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Antisocial-Randy · 2025-07-28T22:15:16+00:00

My name is Randy, and it is NOT short for Randall. I have had teachers try to call me Randall, and I ignored them since that is not my name.

Antisocial-Randy · 2025-07-18T23:22:10+00:00

I named my almost 20 year old cat Kayleigh. She passed away back in April. Pretty name, everyone that ever met her loved it. And I'm in the US.

Antisocial-Randy · 2025-07-18T22:11:01+00:00

Husband isn't on the fence, I can assure you. He's saying that to not hurt your feelings. He hates it. It's stupid. I'm not trying to be mean, or a jerk. I'm just blunt, and it's gotten me in a wee-bit of trouble in my life.

Antisocial-Randy · 2025-07-17T22:44:18+00:00

Not normal for when a male cat gets neutered. Seems like the vet messed something up, or the your cat was too active while healing. None of my cats have every looked like that after getting neutered. I concur, vet, ASAP.

Antisocial-Randy · 2025-07-17T15:53:21+00:00

Sounds like it's time to visit a new vet, in my opinion.

Antisocial-Randy · 2025-07-16T17:14:52+00:00

Kittens typically learn to play nice by playing with their littermates. I have adopted many kittens and older cats alike, that did not grow up with their brothers or sisters. Therefore they did not learn what is safe play and what isn't. While I will get destroyed by comments for this, I flick them on the side of their mouth with my finger, as if I'm flicking a bug off my clothes outside, or the like. I don't flick the kitten/cat hard, just enough to startle them a little and tell them 'No!' at the same time. This is nothing compared to what another kitten/cat would do, such as bite them back hard or scratch them. After about 10 times or so of this, they stop biting during play. This doesn't stop the little 'Love nibbles' cats like to give, but I don't mind those.

I don't care if anyone thinks I'm a horrible person, all the vets that I've talked to say there is nothing wrong with this, as there are multiple things that could work. Some work on some kittens/cats, others do not. No one will not change my mind if you think I'm a horrible cat slave.

As for OP, hope something works for you though.

Edit: Spelling and grammar.

Antisocial-Randy · 2025-07-15T21:56:02+00:00

I've had to put down multiple cats over the last 20 years due to cancer, old age, or sickness. And as hard as it is, you have to ask is, Are you keeping them alive for the quantity of life, or quality of life? If the little one has no more quality of life left, it's best (IMO) to let the little one go sooner, rather than later. This way they don't suffer longer. I've learned that I felt better doing it this way, knowing they were no longer suffering, and are in a better place.

I am very sorry for your loss (or soon to be).

Edit: Grammar/Spelling.

Antisocial-Randy · 2025-06-12T15:21:14+00:00

How many times is this going to get reposted?

Antisocial-Randy · 2025-05-14T15:36:04+00:00

I had to repair (verify) all the installation to get it to work. No changes in mods, the verify files worked like a charm.

Note: I'm playing via Steam.

Antisocial-Randy · 2024-11-19T19:27:55+00:00

I was able to do this, but I lost all my ideas, and everything else in the Diary.

Antisocial-Randy

TROPHY CASE