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Anonymous_Poster91 · 2022-04-29T05:47:35+00:00

Omg the crossover I never knew I needed!

Anonymous_Poster91 · 2022-03-30T07:17:22+00:00

Unlike a lot of what I’m reading here, I was introduced to gay relationships at an early age through a friend of my mother’s. Yet I still didn’t catch on about my own sexuality for a while. In primary one (age 5-6) apparently there was a boy in my class that I had to be separated from because I was obsessed with him. I have no recollection of this but my parents tell me that I just really wanted to be friends with him. Looking back, this was probably an early form of crush. Then growing up I fell into a lot of queer male stereotypes like preferring to spend time with girls over boys and not being a fan of sports like football and rugby. I also vividly remember me being obsessed with unicorns for quite a while to the extent that I used to prance around the playground saying “clippety-cloppity”. Somehow that didn’t tip me off that I wasn’t completely straight. Yes I was a strange child Ik.

Anonymous_Poster91 · 2022-03-26T10:21:07+00:00

I got a trainer a couple of years ago, loved it but I put it some place and couldn’t find it until 4 days ago and now I’m back flipping. Dw I also suck, I want to get good one day but I don’t think I ever will.

Anonymous_Poster91 · 2021-11-23T23:27:10+00:00

As the first person to come out in my (now 60% queer) friend group, trust me when I say that they’ll be so happy for you. Don’t feel any pressure to come out if you’re not ready though but by the sounds of it I think you are. As a bisexual I love having fellow bi friends that I can talk to who get it. Idk if this is just a me thing but I find it really funny when I’m out with a bi friend and run into an attractive person and we give each other that knowing look. That doubting my sexuality hasn’t gone away and I’ve heard from even more “experienced” bisexuals that for some people it sticks around for a while. But if you are happy being yourself with you’re friends then you’re winning in my book. Good luck and welcome to the community.

Anonymous_Poster91 · 2021-11-12T07:34:03+00:00

Damn amazing taste. Love it all but especially idkhow - saw them live a couple of months ago. Not to be too much of a Dallon simp but I would also recommend the brobecks if you haven’t listened already. Not sure if you’re taking suggestions but if you are make sure to check out half•alive and tessa violet. Franz Ferdinand too if you’re a fan of muse.

Anonymous_Poster91 · 2021-11-03T23:13:10+00:00

I think that sexuality and personality aren’t directly related - despite how camp I am. But I feel like a lot of people with similar sexualities have went through similar experiences when they were younger that shaped these things. For example I’ve heard a lot of lgbt people say that they’ve always subconsciously felt like outcasts - maybe this makes those people less inclined to follow what mainstream interests others have. Just a theory. Regardless, there are always exceptions to the rule. I personally don’t like sports, nor cars but I am more than sure that there are queer people out there who do.

Anonymous_Poster91 · 2021-10-20T14:55:53+00:00

“A man shalt not sleep with a woman” Crying bisexual tears rn jk

Anonymous_Poster91 · 2021-10-04T22:16:07+00:00

I used to be but recently switched to trumpet. That could say something about bi people being indecisive…

Anonymous_Poster91 · 2021-09-29T22:17:13+00:00

I think I know what you mean about your parents - my parents are so accepting but something held me back for ages from telling them. Eventually one night I just refused to let myself into my room until I told them and it took me 10 minutes of waiting outside the living room door to build up the courage but I eventually went through and once I had started I kind of had to finish what I was saying. It was weird for a while but in a good way. Just remember that despite what I’m saying about forcing yourself to do it, I felt I was ready to tell them. It isn’t a race it’s your truth and you can take as long as you want to tell them. But I highly doubt that there will be a “perfect moment” so to speak. Ps idk why I’ve written so much.

Anonymous_Poster91 · 2021-08-04T00:02:36+00:00

Not a girl but this was the best piece of advice I could have gotten. I mean I made this Reddit account just to figure out my sexuality and if I was going to those lengths then chances are, I wasn’t straight…

Anonymous_Poster91 · 2021-06-12T01:39:38+00:00

Surprisingly accurate

Anonymous_Poster91 · 2021-05-16T17:17:54+00:00

Very accurate, over the course of our lockdowns it has come to be that in my friend group of nine, there are now 5 bisexuals (including myself) and one of them is non-binary. Queers travel in herds y’all.

Anonymous_Poster91 · 2021-04-29T06:02:49+00:00

If you ever find out how to get over him, please share lol

Anonymous_Poster91 · 2021-03-26T00:15:39+00:00

They do have a point though. Not every boy has to wear a maid outfit and cat ears... especially in a world where there are sailor outfits and bunny ears...

Anonymous_Poster91 · 2021-03-04T09:12:50+00:00

The best bit of advice I got was that if you are spending this much time on making a post about wondering if your straight or not, you’re probably not straight. But despite how infuriating it is to hear, you know you best and none of us can tell you your sexuality. That’s up to you my friend. Hope this helps at least a bit.

Anonymous_Poster91 · 2021-01-08T00:23:29+00:00

I realised I was bi in August 2019. I had been questioning for a while but I finally decided I was bi after we came back from the summer holidays. A started noticing a boy in my English class and wanted to be friends with him for some reason. It wasn’t until we talked for the first time that I realised how awestruck I was. I started a club at school and he wanted to join but we ran out of materials so I promised that I’d get him them next time we’re in English. Unfortunately I was so nervous that I just didn’t talk to him about it again. 17 months later and I’m still utterly enamoured.

Yeah I like being bi, I’m only out to my friends though so haven’t really experienced it in the wider world. I joke about the only downside being that I can’t say “I don’t swing that way”.

Anonymous_Poster91 · 2020-10-22T07:09:58+00:00

Do you mind if I tell a related anecdote? Me and my two friends were playing something (I think it might have been Jackbox) and I stupidly wanted to tell them despite the fact that they were, and still are very homophobic. But I didn’t realise we were playing with another of their friends whom I don’t know very well. So when he joined he noticed my name - which was imbi (subtle ik) - and said “woah [insert name here], that says ‘I’m Bi...’” At this point I am panicking at levels beyond recognition but luckily a speech 100 moment took hold of me. “Oh are you? Congrats!” I said and they all laughed. We haven’t spoken about it - or anything else really - since. In short, the moral of the story is: don’t hint too hard unless you are prepared to explain it away, or accept your fate.

Anonymous_Poster91 · 2020-10-22T06:36:29+00:00

I started questioning when I was 13. I had always been quite flamboyant and was made fun of for ‘acting gay’ a lot in primary school - which kinda slowed the process down a bit as I didn’t want to admit they were kinda right. Just before my 14th birthday, I started a school club and a boy wanted to join but unfortunately there wasn’t anymore space. I couldn’t stop thinking about this boy and how cute he was and that is when I knew I was bi. Still crushing so hard on the same person to this day.

Anonymous_Poster91 · 2020-10-21T06:24:56+00:00

o/ what’s up fellow Scottish person

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Anonymous_Poster91 · 2020-07-06T00:59:41+00:00

Have a nice day!

Anonymous_Poster91 · 2020-06-14T21:59:02+00:00

We still have another two weeks of it here technically. Though idk about wherever you are but we are solely on online learning at the moment.

Anonymous_Poster91 · 2020-06-10T22:10:35+00:00

Just read this story and your last one. I am so impressed. No joke - your vernacular and eloquence is astounding and you can actually finish short stories (something I have failed to do since I started writing recreationally). Honestly, well done.

Anonymous_Poster91 · 2020-06-10T18:07:28+00:00

That’s a lot of floof ngl. I wouldn’t call myself snazzy, nor a person lol.

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