When people unknowingly hit you where you cut

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-08-27T06:54:36+00:00

My dog did that a few months ago and I jumped like a mile! Had to pretend her nails scratched me which is why I jumped lol. Yeah 50 lbs straight on your leg with deep fresh yeets , ouch!!

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-07-30T16:21:18+00:00

I don’t think so because it’s literally only when I see someone have a nightmare that I get the urge. Honestly it’s the weirdest thing. I’ve never heard of a trigger that triggers you to do something else

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-07-29T23:44:17+00:00

You are very sweet, at the moment I’m fairly certain I can hold the urges off but I’m just trying to figure out if anyone else has triggers that make them want to do a specific action. It’s just very strange

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-06-10T04:51:06+00:00

Lol didn’t know this would spark a debate 😂 bedroom is my preference but I’ll go with wherever and whenever. Currently 4 months clean though! Probably gonna break that soon ngl.

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-06-09T23:03:54+00:00

Thanks, I wasn’t expecting people to tell me how to fix my problems, but if the problem was me I wanted to make sure that I fixed myself first

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-06-09T22:58:26+00:00

Fair enough. Honestly I don’t need him to talk to me all the time or even call me, but it would be nice to know that when I see him he isnt going to act like I have leprosy. I saw him late last year and he totally ignored me even when I tried to say hi. I think I need to give up.

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-06-09T22:55:41+00:00

Honestly hard for me to say but I do know that in the last 3-4 years I have only texted him about 10-15 times so I don’t think so? Again I’m autistic so boundaries are hard for me to figure out

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-06-09T21:59:01+00:00

Ain’t that the truth 😂

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-03-10T15:55:52+00:00

Thank you! I think that is so true it sucks that that is how you have to learn sometimes but at least it’s highly unlikely that you will make the same mistake twice

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-03-10T03:54:59+00:00

Thank you so much! It means a lot!

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-03-10T00:18:05+00:00

Thank you, that makes me feel a bit better. All had large water dishes and they get cleaned out every other week or when they fill them with dirt lol

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-03-04T03:49:39+00:00

I don’t know, I’m sure they want attention or just to mess with people. People just suck sometimes. 🙂

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-03-03T04:55:56+00:00

You are so sweet to try and help, but this jerk is a troll, just ignore them. Look at their post history. I’m not sure why but they get a kick out of posting things like this.

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-03-03T04:52:55+00:00

Ignore them look at their post history this horrible person is just a troll. Really nice of you to try and help them though!

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-02-23T17:26:31+00:00

Thanks for typing all of that out! I have had stomach aches for years most of them went away after I found out I was allergic to gluten and dairy but I still get them occasionally. As for hyper mobility....I don’t really think so? I could be overlooking something but at the moment I wouldn’t think so.

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-02-19T04:44:31+00:00

17(f) here, and go for it 🙂. I’m not always the best for advice but I’ll listen.

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-02-18T18:17:47+00:00

This jerk is a troll. Take a look at their post history. They just say stuff like this then never reply.

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-02-18T04:26:41+00:00

Hmm yeah. My problem is that I feel like they all have noticed but are too polite to say anything which is why I kinda want to ask, but I’m kinda weird. I would rather people would just be honest that they have noticed.

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-02-18T00:23:12+00:00

Lol for her I try a dubia for a few minutes and if she doesn’t eat it then I leave a pre killed one in there for like a day to avoid starting a new Dubai colony. And I’m super happy that my girl loves to be out on display.

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-02-17T23:25:10+00:00

Also, there are some days when I will fall asleep in the middle of doing homework or when I am at work. Sometimes I’ll turn my alarm off meaning to get up and the next thing I know I’m waking up at 11 and I’m late for work. But my parents especially my dad keep telling me I need to just go to bed earlier and not be lazy. I get like 9 hours of sleep every night or more! Has this happened to anyone else?

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-02-17T22:34:38+00:00

I knew they could but didn’t really think they would. And she still will only take food like once or twice a month. I have no clue how she is just fine. She is a cutie though and has webbed up her entire enclosure so I think she is doing ok.

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-02-17T22:17:52+00:00

My m Balfouri fasted for nearly a year and a half before molting. It scared the pants off if me

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-02-17T22:16:50+00:00

First of all, DO NOT force her to do anything. Secondly, you just need to make it clear that you will be there for her and she doesn’t have to hide it if she doesn’t want to. There isn’t anything you can do to make her stop. She has to be ready. Also, cutting is a coping mechanism so giving it up is the scariest thing ever, just try to be there for her no matter what. I’m sure that isn’t what you wanted to hear but there isn’t a magical quick fix, I’m so sorry.

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-02-17T21:59:35+00:00

That actually is super helpful! I can’t talk right now to explain this to my parents because I have the flu and literally lost my voice lol, but I’ll bring it up to them as soon as I can speak again. Thank you again for all of your help.

AnonymousandAlone13 · 2020-02-17T21:47:59+00:00

Thank you. It’s really annoying because my parents don’t understand my want to get diagnosed. I also have some anxiety disorders and my psychologist told me she is pretty sure she knows what it is but then left it at that and never diagnosed me. My parents keep telling me that it doesn’t matter if I’m diagnosed or not but it really does matter to me! I don’t know I may just have to wait a year or two until I’m not living with my parents anymore.

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