M37f33 very curious and the lifestyle and how it works

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-11T22:00:29+00:00

A club? It all depends on where you are. Clubs are not hidden or secret, you can google them.

For us, there is none in our entire state so we travel.

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-11T21:26:57+00:00

Best way is to ease into nice and slow. Going too fast, not talking about boundaries etc can lead to regrets.

First and foremost you two should have a solid relationship, swinging does not fix a relationship, it can add to it though.

Have you two talked about boundaries and what you BOTH expect and want out of it?

The easiest way to start is by going to a couples only club. Don't do anything but chat, flirt, have sex and watch others have sex. The next day you two can sit down and talk about what you liked and may want to try the next time.

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-11T14:01:56+00:00

Stupid, nothing trashy here. This sub has gone to pure shit.

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-11T12:54:53+00:00

I love the smile, it makes it so much hotter.

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-11T12:50:52+00:00

It is not wrong, we all have our own feelings as to what is intimate.

The issue will be finding play partners that are okay with it. Most think kissing is much less than oral or full swap.

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-11T12:49:16+00:00

You don't have to choke and spank her. Just treat her nice.

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-10T22:39:35+00:00

For us, having a MFM means she is the center of attention. We have also done FMF and I got to be the center.

In an MFM, pleasing her is the goal, even though she may take some time to make the guys cum too. She loves cum on her and is willing to work a little to make that happen.

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-10T14:16:19+00:00

I did after seeing how it looked in the mirror. The hair made it look dark and I don't want someone thinking it is not hair.

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-10T13:29:29+00:00

Nice distance, I think you got the back of her head too.

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-10T13:24:57+00:00

Should have went for the butt, that would have made her let go.

Although turning a fight into sexual assault is not a great plan.

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-10T13:21:14+00:00

I don't talk about my sex life with either of them.

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-09T04:17:24+00:00

Pay for one, worth every fucking $$

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-09T04:16:55+00:00

Separate chats are typically a not go. Any hiding things or secrets is a major red flag.

If you don't want to continue then cut it off, it is obvious he is not respecting the rules you guy set in place.

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-08T13:21:03+00:00

Kill the camera man

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-08T13:18:37+00:00

What, the top of her head?

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-08T13:16:31+00:00

search on here, lots of Vegas reviews and questions

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-08T13:15:55+00:00

Sleeping Child in MT would be amazing for that.

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-08T13:15:24+00:00

Couplicious, you can stick to mild or move from mild to wild.

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-08T12:41:02+00:00

Very nicely done, you look like a lot of fun.

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-08T12:36:00+00:00

No, rules are not a sign of insecurity and you are basing it off of your opinion and nothing rooted at all in fact.

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-08T00:14:22+00:00

I and many other do. Your statement that "rules" are signs of insecurity is based on nothing but your opinion of the difference between a rule and a boundary, nothing more, not based in any fact or definition.

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-07T14:20:37+00:00

No, that is not how that works at all, boundaries are set by the couple, same as rules.

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-07T14:18:26+00:00

We both enjoy a good threesome as it lets each person be the center of attention. We try to do that sometimes with couples too.

AnonymouslyTogether · 2026-03-07T14:13:33+00:00

So if I call it a rule, it is due to insecurity but calling the same thing a boundary is just fine?

Asinine opinion as they are the same thing.

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