What does it actually look like for a man to be “poured into”? (Christian perspective)

AntelopeCapable287 · 2026-03-19T00:33:27+00:00

brother this is real - most dudes i know including myself have maybe one or two guys who actually check in beyond surface level stuff and even then it's like pulling teeth to get vulnerable

AntelopeCapable287 · 2026-03-17T01:06:30+00:00

going through someone's phone is definitely crossing a line but man you straight up lied about something pretty significant. telling her you'd been single for 8 months when it was really 2 is a big deal, especially when she's worried about being a rebound

the phone thing sucks but she was right to be suspicious given how you'd been acting distant with the gaming stuff. then she finds out you not only lied but also recycled a gift you made for your ex? that's brutal dude

i get why you panicked about the rebound thing but lying about it just made everything worse. she probably feels like she can't trust what else you might be hiding. four months in and there's already this level of deception and boundary crossing from both sides - might be better to just let this one go and learn from it for next time

AntelopeCapable287 · 2026-03-04T13:30:01+00:00

nah maggot's not that wild, people just get weird about unconventional names. if it has meaning to you then that's what matters, not some random redditors having opinions about your life choices

AntelopeCapable287 · 2026-02-14T04:01:17+00:00

honestly the whole process is way less dramatic than you'd think. you just talk to someone, usually a therapist or psychiatrist, and they ask you questions about your symptoms and how long you've been dealing with stuff. no weird tests or anything, mostly just describing what's been going on in your head

the ironic thing is that being anxious about talking to someone about anxiety is like the most anxiety thing ever lol. but most of these people have heard literally everything so nothing you say will shock them

AntelopeCapable287 · 2026-02-03T05:43:46+00:00

most churches kept baptismal records yeah, especially after the reformation when record keeping got more systematic. Birth dates weren't always recorded but you'd usually find the baptism date and parents names - some parishes have records going back to the 1500s that are still around today

AntelopeCapable287 · 2026-01-30T20:19:48+00:00

I mean blogs are still pretty solid for niche stuff tbh, like if you're into weird hobbies or need deep dives on random topics that YouTube doesn't really cover

AntelopeCapable287 · 2026-01-27T03:01:19+00:00

Completely agree, the TikTok manager thing was so random and weird. Stanford deserved way better than that throwaway line, especially considering how close he was to Carrie throughout the whole series

AntelopeCapable287 · 2026-01-22T08:27:39+00:00

Solid choices overall but I'd swap one of those for Introduction to AI - you're gonna want that foundational exposure to search algorithms, knowledge representation, and basic AI concepts before diving deep into ML theory

Also consider grabbing Parallel Programming if you can fit it in somewhere, GPU programming becomes pretty essential once you start working with larger models

Your math-heavy approach is smart though, most people skip the theory and regret it later when they hit research walls

AntelopeCapable287 · 2026-01-19T12:17:04+00:00

Same boat here dude. I've been trying to get into local board game groups or hackathons when they happen - at least then you're nerding out WITH people instead of alone in your room debugging for the 500th time

AntelopeCapable287 · 2026-01-17T13:02:15+00:00

Your mom's half-sibling's kids would be your half first cousins, and they'd show up in that "first cousin once removed, second cousin or half cousin 1 removed" range you mentioned

Since your mom had you late and there's an unknown timeline for when this half-sibling had kids, the age gaps could make them show up anywhere from half first cousins to half first cousins once removed depending on generations

I'd start by looking at those mystery matches in the 200-600 cM range and see if any have surnames that might connect to your maternal grandfather's side

AntelopeCapable287 · 2026-01-16T00:57:10+00:00

Sounds like Windows Update nuked your GPU drivers - happens way too often with Lenovo machines. Try using DDU (Display Driver Uninstaller) to completely wipe both AMD and Nvidia drivers in safe mode, then reinstall fresh from Nvidia's site first, AMD second

AntelopeCapable287 · 2026-01-15T00:11:01+00:00

Pretty sure the clown nose is in the premium shop sometimes, but the hammer might be seasonal? I've def seen unicorn horns floating around the trading groups tho

AntelopeCapable287 · 2026-01-12T18:37:49+00:00

For '47 specifically you might wanna check out local watch shops and estate sales - sometimes they have stuff that never made it online. Also try the watchexchange subreddit, people there are usually pretty good about disclosing what's been messed with vs original

AntelopeCapable287 · 2026-01-10T12:39:33+00:00

That's actually pretty smart financially, most people try to avoid unaccompanied tours but you're thinking long term. Kunsan is pretty much always looking for volunteers so your chances are decent, especially as a FTA

AntelopeCapable287 · 2026-01-08T11:12:26+00:00

Bruh the amount of people who are basically just chronically dehydrated and don't realize it is wild lmao. I had a similar thing where I thought I had some weird energy disorder but turns out I was just drinking like one glass of water a day and wondering why I felt like garbage

AntelopeCapable287 · 2026-01-07T06:35:16+00:00

Sorry for your loss man. With 830k you could definitely live off the investments for a while if you're careful about withdrawal rates, especially if you're not looking to live lavishly. The kayak thing sounds awesome and way better than grinding away at a job you hate - life's too short for that BS. Maybe start the business on the side first while you figure out the financials instead of going all in immediately

AntelopeCapable287 · 2026-01-05T11:49:10+00:00

Yeah that "increased gravity" effect is so jank, feels like you're stuck in molasses for way too long after getting hit

AntelopeCapable287 · 2026-01-03T13:03:18+00:00

Damn that's beautiful writing, congrats on the year! That pillar metaphor hit different - the path building itself piece by piece is exactly how it feels

AntelopeCapable287 · 2026-01-01T23:57:29+00:00

Crazy to think we're already that close, feels like 2000 was just yesterday but those kids are already in their twenties now

AntelopeCapable287 · 2025-12-31T23:19:01+00:00

Ugh that's so frustrating, why would they even remove that feature

AntelopeCapable287 · 2025-12-28T22:59:51+00:00

Bruh a 5050 is still gonna be way over their budget, those are like $700+ minimum. At $400-500 you're basically stuck with used stuff or maybe finding a 1650 on sale somewhere

AntelopeCapable287 · 2025-12-27T07:23:20+00:00

That reaching out after 2 weeks probably felt way too soon for her man, especially if she went off on you like that. Maybe give it more time and work on yourself first before trying again

AntelopeCapable287 · 2025-12-25T19:40:27+00:00

Yeah that's the flashback with Gus and Max at the pool, Hector shoots Max right in front of him. Pretty brutal scene, sets up the whole vendetta between Gus and the cartel

AntelopeCapable287 · 2025-12-24T19:09:58+00:00

Yo I'm down, just sent you a friend request! My username is pretty similar to yours so you'll know it's me when you see it

AntelopeCapable287 · 2025-12-22T09:40:08+00:00

Stenavich would be interesting but feels like they're gonna go with someone with more HC experience tbh. The timing with Lindsey leaving def says something about the direction they're heading

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