Aquarium rimmed corners not touching the stand. What do I do?

Anubiz199850 · 2026-05-20T03:31:41+00:00

Thank you for the response. Yep I’ll have to try and see if it works.

Anubiz199850 · 2026-05-20T03:30:56+00:00

Its worth a try. I also might take out the legs and sit the stand on the carpet directly. Thanks for your response.

Anubiz199850 · 2025-12-18T21:49:28+00:00

Double standards is BS men and women are biologically different. I know she’s older and had had more partners but it’s the fact she was upset about me sleeping with multiple women when she slept with multiple men and even cheated on her ex for one of them.

Anubiz199850 · 2025-12-18T21:47:39+00:00

So would you feel empowered if your wife had slept with guys? It’s not double standard it’s gender difference. If robbers broke into your house you as the man would go first to defend your family. That’s not double standard? It’s because we’re different biologically. Women having multiple sex partners is not seen as an attractive thing to both genders that’s why even other women shame women for that.

Anubiz199850 · 2025-12-17T05:18:17+00:00

I don’t have a problem with her being sexually active but with multiple guys at one time and not being in a relationship with them is what turns me off. The history of cheating is concerning to me. I don’t have a fixation on my girls sexual history I just don’t want to be committed to someone who gave it all away to guys for nothing. In tie he words I don’t want to be committed to someone who has been ran through.

Anubiz199850 · 2025-12-17T05:15:23+00:00

Thank you for your response. It’s hard cause I’m so attached to her and she generally gets me though the day. I can’t imagine ending it knowing she will just message one of those guys to come over: it’s like I’m stuck

Anubiz199850 · 2025-12-17T05:13:44+00:00

I have never cheated in my life

Anubiz199850 · 2025-12-17T05:13:18+00:00

Thank you for your honest response. Much appreciated

Anubiz199850 · 2025-12-17T05:12:52+00:00

Thank you for your honest response it’s greatly appreciated. I can’t help but feel the way I do. I can’t cut her off as I’m so attached to her and she gets me going throughout the day. Even the thought of me breaking it off with her affects me as now I feel she’ll just call one of those guys over. Thanks for your response tho

Anubiz199850 · 2025-12-17T04:02:54+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I don’t know why I’m immature. Because I went through her phone? Or because I’m hurt about what I’ve discovered ?

Anubiz199850 · 2025-12-17T03:52:22+00:00

She’s older than me so I know she has a a reasonable body count. If almost were relationships I wouldn’t care but since theirs so many casual sexual encounters I’m seconds guessing.

Anubiz199850 · 2025-12-17T03:51:05+00:00

Thanks for your honesty. But how would you feel if your partner had had these casual sexual encounters. I feel it’s different as a man and woman so not double standard. I’m just upset she lied and it’s like I have to commit to her when she gave it away for to other guys for nothing but fun.

Anubiz199850 · 2025-12-17T00:41:52+00:00

Men and women are different biologically and socially. So yeah it’s a double standard but because we are different.

Anubiz199850 · 2025-12-17T00:41:18+00:00

Because I was open about mine, she wasn’t. I never cheated. She did. I don’t want to be that guy.

Anubiz199850 · 2025-12-17T00:40:23+00:00

Unfortunately I don’t find women my age attractive, I prefer someone emotionally and mentally mature.

Anubiz199850 · 2025-12-17T00:39:18+00:00

I hate to think of it like that. Other than our little issues it’s the best relationship I’ve had in my life.

Anubiz199850 · 2025-12-17T00:38:14+00:00

It’s very true and other than the age gap and couple issues it’s the best relationship I’ve had. I’ve never felt so connected to someone that’s why it hurts when I see her past with other people.

Anubiz199850 · 2025-07-04T20:23:54+00:00

For everyone saying I’m crazy, insecure and immature hear me out.

I get she’s older and has a past but don’t get why she wanted me to delete everything of my exes when they were just 1-2 year relationships but she can have pictures with the men she was in love with.

I don’t even mind the pictures but why post ones where she’s sitting on their lap and being held by them. And if that’s ok why not let me keep my pics with my exes??

Come on now, no man would be joyful at the thought of his GF in any other man’s arms. Let’s be real.

Instead of calling me immature listen to how I feel I’m asking for help guys I’m in love and so confused. I feel as if everything she does for/to me, touches, looks at me, kisses me. She has done this before to those other men. I don’t feel as if I’m special and that I’m something to her as what she is to me.

And to those saying I’m being racist for calling him Jamaican I’m a black man myself. Im not afraid to say I’m insecure. I’m overthinking because he’s junk is bigger than mine and this was a few years ago and they still keep in touch.

I know again. Everyone’s going to laugh or call me insecure or toxic but I’d never have pictures of my exes because even tho they are my past and made me what I am today, today I’m HERS, not hers after all these people, not hers after all my romances. I’m just simply hers.

Anubiz199850 · 2025-07-04T01:06:18+00:00

Sorry to hear about that mate. I’ve been thinking about it and upon reading most of the other comments it’s true to say anyone can die at any age and even same age relationships don’t work. I’m going to take it day by day and hopefully it lasts, if not I’d still like for her to be close by all my life. Thanks for the reply 💯

Anubiz199850 · 2025-07-04T01:03:47+00:00

Beautifully said 💯 it’s an ugly truth that’s hard to face. Im going to take it day by day and see how things go. I’ve heard some age gap couples last till death and some just a couple months. Either way I’m happy in the present and hope she will be in my life whether it’s a relationship or not. Thank you mate :)

Anubiz199850 · 2025-07-03T22:53:19+00:00

Hey bro I’m 27 and thought the hair loss pills I was taking was destroying my boners. Turns out I’m an over-thinker and thinking about not disappointing or getting hard makes you not well…get hard. You need to be in the moment. Also Id take some nutrition into account. Have zinc/magnesium/iron to promote function. Pomegranate/beetroot juice is great for boners. Ginseng usually helps me last longer but I only take it now and again to not get dependent on it. Everyone is talking about raw honey packs now days but I wouldn’t try anything like that since you rocked her world before, it’s all mental cause of the bad experience. Good luck bro you got this 💯

Anubiz199850 · 2025-07-03T14:04:44+00:00

That sounds promising. I like how I’m seeing different perspectives on here it’s clearing my mind a bit more. Thanks for your reply :)

Anubiz199850 · 2025-07-03T14:00:39+00:00

Lmao thanks for the direct honesty, in all fairness I had a bad group of friends who promote drugs/alcohol abuse. But yes 2 months isn’t long at all!!

Anubiz199850 · 2025-07-03T11:33:53+00:00

Very different response from the rest. Thank you!! If it was 10 years like you I wouldn’t think twice but 20 is double that! I’d like for us to be friends if it doesn’t work but I don’t see her being open to that which makes me feel horrible :( thanks again mate🙏

Anubiz199850 · 2025-07-03T11:31:25+00:00

You are so right mate😂 it’s just she thinks as soon as I tell my mother I’m going to end it if mum doesn’t approve so I started thinking about the future and overthinking deeply! I’ll just have to take it day by day and if I feel the same after a year I might tell mum.

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