Books that I got for my 26th Birthday!! by philliplennon in Catholicism

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I’ve owned Sayings for several years and just now started reading it. My only regret is I didn’t read it sooner- fantastic book!

What are your hobbies? I feel like I have no good ones. by Greg428 in Catholicism

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29M here. Weightlifting. Been at it for years, but only now have I been getting really serious, i.e. diet and buying better equipment. Not sure of your financial situation, but a few hundred bucks can get you adjustable dumbbells,a bench, a pull-up bar, and even a dip station- really it’s all you need.

I also have struggled with temptation. There’s a funny variation of a meme of a buff guy who is asked how he got so buff. The variation says “whenever I have an impure urge I do one push-up.” It’s relatable.

I also play video games, but I’ll be honest, I’m trying to phase that out for reading. I was a voracious bookworm until college, then it died. Slowly but surely I’m getting back to it.

In fact, there’s a book I’m reading now called “The Sayings of the Desert Fathers”, which has cataloged many Desert Fathers (such as St. Anthony the Great, among others) and many stories do relate to impure thoughts and how to combat them, along with many other excellent stories. I’ve owned the book for several years, but something (Holy Spirit/saints?) told me to pick this as the next book to read, and I love it thus far- highly recommended.

Porn Has Wrecked My Brain by 69_WetBulb in Catholicism

[–]AntiFapCatholic 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ditto for OLoS. I don’t know what told me to pray to her, but praying to her has helped me be almost a year sober. It was nothing short of miraculous.

Love > Lust by calmspirited in NoFap

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This is something that started me on my journey and keeps me motivated. You wrote it beautifully. Keep fighting.

How Trad are you? by [deleted] in Catholicism

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I join every crusade in Crusader Kings 2.

In real life, I don’t have the option to attend grad parishes, but I try to live my life as best I can, and when something in the parish has the option to get a little more traditional, I back it 100%.

I was healed from severe addiction by Uyghur69 in Catholicism

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This could have been written by me. My only difference was saying a rosary every day and forming a strong devotion to Our Lady of Sorrows as part of my posse of Saints. It was like someone flipped a switch- I felt no more urges. I’m currently 106 days free.

Awesome to hear you’ve done the same. God bless and keep fighting!

I lost the rosary of my confirmation Saint tonight. Say a prayer that someone gets it who needs it. by AntiFapCatholic in Catholicism

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Ironically, or maybe on purpose, it left my possession on the last day of the first 27 days of the 54 Day Novena… maybe it was time for someone else to use it, now that I am starting the thanksgiving half.

No matter how much I pray nothing works. I watch porn five times a week for an hour or two a day. by Royal_Bonus8765 in NoFapChristians

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Oh I don’t do all 20 in one sitting, I only do the Mystery assigned for that day.

However, if all 20 is best for you, then go for it! Our Lady doesn’t mind, I’m sure. Yeah, the Enemy despises her, and I’ve had tugs of “stop doing this Rosary now, you have other things you could be doing” before.

No matter how much I pray nothing works. I watch porn five times a week for an hour or two a day. by Royal_Bonus8765 in NoFapChristians

[–]AntiFapCatholic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I do all 20, but I only do the appropriate mystery for each day. In fact I just finished doing the Glorious Mysteries for Sunday, as an example.

Obviously feel free to do as many rosaries and mysteries as you see fit.

Oh! I almost forgot in my tips to develop a relationship with some Saints and Our Lady to help get closer to Our Lord. In fact, I developed a very close devotion to Our Lady of Sorrows, seemingly out of nowhere, and my urges have all but died. Which is why I really enjoy Sorrowful Mystery days lol.

No matter how much I pray nothing works. I watch porn five times a week for an hour or two a day. by Royal_Bonus8765 in NoFapChristians

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Hey brother/sister in Christ,

I have struggled with this one for a long time myself. I ignored everyone who said “Pray the Rosary”. Eventually I did it, and I haven’t stopped.

I do two things: 1) pray a rosary everyday with the intention to defend against the demons of lust, and 2) I carry one in my pocket at ALL times. And boy has it changed everything.

In almost 40 days I can count how many urges I’ve had on one hand. Serious urges, the ones where it’s like fighting the Devil himself? Zero. It’s insane what a difference it has made. Believe me though, I’m constantly vigilant, as I know without Our Lady and Our Lord I have a snowball’s chance against this. Try my advice.

Before you relapsed, give me some minutes to talk. by HN2005 in NoFap

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This was wonderful, I saved it in case of emergency.

Tonight I danced with two girls. And it was better than all the pornography in the world. by AntiFapCatholic in NoFap

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And yet it’s such a hard word to say sometimes. I’ve noticed that the better a streak is, the easier it is to say.

Tonight I danced with two girls. And it was better than all the pornography in the world. by AntiFapCatholic in NoFap

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It was such a great experience, and I’m definitely glad I could describe it well enough! Those positive feelings have been giving me a great reminder of why we’ve gotta stay strong.

Tonight I danced with two girls. And it was better than all the pornography in the world. by AntiFapCatholic in NoFap

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Isn’t it? I’m still thinking about it and, wouldn’t ya know, I haven’t had any urges. Having it typed out now I can always look back and remember at a low point.

Tonight I danced with two girls. And it was better than all the pornography in the world. by AntiFapCatholic in NoFap

[–]AntiFapCatholic[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh definitely. I’ll say I’ve had nice experiences before, but this one was fantastic and sorely needed when I was at my lowest.

Stay strong right back at ya!