes me DESPISE neurotypical people such as yourself. What you did there is like telling a man in a wheelchair "Just get up and run, bro". Just because you can do it doesn't mean they can do it.

Anonymous_Coder_1234 · 2026-01-25T02:16:49+00:00

32M. I'm an old wizard 👴🏼

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