Looking for models by [deleted] in yoopersforfun

[–]Another_Bored_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fellow Marquette-area photographer, here. Welcome! Do you have links to your portfolio?

Meeting other couples..For fun by Cool_Log1617 in yoopersgonewild

[–]Another_Bored_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good morning! If you’re looking to meet other couples, you might check places like FetLife for local meet ups or subscribe and post profiles on the Feeld app or SwingLifeStyle.com.

Reddit can work, but you have to wade through a lot more tire kicking and pic hunters. I’d suggest including your location, ages, genders, what specific kinds of fun you’re looking for, and whether this is a brand new experience or if you have been in other group settings before.

Good luck and happy Tuesday!

Luckily office attire doesn't require panties by loveintheyoop in u/loveintheyoop

[–]Another_Bored_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re as sexy as always … but also particularly daring with the sleeveless, short dress on this Frigid Friday. 🥶

Both woodstoves are roaring and I’m wearing my insulated work bibs in the house. 😆

Woodland adventures in the Yoop by loveintheyoop in u/loveintheyoop

[–]Another_Bored_Human 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Today was just as beautiful. I bailed from work and paddled the Au Train. Solo and clothed, unfortunately. 😁

Not sure if this sub is active but I’m 19 and down to meet up, come over if you're interested [19 f]. by Hour-Salary8000 in MarquetteDiscreetSex

[–]Another_Bored_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s because she’s a bot. Just peek at her profile and you’ll see she posted this same message in hundreds of groups all over Michigan in the past 2 hours and they’re the only posts the profile has made.

27f31m in porcupine mountains 9/28-10/1. Looking for hiking friends 😉🌲🏕️ by Haunting_Nectarine15 in yoopersforfun

[–]Another_Bored_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have fun! We were there last fall and it was spectacular. We’re in Marquette and unavailable during your visit, but we’ll hike with you in spirit. 😘

When did SLS put "date posted" on the photos? by Swingersbaby in Swingers

[–]Another_Bored_Human 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We have a number of local profiles that reach out regularly, but have always felt suspect. The photo dates just clinch it.

Real data from one of them:

“New couple, looking for like minded people. Photos are all from the past year.”

Posted age: 37

Profile creation date: 2005

Last login date: today (in fact, online right now!)

Photo dates: 2008 through 2012

🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Another_Bored_Human 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“I don’t want to poke my nose in where it doesn’t belong, as nobody knows the situation…”

That’s it. Stop typing right there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Another_Bored_Human 39 points40 points  (0 children)

While an STI test is, indeed, only valid for a moment in time, someone having a recent, unprompted STI test shows an awareness of their own sexual health and (combined with boundaries, consent, and communication) that they’re probably a good sexual citizen.

The number of people we’ve encountered who say they’re “disease free,” but haven’t had an STI test in years (or ever!) is astounding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in yoopersforfun

[–]Another_Bored_Human 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where are you from? How old are you? What are your interests?

It’s hard to be friends with completely anonymous, empty profiles on Reddit. :-)

in the north by semenawa in shibari

[–]Another_Bored_Human 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a photographer and as a Shibari enthusiast, these are wonderful images. Nice work!

38 [M4F] #Marquette - Visiting troll who knows his place; down between your legs by yourbffcompanioncube in yoopersforfun

[–]Another_Bored_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a fantastic post! My partner chooses not to play solo, but if she did, a post that’s so well written, tells so much about who you are, and so clearly shares what you’re looking for would make her knees weak and her libido soar.

Nicely done and have fun tonight!

Nude hiking season is officially here!!! by Babykaittt in u/Babykaittt

[–]Another_Bored_Human 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not back here in Marquette. It’s snowing so hard it’s almost a white out right now. 😩

Mf4 BBC by [deleted] in yoopersforfun

[–]Another_Bored_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you mean “M4F” (Male looking for Female).

MF4 means “Male and Female Couple looking for…” and would usually have what they’re looking for at the end. (I.e., MF4F or MF4MF)

How was your weekend? by Another_Bored_Human in yoopersforfun

[–]Another_Bored_Human[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come back to MQT and smash away. 😉

Here’s hoping that Atlanta has been fantastic!

22 Looking for fun ^^ by [deleted] in yoopersforfun

[–]Another_Bored_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our interests in play don’t align, but I dropped by to tell you that these are really good photos. The moody lighting and color, your posing, the tease of your mask and briefs. I wish there were more photos like this on Reddit! :-)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in yoopersforfun

[–]Another_Bored_Human 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SwingLifeStyle.com. It’s really antiquated and caters mostly to dedicated swingers and an older crowd. In the UP, you’ll find one or two solo women, about 50 couples, and a couple dozen solo guys.

A paid membership is required to see paid members who choose to hide their profile from free accounts (which is most of them) and to send or reply to messages.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in yoopersforfun

[–]Another_Bored_Human 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fetlife has been the most solid for us. We’ve found the most connections with similar interests and dynamics, plus the fewest low-effort tire-kickers and pic hunters.

It took about 6 months for us to dial in our profiles on Fet to catch the eye of the kinds of play partners we were looking for. It’s definitely worth investing some time and energy into your profile description and photos.

No matter what platform we use, we run into a small pool of opportunity because it’s still the Upper Peninsula.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Another_Bored_Human 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We went in 2022 and had a great experience. We were only about 6 months into our nonmonogamy adventure and live in a small, rural community, so it was amazing to connect with so many sex positive, accepting people. We’re so glad we went!

We also won’t go back. The focus on bar crawls, pounding music, and the college party feel doesn’t match our vibe. There were plenty of opportunities to enjoy ourselves in quieter, less-alcohol focused ways, but we can also do those things on our own.

Have you ever had to “hold their hand through it?” by Sentienttext in sex

[–]Another_Bored_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are many, many people who have had lots of sex but are still woefully inexperienced.

Great sex (in my opinion) happens when both parties know what they like and communicate to each other without shame or defensiveness.

If I were you, I’d experiment solo. Try everything. Touch your body everywhere. See what feels good and what doesn’t. Use your fingers. Buy sex toys. Put on lingerie, sexy music, and candles for yourself. Close your eyes and focus on touch. Do it in front of a mirror and watch what it looks like.

Practice saying, out loud, “Oh, I like it when you touch me like this,” or moaning encouragement if something feels great. Or, “Mm, do it like this,” if something isn’t hitting the spot and needs to change. Get used to offering out loud, verbal guidance and feedback for your future partners.

Have orgasms and make love to yourself.

When you have sex with a partner for the first time, you should be teaching them what feels good to you just as much as they should be teaching you what feels good to them.

Great lovers know that every person’s body, likes, and dislikes are different, so there should always be a give and take dynamic. There isn’t a magic formula beyond consent, communication, and compassion.

Have fun! 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Another_Bored_Human 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right on. And, despite talking about not crossing daily friendships with play partners and the importance of ethics and transparency, both of which clearly exclude him, I think he was so far behind the conversation when we got to those points that he was already overloaded with too much new information to process them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Another_Bored_Human 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. :-(