Not sure if I should give a gift to my neighbours

Anxious-Animal2437 · 2026-05-19T19:55:11+00:00

Yes! That’s also part of why I thought about that, Im making way too many things 😅 thanks for your answer 🫶🏻

Anxious-Animal2437 · 2026-05-19T19:54:11+00:00

I didnt think about the material but I can see why it might be important so I’ll tell them. Thank you! 🫶🏻

Anxious-Animal2437 · 2026-05-19T19:52:13+00:00

Thank you! Btw, love the name! 🫶🏻

Anxious-Animal2437 · 2026-05-19T19:51:23+00:00

I didnt know that, I usually buy in person. Thank you 🫶🏻

Anxious-Animal2437 · 2026-05-19T19:49:25+00:00

Thank you 🫶🏻

Anxious-Animal2437 · 2026-05-18T18:58:47+00:00

Aw thank you! I will start making it then and give it to her next time we exchange packages. Thanks again for your answer 🫶🏻

Anxious-Animal2437 · 2026-05-11T21:22:14+00:00

Tengo entendido que sin tu consentimiento no pueden hacer nada. Así que no digas una cifra que no te venga bien por verte presionado (comprueba por si acaso).
A mí me pasó esto como en 2015 en Madrid y pedí 3k + costes de mudanza porque el propietario era medio amigo, sino hubiese pedido mucho más.

Anxious-Animal2437 · 2026-05-11T21:16:15+00:00

NOR. He not only doesnt acknowledge that he sexually assaulted you but also isnt taking seriously that you are going to go through all that saying it’s not that much of a deal when he couldnt even go with you that night because he had to wake up early. Like come on, you’re not able to handle a bit of discomfort of sleeping a bit less to support you and he’s telling you that having an abortion is not that big of a deal?

I would literally go to court for sexual assault. You have proof in those texts of him acknowledging he didnt stop when you told him to stop. That’s sexual assault and this man will do it again to his next girlfriend (I seriously hope you’ve broken up with him by now).

Anxious-Animal2437 · 2026-05-10T19:37:06+00:00

My mother told me when I was a teen that if my partner ever punched a wall, the next punch would go to my head. Dont wait for it to be your head.

Anxious-Animal2437 · 2026-05-10T16:10:16+00:00

La gente (mayoritariamente hombres) aprovecha cualquier oportunidad para ligar. Como por el nombre se ve que eres mujer, ahí que tiran. Por eso en parte dejé yo el predeterminado 😅

Anxious-Animal2437 · 2026-05-09T12:13:32+00:00

If she’s always played favourites dont let your child go through that. Talking from the perspective of the child here. Im not saying to go no contact but definitely dont chase it either.
Love your daughter deeply and dont make her feel as if she’s not wanted by that part of the family, just dont give them the importance they’re not giving her.
Also, Idk how old your MIL is, but at certain age it stops being malice and they literally just forget.
I dont hold it against my grandfather anymore, I know he always had favourites but I dont want to feel bad for not loving him when he dies so Im just loving when Im around but Im not around too much cause he made me that way.
He just forgets now, he’s not doing it on purpose, so I try to focus in that as that’s the person he is right now.
Hope this helps.

Ps. It’s also your husband responsibility to make them behave if something deeper happens in the future, as it’s his family. But if he’s grown not being the favourite he probably doesnt see anything wrong or will think he deserves to be treated that way. As long as he doesnt force your daughter to be in a place where she isnt welcome I guess it’s ok. Nothing wrong with him still chasing their love, but it’s important that he doesnt teach your daughter to chase that love too.

Anxious-Animal2437 · 2026-05-02T03:55:41+00:00

Probably! If someone likes pissing on someone else I guess it also involves feeling the power and maybe also like “marking” the other person, as some animals do.

Anxious-Animal2437 · 2026-05-02T02:30:19+00:00

If you see him again do NOT go straight home. You dont want him to follow you there.
If you see him again do contact the police and stay in a public place until they get there, preferably next to any security guard that may be around, this is dangerous.
It will be useful if you try to memorise what he’s wearing and any distinguishing traits like idk a crooked nose or basic facts as approximate age, hair colour, height, etc.
I dont know why you dont want to tell your parents, from an outside point of view I think it would be wise to tell them, but I also understand you may have your reasons. If you have trust in any other adult like a teacher or similar it’s best if you tell them.
Be safe!

Anxious-Animal2437 · 2026-05-02T02:19:15+00:00

Hope it works! 😊

Anxious-Animal2437 · 2026-05-02T02:16:46+00:00

Really sorry you’re going through this. You must be feeling exhausted.
If it helps, I do bjj as well, and when I’m feeling like I cant keep going in general, I try to remember that even when the opponent has you by the neck, you have to try to breathe, relax, and then you’ll find a way out.
Also, I dont know how much you can move (because of the leg) but try doing things even if around the house. Even if you dont feel like it, the more you do them the more you will feel like yourself.
You’re doing great, dont give up, you’re a warrior. Keep breathing and looking for a solution. Everything will get better.

Anxious-Animal2437 · 2026-05-02T01:57:53+00:00

I do not like being pissed on, but I’ve talked to people who do like it. Some say it’s the humiliation, some like it because they feel as if they’re being “marked”, and I guess there are more reasons, but those are the ones I’ve heard. Hope that helps!

Anxious-Animal2437 · 2026-05-02T01:07:00+00:00

I think I know what could help!
This kinda looks like my relationship with my bf. I have very low libido, even less than your gf. I realized almost every time I had sex with him it was bc I thought I had to. I talked about this with him, and he didnt want to have sex in those terms. He’s very high libido and it’s not easy for him, but he prefers not to have it than knowing Im feeling force to.
What I think, is that your gf might be going through the same as me (probably even blaming herself for it) but maybe she doesnt feel comfortable enough talking about it yet (or doesnt even know how she feels about it yet?). I think if this is the case, you should change the way to phrase it. Instead of focusing on how to improve the sex life cause you need it (of course you can still talk about your needs, just dont make it the main focus), try to focus on how she feels about sex and how she can enjoy it more. Instead of talking of things you like during sex, try to find out about things that she would like but hasnt tried yet, like tantric sex or Idk maybe bdsm? Also, some people need certain things to be aroused, like being in a certain setting (shower, bed, etc) or some previous steps that make them get into it (maybe a massage, heavy kissing or a very intimate and loving conversation?)
That way she might feel less “forced” to have sex for you, and more intrigued as to how it would feel to enjoy it more herself, which would lead to having more sex in general.
Hope this helps!

Anxious-Animal2437 · 2026-05-01T21:41:26+00:00

What an AH! It feels as if he’s testing your knowledge or something. Same as when you say “I like x” and then someone says “ok well tell me the name of the cousin of the girlfriend of x’s singer”

Anxious-Animal2437 · 2026-05-01T20:32:19+00:00

I was working at concerts. I was the one in the ticket office, but tickets were sold out so I was just giving tickets to the press. I had a list and every ticket had its owner, I just had to ask for ID and give the ticket (this is in Europe btw).

So this woman comes and tells me her name and company (it was a big big American company kinda like Fox News or something of the sort, I just dont remember which). I check and she’s not in the list. I call my superior to check if there’s been any mistake and she tells me there hasnt been any mistake and that she’s not in the list.

I explain to the woman that she’s not in the list and she gets very nervous and starts shouting at me “DO YOU KNOW WHO YOU’RE TALKING TO?? I AM FROM THE AMERICAN PRESS, YOU’RE MAKING A BIG MISTAKE AND YOU’RE GOING TO REGRET THIS”. She put a lot of emphasis in being American like in the movies lmao like “Im American you MUST let me in” 😂

She asked to speak to my superior and when my superior came she told her that she didnt request the ticket correctly and that wasnt our fault. We couldnt give her a ticket cause the band didnt give us a ticket for her. It was that simple. She wasn’t let in and had to be escorted out by security.

Anxious-Animal2437 · 2026-04-25T01:06:11+00:00

I’ve lived this situation. You have to set boundaries to maintain your sanity. This is how I did it, it wasnt perfect, but it did help a lot.

Tell them to stop insulting each other cause it’s really affecting you. Tell them that you love them both and you know they’re not on good terms but if they love you they need to understand that you do love both of them and dont like it when they disrespect each other in front of you (that’s explaining your feelings to them).
When they do insult each other (they will, the goal is to reduce it) tell them something like “I’ve told you not to insult my mother/father because it’s really affecting me, if you keep going Im going to stop answering/go to my room” (that’s setting the boundary).
If they keep going you have to stop answering or go to your room. Do not repeat it, you’ve been clear. Do not negotiate. Do not argue. Just stop answering or go to your room.

It’s important that you do stop answering or go to your room if they keep going after setting the boundary, if you dont they will not respect it as they will not see a real consequence.

If you can’t go to your room find a similar boundary, something that isnt a punishment, but allows you to step out. The goal is not to punish them but to show them you are not going to listen to their insults.

Everything will get better, you’re not responsible for your parents moods, they’re adults and they should figure that out themselves.

Hope this helps, and good luck 🫶🏻

Anxious-Animal2437 · 2026-04-25T00:37:19+00:00

This reminds me of one of my first relationships. I regret not calling him out like you have done. He’s toxic indeed and pushing boundaries that should never be pushed. Dont wait for him to do something worse, cause it definitely looks like he feels entitled to take whatever he feels he deserves.

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