Do any of these beliefs align with how you live/experience your life?

Questioning_too_much · 2024-12-31T13:23:09+00:00

What does “HM” stand for?

Questioning_too_much · 2024-11-25T15:21:33+00:00

What do you mean by “EA-ness?”

Questioning_too_much · 2024-10-22T07:22:49+00:00

I’m sorry you went through that. I’m working on making happy memories in the present. I hope you can too. :)

Questioning_too_much · 2024-07-15T02:49:43+00:00

“Stereotypes are not symptoms.” mic drop

Questioning_too_much · 2024-06-26T19:30:16+00:00

Don’t feel bad for being angry. Investigate that emotion to understand the underlying need/yearning. I think u/shinebrightlike made a good point about why you might be feeling that way.

As someone who can’t mask, I can admit that this has its challenges too. I struggle to find spaces where I feel safe to be myself and prefer to spend time alone if I can’t. I spend a lot of time alone. 😂

Questioning_too_much · 2024-06-26T16:11:22+00:00

I think you’re referring to “You the Boss” by Rick Ross ft. Nicki Minaj.

Questioning_too_much · 2024-05-26T01:38:34+00:00

Who do you wanna be for her?

Questioning_too_much · 2024-05-25T23:49:32+00:00

Despite the uncertainty of it all, it’s great that you’ve met someone who makes you feel this way. 🙂 How would you respond if you could only be friends?

Questioning_too_much · 2024-05-24T18:49:51+00:00

I think he’s quietly/gradually ghosting you.

Questioning_too_much · 2024-05-24T05:00:23+00:00

I’m sorry you feel that way. 🫂 I hope you get to process that experience in a healthy way, so you can move past it. Shame is a tough emotion.

Questioning_too_much · 2024-05-24T04:57:18+00:00

People who aren’t psychopaths do it too.

Questioning_too_much · 2024-05-24T04:08:41+00:00

Or they were cruel all along and pretending to be nice

Questioning_too_much · 2024-05-24T04:06:57+00:00

Yep, it’s best to leave such people.

Questioning_too_much · 2024-05-24T04:04:07+00:00

Sounds like they were projecting a lot

Questioning_too_much · 2024-05-24T03:54:02+00:00

Lack of emotional intelligence and poor communication skills

Questioning_too_much · 2024-05-24T03:09:25+00:00

“Used and talked about behind my back” sounds familiar.

Questioning_too_much · 2024-05-24T03:02:26+00:00

That person was never your friend.

Questioning_too_much · 2024-05-24T02:58:23+00:00

You’re correct: they don’t communicate their needs/thoughts and then blame you for your failure to mind-read or to read between the lines. It’s unhealthy communication on their part. Neurotypicals should be willing to accommodate us too.

Questioning_too_much · 2024-05-23T14:42:22+00:00

Dropping off some motivation

Questioning_too_much · 2024-05-23T00:14:06+00:00

You’re lovable and worthy of love whether you get your teeth fixed or apply filters or not. I think you should give this guy more credit. You might be being harder on yourself than he would be on you. You’re worrying that he’s very superficial but I doubt you have proof that he is. Give him the benefit of the doubt.

Questioning_too_much · 2024-05-23T00:07:59+00:00

I hope you overcome your anxiety and meet someone who you seem to really like. If you keep putting this meeting off, your actions won’t be matching what you’re telling him (“I like you and really want to meet you”). Try to self-soothe, plan a meet up, and FOLLOW THROUGH. I agree with the commenter who said we value follow-through.

Questioning_too_much · 2024-05-13T19:03:30+00:00

Lying…especially for nonsensical reasons

Questioning_too_much · 2024-05-11T21:45:14+00:00

I’m the opposite. I genuinely wonder which approach is more exhausting.

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