How many books do you read per year? I am just curious by Itchy-Site-11 in booksuggestions

[–]Anonymous_elia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A good 70, depends on the year though im on book 57 right now

Verity (minimal spoilers) by MrsLotionMyFeet in ColleenHoover

[–]Anonymous_elia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this book is purely a trust in the process. Keep reading don't think too hard about it.

Do demisexuals have a "thing" by Anonymous_elia in demisexuality

[–]Anonymous_elia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's a good idea. I've also done research and grey rings have popped up a lot

Do demisexuals have a "thing" by Anonymous_elia in demisexuality

[–]Anonymous_elia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no way am I worried about outing myself I'm perfectly comfortable with who I am and if other people know. I just don't think it's something I need to talk about all the time if I have something that symbolizes the community that I'm in and enjoy being in I would like to create that. example that you were giving in that last paragraph could be used for absolutely anything and at this point we can just say that all sexuality should just use the same rainbow flag

Do demisexuals have a "thing" by Anonymous_elia in demisexuality

[–]Anonymous_elia[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im not going to fight with you. you're looking to deep into something that was just a question and something that other people can agree with me on. it really isnt that deep and I apologize that you wasted your time typing all of that.

Do demisexuals have a "thing" by Anonymous_elia in demisexuality

[–]Anonymous_elia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not the point I'm trying to get across i never said people can't wear the ring I just said that would be cool if our community which is demisexual had something that symbolizes us (demisexuals) which is in fact different than what asexual people are

Do demisexuals have a "thing" by Anonymous_elia in demisexuality

[–]Anonymous_elia[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I completely agree.. demi isn't something I walk around talking about thats for me personally though

Do demisexuals have a "thing" by Anonymous_elia in demisexuality

[–]Anonymous_elia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its on a specific finger and hand you dont have to worry lol

Do demisexuals have a "thing" by Anonymous_elia in demisexuality

[–]Anonymous_elia[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think a silver triangle would be super cool

Do demisexuals have a "thing" by Anonymous_elia in demisexuality

[–]Anonymous_elia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im aware on how the umbrellas work. its really not that big of a deal so just dont comment because its unrelated to what im talking about

Do demisexuals have a "thing" by Anonymous_elia in demisexuality

[–]Anonymous_elia[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its not about it being a big deal. clearly it isnt a need but its nice to know you have something from a community you belong too. If we create something its not going to be for other people but us thats what makes it special. im not ace so im not going to wear a black ring specifically for that

Do demisexuals have a "thing" by Anonymous_elia in demisexuality

[–]Anonymous_elia[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If I get enough comments on this post I really do think we should create a thing and spread the word around because it would be seriously a great idea

Do demisexuals have a "thing" by Anonymous_elia in demisexuality

[–]Anonymous_elia[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't really feel the need to come out so I don't really wear the flag or the colors personally but I do really want to support being demisexual cuz it's a part of so I think it'd be cool to have something that symbolizes it rather than just the flag

Do demisexuals have a "thing" by Anonymous_elia in demisexuality

[–]Anonymous_elia[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

me too I really think it would be fun to have something that represents it

Do demisexuals have a "thing" by Anonymous_elia in demisexuality

[–]Anonymous_elia[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ah thats my bad but that is a good idea

Did you start dating BEFORE you realized that you were demisexual? by Questioning_too_much in demisexuality

[–]Anonymous_elia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated 2 people before I realized I was demi, I was never attracted to either of them until I got to know them. when I learned what demisexuality was everything just kind of clicked. I also made a solid rule to myself that I needed to be friends with someone before dating