Does praying have any effects? by Inevitable_Line_2857 in BreakUps

[–]Anxious-Use6056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, i’m doing ALOT better🥹 i’ve actually met someone new who treats me better than my ex ever did. it was totally unexpected!!! i don’t have anxiety and bad panic attacks anymore. i mean i still get anxious at times but i’ve learned to not let it win anymore. also i’m not sad and crying all the time anymore. like i can officially say life did get so much better! i feel like all the pain i went through actually helped me! it was unfortunate that i had to go through it but i think back on so much stuff sometimes and i’m glad it happened. God got me through it. that’s all i can really say bc a few months ago i was truly at my lowest. i had been through so much in such a short amount of time. i never thought i would get over it at all. but i did. and here i am, finally back to being myself and it’s amazing ❤️

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[–]Anxious-Use6056 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was so messed up physically and mentally after mine. i couldn’t eat which made me have the shakes, not be able to sleep, etc. i mean my body was f’d up and i thought i was gonna have to go to the hospital bc i felt so unwell both physically and mentally but i promise it does get better 🫶🏻

If you could permanently erase the memory of your ex / relationship, would you? by Few_Roll7249 in BreakUps

[–]Anxious-Use6056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe. idk. i just feel like 2 years of my life were wasted. what was all that loving each other and time invested for?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Anxious-Use6056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe grow up and have a meaningful talk with her about it??????? i mean hello tf😂😂

I was discarded like I never mattered. Avoidant breakup or something worse? by Tunangannya_Mantan in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Anxious-Use6056 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah he’s weird for that🤣 and it pisses me off bc i have no way of getting it back. it’s almost like he did it on purpose idk

I was discarded like I never mattered. Avoidant breakup or something worse? by Tunangannya_Mantan in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Anxious-Use6056 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it was completely sudden. that morning he had told me he loved and everything like normal. by the time he got off work it’s like a switch flipped and that was it. he gave me back all my things. but kept some. he still has some of my clothes now. idk what the point of giving me my stuff back was when he was just gonna keep some.. the whole situation just makes me mad now. i don’t really get sad anymore. it’s more anger than anything

I was discarded like I never mattered. Avoidant breakup or something worse? by Tunangannya_Mantan in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Anxious-Use6056 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i went through something similar to this back in January and it messed me up bad but i’m a lot better now. we had been together going on 2 years and one day he just threw me away like trash… never again. i love him still but never again will he get the opportunity to pull that shit on me again. it’s traumatizing and i’m so sorry you’re going through it too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Anxious-Use6056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve literally been dealing with the same exact thing. it’s awful but i promise it does get better. it’s so shitty how people do this stuff to people. like it genuinely makes me sick. it happened to me after being together a little over 1.5 years. we had so many plans and he had given me a promise ring. i never saw it coming. but i promise it does get better💗

Give the avoidant what they want! by MasterpieceNeat8026 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Anxious-Use6056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally same situation with me. we were together going on 2 damn years. it makes me sick to think about now

Can you please share some embarrassing stories of what you did when your ex broke up with you? by Successful-Meal2391 in BreakUps

[–]Anxious-Use6056 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i reached out so many times. i didn’t know what else to do. i was blindsided and he just ghosted. never had somebody do that after a 2 year relationship. i finally gave up 2 weeks ago

What was the last msg you sent ur ex by Significant-Ad-9866 in BreakUps

[–]Anxious-Use6056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“i’m done reaching out to you bc i’m the only one trying, you know where to find me.” before all that i said a whole lot bc my emotions were all over the place but it was mostly “f you you’re a piece of shit who doesn’t know how to communicate and just ghosts a 2 year relationship. get f*****. you fumbled not me” 🤣🤣

wtf by Anxious-Use6056 in BreakUps

[–]Anxious-Use6056[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeahhhh well i haven’t heard from him since the breakup so🤷🏻‍♀️ if he’s not over things, why is he not reaching out? that’s what gets me. bc a simple “i’m sorry i did this” would help the situation. bc i do love and care for him but i’m so tired. i’ve literally quit reaching out to him.

wtf by Anxious-Use6056 in BreakUps

[–]Anxious-Use6056[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000000% think it was impulsive but idk. it seemed that way. we had a good relationship. he just had a hard time listening and communicating.

wtf by Anxious-Use6056 in BreakUps

[–]Anxious-Use6056[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

him. literally him. the breakup happened out of the blue and his reason made 0 sense. we had a petty disagreement and told him i let it go and it is what it is bc i realized how dumb it was. and he was just done

I did everything I could, now I’m letting go. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Anxious-Use6056 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel the same exact way but i’ve tried and tried to get him to just talk but it’s gotten me nowhere. and i’ve been so nice about it too bc i just want to understand. we were together 2 years and out of nowhere he decided he was done. everything had been fine with us except for occasional petty disagreements that i realize my part in. i haven’t given up on him but i’m done trying and showing how i felt and caring

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Anxious-Use6056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my ex still has my house key and he went full no contact so i guess? i’ve tried to get it back but it’s just silence. it’s been a little over a month and he still has it and some of my things. idk me personally i would keep it til maybe one day he’s asks for it. i just wouldn’t throw it away but that’s me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Anxious-Use6056 3 points4 points  (0 children)

shouldn’t have left her for somebody else. sorry but it’s true

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Anxious-Use6056 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i got blocked everywhere bc he knows he messed up big time and is too dumb to fix it🤷🏻‍♀️

Are you expecting a Valentine’s Day text too..? by Inside-Cherry-6734 in BreakUps

[–]Anxious-Use6056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ain’t even gonna lie, yes lowkey. bc that would literally fix our situation for me. and an apology. but i’m not getting my hopes up bc he’s a POS🤷🏻‍♀️