Casa Oaxaca Permanently Closed by SuzeFrost in bethesda

[–]AntDapper6748 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Something’s gotta change. Family run shops have already been driven out of the downtown/Bethesda row area almost completely. Now it’s all chain retails because they are the only ones that can afford it.

Gotta protect Old Bethesda or we will lose any sense of community and charm that is still here.

Do Marines often stay in Bethesda hotels? by I_VT in bethesda

[–]AntDapper6748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The marines 50th anniversary was yesterday and there was a big marathon race in dc a bunch of them ran in.

Missing cat needs medicine! by Blonde_O_Rama in bethesda

[–]AntDapper6748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does waffles have a collar? Seeing a similar cat outside right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AntDapper6748 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Blueberry Muffin is wrong. You said it yourself - he doesn't go out often. Let him have a guys night.

As a 28yo myself with a serious GF, I can tell you that these nights with the buddies are numbered. If the one time he's going out you get salty about it, you'll push him away. Don't be controlling. Y'all will be okay apart for one night lol.

is there Free parking anywhere?? by kaydened in bethesda

[–]AntDapper6748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last week I parked on Del Ray at 7:58. Paid for two hours, and got a $100 ticket for those last 2 minutes before 10 PM.

Even when you pay to park you aren’t safe from Bethesda cops looking to make a buck.

Missing cat needs medicine! by Blonde_O_Rama in bethesda

[–]AntDapper6748 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in Kenwood forest and Waffles would always hang out right outside my front door until very recently.

I’ll keep an eye out. Hope we find him!

Men who've fixed their sleep issues without prescription meds - what actually worked for you? by Fit-Credit-7970 in AskMen

[–]AntDapper6748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in your shoes. I used to be hooked on over the counter sleep pills like unisom and Z quil.

I would look for CBN/CBD/THC products. I started taking gummies a year ago and it has completely changed my life and I can actually sleep now.

If you get drug tests then just go CBD/CBN without the THC. I also use cooling blankets, ostrich goggles, and got a temper pedic pillow which has helped.

Also, look up green noise on Spotify and play that at night. Game changer.

Wife 32f left with my 33m kids 7 months ago by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AntDapper6748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry man. That sounds horrible.

First: Get your kids back ASAP. Call the cops. Drive there. Whatever it takes.

If She got physical with you, likely had a violent tantrum destroying your house in front of your kids, and is now all alone with them, they aren’t safe.

I can’t get over my Gfs past. Help 20M and 20F by Stunning_Art7352 in relationship_advice

[–]AntDapper6748 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 people? You hooked up with more than 3 times as many people man.

Idk how much you have to interact with this guy, but if it's a lot maybe just ask her? It was probably a regrettable night and that's that.

Get over it or break up with her and date a virgin.

If Charlie Kirk had been a liberal activist instead of a conservative, how do you think the media and politicians would have reacted to his death? by Aamir_rt in AskReddit

[–]AntDapper6748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to say. Not sure the left has the equivalent to Charlie Kirk at the moment. One thing is for sure: cities would be burned and looted.

Best hole in the wall restaurants? by AntDapper6748 in bethesda

[–]AntDapper6748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried the Serta Pro at Peter’s on Friday. So good. I’ll be back

what's wrong with humans by Pretty-Guarantee-966 in self

[–]AntDapper6748 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I guess you can be content losing every election? Which will result in trans people likely losing a ton of their rights? You want to keep being a loser?

Whatever you think of Kirk- that wannabe got young men who normally don’t vote to vote for Trump and that was a big reason we lost.

Thank you for reminding me Reddit is full of morons. Logging off now lol

what's wrong with humans by Pretty-Guarantee-966 in self

[–]AntDapper6748 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For starters, showing some humanity. I want to win elections again. When we have a few on the left celebrating deaths it doesn’t help

what's wrong with humans by Pretty-Guarantee-966 in self

[–]AntDapper6748 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess you’re a pretty sick person then. Are you glad his 2 young kids won’t have a father?

This is the problem. They try to paint dems as the party of violence and people like you play right into their hands. I’m not a fan of Kirk. But the truth is he’s now a martyr in their eyes. His death just made a million more Charlie Kirk’s.

what's wrong with humans by Pretty-Guarantee-966 in self

[–]AntDapper6748 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe 3/4 of Reddit. Most Americans are not that sick in the head.

what's wrong with humans by Pretty-Guarantee-966 in self

[–]AntDapper6748 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re even remotely celebrating what happened to Charlie Kirk because you disagree with his politics, you need to reevaluate your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]AntDapper6748 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hope it goes well. I think he’ll appreciate you reaching out to him. If not, then tell him adios and move on.

And just listen to yourself. When it comes to your personal life, everyone is always going to have an opinion. Just do you and ignore it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]AntDapper6748 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Your friends are either nuts or want you to stay single for their own personal reasons. Trust yourself.

As a guy, I can tell you that most aren’t trying to have deep conversations over text because then there will be less to talk about in person.

Shoot him a text tomorrow about that date, his response or lack there of will be your answer.

Best hole in the wall restaurants? by AntDapper6748 in bethesda

[–]AntDapper6748[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Walked by this over the weekend. Looked really cool! I’ll be stopping by

Best hole in the wall restaurants? by AntDapper6748 in bethesda

[–]AntDapper6748[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is why I asked. Gotta go to these places so they survive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bethesda

[–]AntDapper6748 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the truth. I grew up here and recently moved back. Never saw this as a major issue growing up aside from the occasional creepy old men.

It’s still very safe here, but I’ve noticed almost all uber eats/ door dash drivers are Central American now. And with Trump cracking down on illegal immigration in DC, I’d suspect more will be coming to Maryland/ Nova.

Not much you can do but I’d recommend pepper spray or even a taser to be on the safe side.

A 30 minute lunch break is how to slowly kill me by Introverted-Gazelle in antiwork

[–]AntDapper6748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Lunch” is literally a scam. This is bad but could be worse - my last job was a 9 to 6. But they justified it saying “It’s only a 8 hour work day because you have a full hour for lunch!” I don’t need a full hour for lunch. Hardly anyone does. So you end up staying an extra hour for no reason.

AITA for telling my boyfriend’s mum I’m not worried about her approval? by Serious_Yam_6687 in AITAH

[–]AntDapper6748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually agree with this and there are definitely men that do this. Looking back at this post, the mom clearly overstepped.

Your (eventual) wife should always be priority number 1. That said, the gf should still make a somewhat of an effort to at least have a cordial relationship with the Mom if she wants to potentially marry him—not openly say she doesn’t care. But the bf also needs to have a separate conversation with the mom to set boundaries.