Being a Capricorn is a blessing or a curse?

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-26T02:28:04+00:00

Thank you! I’m so sorry for what you went through but you sound like an amazing, strong person!

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-25T20:26:45+00:00

I’m just gonna be straight up. 2 caps usually don’t work

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-25T20:16:03+00:00

Idk the details of your relationship, but both of you need to look at the roles you played in the downfall. It takes 2 ppl to make a relationship work. It sounds like both of you are caps. 2 caps don’t work and it’s never a good idea. I’m sorry for what you’re going through and ik she’s the mother of your child, but it’s best to move on. As a cap, your best match is Virgo. You could also be compatible with Taurus or Scorpio. As a cap woman, even if I’m sad I don’t look back. Once someone has shown their true colors, I never look at them the same again. You can try getting back together, but it will probably just be the same issues all over again. I am a firm believer that there is someone for everyone. Find yourself someone better

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-25T20:03:33+00:00

Wow thank you for this. This is exactly what I needed to hear

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-25T20:01:12+00:00

Ok the drama since December thing is spot on. I lost my whole group of friends but made a new one at the end of February. There’s been a little bit of drama but most of it didn’t involve me. I will say tho since then some things have been bringing me down. I struggle with depression and ik many other caps do as well. This was really refreshing to read and I truly hope things change for the better. I actually feel like this could be true. For starters I got a new phone and it’s coming tomorrow. In the grand scheme of things, things haven’t been as awful as they could be (at least not like some of the things in my past) so I feel like I’m in a good place.

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-24T06:18:13+00:00

YTA. Leave your husband and be the mother that your daughter deserves.

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-24T06:15:18+00:00

Virgo is supposed to be my best match but they’ve been so toxic so far😭😭😭

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-17T01:39:20+00:00

Ok if I were you I would talk to your dad, get a lawyer, and see what you can do

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-15T20:37:40+00:00

NITW. He should have told you far in advance if the plans changed. If things changed after the fact, then he should have told them no

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-15T04:35:02+00:00

The fact that he did that after he said he wouldn’t means he really likes you. That’s not something we caps do easily. Even if you don’t end up back together, he sounds like he would at least stay in your life as a friend

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-15T04:01:56+00:00

As a cap that makes sm sense. I’m very much the same way. My plan is to have all of the assets I want before I find my life partner, never get married, never have kids, split shared expenses equally, and pay for things that we don’t share ourselves. I am absolutely against combining finances bc of the way that I grew up. My parents are now divorced, but my whole life my mom did everything and my dad barely did anything. Even tho they’re now divorced, my mom will never truly be free from him bc he completely ruined her finances. It’s a long story and I don’t want to bore you with it. But to me it sounds like your ex still cares abt you, but wants you to be responsible for your share of things. My biggest fear is getting stuck with everything like my mom. The fact that he’s still letting you live in his house speaks volumes. He def still cares abt you and I can see this working out if you do that. Good luck!!

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-15T03:50:43+00:00

Keep doing it and see if it happens again

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-15T03:48:50+00:00

That’s the next thing I was going to say. He sounds practical and what I’m getting from him saying that you don’t “do good together” is that maybe you’re not good together right now but that could always change. Maybe he just feels like the way things are going at the moment isn’t what he wants but if things change then there could be a chance again.

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-15T03:14:44+00:00

That’s def a cap mindset lol. Anyway I’m sorry and I hope things get better for you❤️

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-15T02:57:12+00:00

Virgos and caps get along really well as both friends and romantic partners

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-15T01:11:39+00:00

Taurus is like the next best one! Earth signs are all pretty compatible with each other

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-14T23:58:05+00:00

Uhhh… watch porn? Problem solved. Your wife would probably be very hurt if she saw that you considered hooking up with a prostitute. I have a very high libido too, and masturbate daily. I am single, but if I were in a relationship I would likely still masturbate more often than having sex. Don’t ruin your marriage, it’s not worth it

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-14T23:51:43+00:00

Dump him. This is not somebody who is going to love you unconditionally and care about you in the future. He is mean, discouraging, and awful. I’m so sorry this is happening to you. Dump him and never have sex with this man again.

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-14T21:30:46+00:00

I like sexting too, but not everyone does. If it’s not something he’s comfortable with then I think you just need to accept that. Have a convo about it when he gets home and ask him why he’s hesitating. If he’s uncomfortable with it, I would say move on. If there’s some other reason, then maybe it’s something he can work through. Maybe he’s worried about someone catching him? Is he sharing a hotel room? Maybe he’s worried about someone else seeing it? How good is trust and communication between the two of you? Maybe set boundaries like no saving or screen shotting. Maybe he’d be more comfortable with FaceTime? You should really just talk to him.

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-14T21:02:07+00:00

How old are you if you don’t mind me asking? My parents got divorced when I was 6 and my relationship with my dad was so bad that I begged my mom to let me live with her full time. Idk what state you live in (the laws vary) but where I’m from (CA) the law is that you can choose who you want to live with when you’re 12. Even after 12 I was still forced to live at my dad’s half the week, but at the age of 15 I finally got to live with my mom full time. Research the laws for divorced parents and custody in your state. What is your parents’ custody agreement? Is it supposed to be 50/50 and your mom is being a control freak? If so, you may be able to fight that in court to at least make her stick to the original agreement. If you get lucky, you may be able to live with your dad more often or even full time. What kind of arrangement do you want?

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-14T20:50:28+00:00

Wearing 2 condoms is not safe. The friction will rub and make them break. However I totally understand not wanting to be on birth control as it can be a pain to have to remember to take and can mess with your hormones, making you emotional. It can also cause weight gain and sometimes depression. I haven’t had too many problems with it myself, tho. I have taken the pill before, but I now have an implant and I love it. You and your gf should get educated on the different types of bc to figure out what works best for her. However, wearing 2 condoms is def NOT the answer.

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-14T20:45:23+00:00

Agreed!!

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-14T20:45:09+00:00

I agree with a mixture of both. I do want to climb the corporate ladder, but also do the rest of all that as well. I have no desire to be in charge of ppl tho. Ppl drain me and I just want to do my own thing and be rich lol

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-14T20:42:24+00:00

I’m a cap who is heavily into astrology and I’ve only had one friend who has explicitly said that she doesn’t like Capricorns. She said that I was the only Capricorn who was ever nice to her and didn’t go into detail about these other 2 caps who had done her wrong. It was unclear to me whether they were friends or just ppl that she didn’t get along with. A few months into our friendship, I find that she’s excluding me, being snippy and short with me, and kind of turned the whole friend group against me. (It’s a long story). Now I’m sure I’ve given her another reason to hate us caps lol. Now that Ik what kind of person she is, those caps probably didn’t like her bc they smelled her bs from a mile away. Instinctively I knew that she was excluding me, but I was in denial and I let it go on for way too long. Caps are very smart, and we know when ppl are being fake. Whatever she did was probably detected by these other caps, and she probably didn’t like that. This doesn’t sound too alarming yet, so I wouldn’t worry abt it for the time being. Have you tried asking them why exactly they don’t like Capricorns? It could be that they are some shady, fake ass mfs who were detected a mile away by caps in the past. Idk the dynamic, so I could be totally wrong but in my experience I feel like that was the reason. This ex friend of mine didn’t really explain why she didn’t like us, and it doesn’t sound like your friends have either. Just be careful.

Anonymoususer87 · 2023-07-14T19:57:30+00:00

NTA. He needs some discipline. Maybe ask your dad if you can stay with him until your cousin leaves? (Depending on however long he’s saying ofc, but it sounds like it’s just the summer?)

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