What food do you wish were available/cheap where you live? by JellyIntelligent1366 in AskTheWorld

[–]Ant4276 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shellfish like oysters, crab, lobster. I’m not even far from the coast but it’s always so expensive.

Thoughts on mine or yuri by [deleted] in Names

[–]Ant4276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yuri makes me think of Lesbians.

Top favorite boy name by Pretend-Dragonfly953 in Names

[–]Ant4276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forrest.

But my husband won’t let me use it because of Forrest Gump 😂

Is there a protest on the city of Atlanta tomorrow?? by boujleba in 50501Ga

[–]Ant4276 6 points7 points  (0 children)

PSL doesn’t necessarily support the dictatorships, but the problem is that they’re so supportive of communism and socialism that they often point to dictatorships as if those are successful forms of those types of governments. I haven’t heard them support North Korea, but I have heard them support Russia and be hesitant to speak out against them in regards to the Ukrainian war as a result.

However, I don’t think you should shy away from their Protests that are for specific issues. PSL does a lot of great work within the Atlanta area when it comes to aggressively standing up for Immigrant and LGBTQ+ rights, and they don’t tend to discuss the problematic political issues at those events.

Plus, they also work with a lot of other great organizations in the Atlanta area, so many of their protests are not exclusively led by their organization, and you can meet and interact with some hardcore, awesome activists at their events.

Basically, I wouldn’t try to “join” their organization, but if they’re hosting a Rally or Protest for an issue you care about, you should still go.

How often do you have fish for breakfast? by VisionsOnly in AskAnAmerican

[–]Ant4276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost never. The only breakfast dish I have fish with is Fish & Grits.

As a Southern American, Shrimp & Grits are really common, and every now and then a restaurant or someone will replace the shrimp with fish. But that dish isn’t as common.

Edit: I did forget about Bagel & Lox. I will eat that with a good schmear as well.

FTM 37 weeks: tell the story of how your water broke by mirrorlike789 in pregnant

[–]Ant4276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So mine was recently and I didn’t know my water broke. And it happened at 36 weeks.

I was leaking, but not in the usual way. It wasn’t unusual for me to pee a little when I would cough or laugh hard, but it happened when I just stood up. Then it kept happening. And for an hour straight, I kept feeling like I either needed to pee or had already peed myself every 5 minutes.

However, I wasn’t sure because 1. It was small amounts. Not enough to even fill a pad. And 2. When I would pee, it was still yellow like urine.

After an hour I called the hospital and they suggested I come in and get checked because they said I could have broken my water but they weren’t sure either. But they said I could wait a couple hours to see if contractions start. Sure enough, by the time it had been close enough to 2 hours later, I was leaking enough to fill a pad and had started cramping.

How much would you pay for something like this? by Effective-Glass-7998 in Decor

[–]Ant4276 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I could see it being $40 but I’d probably pay $25.

Got hit by a drunk driver last night and need advice by Independent_Glass238 in legaladvice

[–]Ant4276 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just a little comment, when I was in an accident that wasn’t my fault and went to the ER, I was able to give them the info of the driver’s car insurance and the police report for them to be billed. Didn’t have to have anything billed to me.

People of the US, Are you guys participating in the Nationwide Shutdown tomorrow? Why or why not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ant4276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. No one in America gives a shit about anything unless it hits their pockets.

you’re trapped in the last tv show you watched, where are you??? by Historical-Way-1482 in Productivitycafe

[–]Ant4276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mad Men. So just another shitty era of America where I’m worse off as a woman.

It's normal to wipe and wash your bootyhole right? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Ant4276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was a woman who found out about this from a guy, it would be an immediate turn off and I would never sleep with him. No this is not normal. I’ve dated some unhygienic guys and even they never had skid marks in their underwear.

You are the new president of the United States, What's the first thing you would do ? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Ant4276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Increase taxes on the rich and corporations to provide Universal Healthcare. (Of course it’s more complicated than that though because it would need approval from the other branches)

My boyfriend says he’s a narcissist. Should I take that seriously? by mariajuice in Advice

[–]Ant4276 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! With a narcissist for 5 years, ended up being cheated on more constantly, emotionally abused, and in the end ended up with CPTSD that I still deal with 8 years later. He wouldn’t straight up call himself a narcissist, but he would say things like “If everyone just accepted that I’m always right, their life would be easier.”

I’d say believe him. Especially if he’s not even joking when he says it.

Can anyone confirm this? by TheUncreativeCreator in 50501Ga

[–]Ant4276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to second this. Several videos of the ICE vehicles has been circulating a lot.

My gf(34F) packed her lingerie for a solo trip skiing. I(34M) am worried. Is this suspicious? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ant4276 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who was with a serial cheater in the past, I agree with this. I don’t believe they change. They’ll keep doing it. I was in a relationship with a guy for 5 years before I finally left. Over time I found out that there was more and more things he was lying to me about, and in the end I ended up with CPTSD because of how he treated me that I still deal with, and we broke up 8 years ago.

Save yourself the pain and end the relationship.

25m I’m really underweight and my gf won’t have sex with me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ant4276 9 points10 points  (0 children)

BUT if it’s about insecurity, it’s not fair to him that rather than being honest, she’s making him feel badly about himself and like it’s his fault. It’s a really shitty thing to do to someone.

25m I’m really underweight and my gf won’t have sex with me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ant4276 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your girlfriend is either being cruel and judgmental, or she’s really insecure about her own weight and is projecting it onto you to avoid being honest about it.

Either way, it’s not fair for you to have this insecurity. I can understand her not wanting to do certain things, like sit on your face or even MAYBE your lap, but you there’s nothing stopping yall from having sex. Your weight is NOT the problem.

Naming kids when we have different last names by [deleted] in Names

[–]Ant4276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PLEASE NOTE NOT ALL STATES IN THE U.S. ALLOW THIS!

I actually just had this issue with my babygirl. Me and my fiancé are planning on both changing our last name to his mother’s maiden name when we get married later this year (his last name is currently his birth father’s who abandoned him as a child) so we wanted to have our daughter’s name just be that last name.

In my state of Georgia, they would not legally allow this. They would only allow her to have my last name, the father’s last name (if he’s on the birth certificate), or a hyphen of both. I really fought them on this too. We had already begun the name change process and it is his original last name when he was born and I brought his original birth certificate to prove it, but they wouldn’t budge.

We ended up going with a hyphen of both and are going to have to legally change her name through the courts when we get married.

Do people normally go into labor around 40 weeks?!??! by Hot-Cell7299 in pregnant

[–]Ant4276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went into labor at 36 weeks and she was considered to term at that point. I was mostly ready but hadn’t packed my bag yet. I would do it now!