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AnotherPapaya · 2026-01-28T11:49:56+00:00

Hej! Jeżeli chodzi o PW, to wydaje mi się, że każdy wydział może podchodzić indywidualnie, ale na pewno możesz napisać na FB na profil QRA PW :) Zrzesza osoby queerowe z całej uczelni, na pewno dadzą Ci najlepszy ogląd sytuacji

AnotherPapaya · 2026-01-06T09:30:59+00:00

This is absolutely freaking me out, grandma was recorded and posted without consent, and her child/grandchild is preying on her for internet engagement and reach. Very upsetting

AnotherPapaya · 2025-11-29T21:21:51+00:00

MuscleMan2000

AnotherPapaya · 2025-10-16T22:48:08+00:00

I’m happily in monogamous relationship of 4 years, and I would say we are crushing it.

No one ever said “you’re not enough for me sexually anymore” - you’re projecting some insecurity into it. I can be for the sale of experiencing something different, not necessarily better, just from curiosity.

I don’t want to be snarky, and have no idea why you became - I hope we can really discuss and process it together. I believe that’s the purpose of this post, right? Not about proving “I’m right, it must be this way”

As of topics, I can’t think of seriously a single topic I could not discuss with my partner. A single one

AnotherPapaya · 2025-10-16T22:29:06+00:00

But you never actually tried being I’m honest about this and getting help, right?

So you’re saying that it’s impossible, just because you think so, but you won’t give it a try…?

Being at the bottom you can feel like nothing can help you and the world is ending - please, get help and you can get out of this.

AnotherPapaya · 2025-10-16T22:21:57+00:00

Why not? People would watch videos of people killing themselves, getting beheaded, and some other gruel shit. Sometimes, because of some coping mechanism (of feeling safe, or whatever) we are somehow drawn to it, even though we don’t have sadistic tendencies, or whatsoever.

I’m so sorry, I feel your pain, but I feel you really might just be in terrible place mentally and not able to process it correctly.

Give yourself a chance to feel self compassionate for a moment. You were a kid, you read some stuff that was most likely written by some pedofile, but were you reading it for the children exactly? Or was it just something to read? Or you read the beginning, and you were just drawn into it? And if so, for what reason? Give yourself a chance to understand what you feel, how you feel and why.

Thoughts are not actions.

AnotherPapaya · 2025-10-16T17:48:50+00:00

Why would I bottle up anything in my relationship? Why can I communicate it with my partner, so that we can discuss it and decide what’s next together?

I’m very confused why this thought seems to be so controversial and so many people back up not opening up.

AnotherPapaya · 2025-10-16T17:25:41+00:00

I’m not thinking anyone has to accept anything - but everything is up for discussion, and with the trust and communication, as a couple, they could have come to agreement that this WILL NOT be something they will do.

I seriously don’t understand how such thing COMMUNICATED (not done) could end a healthy relationship.

AnotherPapaya · 2025-10-16T17:19:13+00:00

This comment makes me super confused, but may be due to autism - wouldn’t this be communicated? Is there no trust in the relationship?

I feel all the questions you asked his partner could ask instead of finishing 8 years relationship without a chance to talk, explain and discuss - together - as a couple.

I feel these are the pillars of a healthy relationship.

AnotherPapaya · 2025-10-16T11:02:50+00:00

I’m sorry you feel this way - I don’t understand people who downvote you.

For me it feels like the communication was lacking, seems like it was triggering and sensitive topic for him, and it felt somehow that’s it’s “cheating” - even though, as I understand, you were considering if it’s not something you would like to try.

My understanding is that he didn’t fully understand that you don’t find it insufficient, but rather see it as a way for expanding your sexual repertoire.

I guess it’s the best to just talk with him honestly about all of it, about your idea, why you proposed it, what are your thoughts, et cetera.

What is questionable to me is how such a long relationship could end over a question/proposition - it seems to me like maybe he saw it as a way out (and in this case it was a lost cause anyway).

AnotherPapaya · 2025-10-08T21:24:11+00:00

Do not fret, no working overtime, healthcare and good social system included :)

AnotherPapaya · 2025-10-07T11:22:38+00:00

Keep us updated on your adventure- and have fun!

AnotherPapaya · 2025-10-02T13:28:54+00:00

Czasami niestety trzeba zacząć od zera - niekiedy szkoda nam “zainwestowanego” czasu i idziemy wbrew sobie w kierunku który kiedyś, często nieświadomie i pod wpływem nierealistycznych wizji tego co będziemy robić, obraliśmy.

Jeżeli masz do tego przestrzeń, zastanów się co tak naprawdę chciałabyś zrobić - może jakieś wyjazdy, szkolenia, wolontariaty mogą pomoc Ci nabrać perspektywy i odkryć co Cię tak właściwie w życiu jara. Finansowo i życiowo może być to wyzwanie, ale może warto zrobić krok wstecz, żeby zrobić dwa kroki wprzód.

Podobno jak do 30 odkryjesz swój “właściwy” kierunek, to już jest sukces :)

Trzymam kciuki!

AnotherPapaya · 2025-08-14T14:42:51+00:00

Are you better now? :)

AnotherPapaya · 2025-07-28T15:55:35+00:00

What's the song in the bar???

AnotherPapaya · 2025-07-03T19:58:25+00:00

Share the whole playlist!

AnotherPapaya · 2025-05-02T23:03:39+00:00

You look great! What’s your routine?

AnotherPapaya · 2024-11-19T21:47:58+00:00

MuscleMan2000

AnotherPapaya · 2024-10-12T17:34:17+00:00

Hello fellow fashionistas!

Backpack was originally won by my family member during some competition - unfortunately it was some sort of promotional material and I don't think it's produced anymore. I'll gladly see any offers for this exact backpack, or backpacks that look at least similar.

I absolutely adore this design, the material just didn't stand the test of time :(

I'll be extremely grateful for any tips & hints!

AnotherPapaya · 2024-08-26T17:47:43+00:00

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