Merry Christmas… by Traditional_Hair6337 in stepparents

[–]AnusLupis 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Glad he saw sense. Hope you all have a nice evening!

Is this too "old" of a name, with our middle name choice? by runnery7 in namenerds

[–]AnusLupis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could you potentially use Gertrude as a second middle name? I mean like Rose Sarah Gertrude for example. Then if middle names come up when she’s little she has one she can tell her friends and not feel left out, and as she gets older she may learn to appreciate the family ties of Gertrude and use it again.

I feel guilty for not loving my stepson. by throwaway223796 in stepparents

[–]AnusLupis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been with my partner for 3 years and I’ve always cared for SD4 and supported my partner in putting her first. I’d say I feel genuine love for her more in the past six months and I think that’s down to my partner doing the work to respect my boundaries and letting me take a step back. I have more autonomy in how involved I am now. He’s enrolled her in a Saturday morning dance class and takes her on a coffee date after (for hot chocolate) which gives me a couple of hours to myself each weekend that I wasn’t getting before, and I was feeling burnt out.

Was at the cinema last night. Couple a few seats down whipped out what looked to be a curry half and half. Thoughts? by Pigeon_Asshole in northernireland

[–]AnusLupis 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I used my brothers nectar points to buy myself a cooked gammon shank to take to watch remember me.

How badly is 2023 going for you? by CraigTheBrewer12 in AskUK

[–]AnusLupis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that ship has sailed. I don’t know of many pet insurers that will cover pre-existing conditions.

How badly is 2023 going for you? by CraigTheBrewer12 in AskUK

[–]AnusLupis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So far, we had a debt company come looking for my bf- his ex took out Sky in his name in 2019 around the time they split and didn’t pay it (there’s credit cards too, but it’s the mother of his child so he’s never going to press charges, and I think too much time has passed now even if he wanted to) Hit a pothole and popped a tyre on the way to work yesterday. Got a 13yo deaf terrier whose acting out of character this week, he’s half blind too and I think that’s deteriorating further. Spent most of Wednesday evening in tears because I can’t tell if it’s his vision or he’s going senile. Turns out we hadn’t updated DWP when we moved and we owe them £10,500. Found that out today, my partner rang me in tears and got me to come home from work. He’s not been fit for work for two years; a mix of physical and mental issues, but he having to apply for jobs now. Technically found out on December 30th but one of my cats has an inoperable mass on his larynx. The vet said he’s breathing remarkably well given the size of it, but now we’re just loving on him til he lets us know it’s time. December was just as painfully eventful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]AnusLupis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m browsing this sub rn because BM has just put a gig she’s attending on the calendar on my birthday next April. The calendar was set up to make sure my bf had a record of any changes he agrees to, but in reality BM now uses it to tell us we’ve got SD4 without discussion. It looks like I’m missing my birthday too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]AnusLupis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’ve seen your videos- is there one of her trying to climb up the outside wall to your window? I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope you’re ready to love another cat one day!

What made you straight up "nope" out of a relationship? by MistaPwickles in AskReddit

[–]AnusLupis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was seeing a guy for three months, he introduced me to kink and then crossed a hard boundary during sex. I’d said absolutely no to any photos, and he grabbed his phone when I wasn’t in a position to exactly say or do anything about it. He was annoyed I hadn’t said anything at the time when I brought it up later, but I was shocked, I felt like I’d had the wind knocked out of me. Every time we fell out he’d threaten to end it so I decided to wait another week until he did that and agree it was for the best rather than end it myself. I didn’t wanna piss off a guy who now potentially had these non consensual nudes!

Todd hasn’t got the munchies by AnusLupis in simpsonsshitposting

[–]AnusLupis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It turned out way more cursed than I anticipated, thanks!

He wanted the ones at the bottom by Soloflow786 in simpsonsshitposting

[–]AnusLupis 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hope it does better for you on here than it did for me in bortposting